Thanks for the feedback on the #2 RAM slots.
I can see a few reports, with Asus LGA2011 motherboards, with a particular
slot not working. But at this point, haven't seen a thread where the
situation improved.
One person had working RAM the first time, and on subsequent days
had some of the RAM disappear. So whatever connection problem
existed for that person, it didn't happen the first time.
It's possible there is a BIOS component to this problem.
There was a similar problem with LGA1366 triple channel RAM.
In terms of the land grid array processors, when they've been
inserted once, you can pull the processor and examine the gold
pads on the processor. You should see a "dot" in the center of
each gold pad, caused by the land grid "spring" biting into
the gold. If you examine the bottom of the processor, and you
see a quadrant of the processor with very light or non-existent
bite marks, that would imply a problem with the socket.
There have been differences in the past, in the quality of socket
designs. Some Foxconn brand sockets had problems with making
contact. The Lopes brand sockets were supposed to be better.
But that was some time ago, and with one of the lower pin count
sockets. I haven't seen any web site articles about socket
problems with LGA2011 generation. A couple of users are
finding a single bent pin in their socket area, but they weren't
sure whether it was there when the board was delivered or not.
So the searches I've done so far, haven't identified a "smoking gun"
for missing RAM. I don't know what to suggest next for you,
except to suggest it isn't actually a RAM problem, but something
else. The RAM sticks are probably fine, and it's something else
about the DIMM slots themselves, the LGA2011 socket versus CPU,
or some kind of BIOS issue. You could try another version of
BIOS - that is, if the system runs well enough to take a chance
on flashing the BIOS.
Paul