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"Tim Simpson" <tim...@clownschool.org> wrote in message
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She was my cousin, but she spent most of her life in Houston, and I've
spent mine in Los Angeles. I had the honor of meeting Bill on a number
of occasions when he would work in L.A. When he did his stint at the
Tropicana for Rodney Dangerfield, my wife and I came out as his guests.
Pamela and Bill split while they were living in New York. She went back
to Houston and re-married the father of her two boys, who at that time
were pretty much grown. She told me that Bill called her out of the blue
one day and told her that he way dying of cancer. She thought it had to
be a joke at first. But, he just seemed different. He just told her how
much he had appreciated everything she had ever done for him, and he
wanted to say goodbye. Then he died very soon after that.
Bill and Pamela had a lot in common. Both had a very dark and troubled
side. Pamela also fought addiction most of her life. Then, like Bill,
she ended up dying young from Cancer. Hers was in her spine.
"T Bone" <slug...@bigpond.com> wrote in news:Hquoa.18385$1s1.285657
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] Pamela and Bill met in Houston. She was a hair stylist.
"Someone needs to die"
Sad news Tim, sorry for your loss.
--
Curtin
Respectfully adding my condolences.
Joe
What is it with Bill Hicks and cancer? He constantly makes reference
to cancer in his routines, years before he was diagnosed. He talks
about how his mom is always discussing cancer. He talks about lung
cancer and Yul Brynner's noggin. Then he goes and dies of cancer.
Did the Hicks family grow up near a leaky power plant?
I had meant to read "American Scream" for a while and didn't get around
to it until a few days after Pamela died. I was curious to see if the
book would mention her at all. It did, quite extensively.
I was amused to read that when Bill and Pam lived in New York, my Aunt
sent them a TV, a Bed and a credit card for them to use. Pam and her
mother had a very co-dependent type relationship.
I remember meeting Bill for the first time. I live in L.A., and everyone
here is an up and coming young singer/actor/songwriter/comedian/whatever.
They come and go so fast, and you get to a point where meeting the next
one doesn't really phase you. I remember he came with Pam to L.A. to
stay at her sister Pat's house. Pat and I were working together at the
time, and the next day at work she mentioned how strange she found Bill.
She figured that if he were a comedian he should be "funny". But, he was
just this normal, kind of quiet guy. Not unfriendly, just normal to the
point where you wouldn't imagine that he would be a performer.
A few months later, we all went out to Las Vegas to see Bill perform at
the Tropicana. Suddenly, this quiet guy we met at Pat's house was "on"
and talking about pussy, and saying words like "fuck" and "cocksucker",
and guys from the south marrying their sister. Pat was mortified. But,
I loved it. Pamela came over and mentioned to us that Bill had a cleaner
set that he did when his parents came to see him. I was glad his parents
weren't there that night. I don't remember a single other comedian from
that night, but, I can remember what Bill did with great clarity.
It reminded me of another time I accidentally saw a brilliant
performance. Around 1976-77 someone gave me some tickets to a TV taping
of a new show called "Van Dyke and Company". It was a short lived career
revival for Dick Van Dyke. I don't remember anything about the show,
except that he had a guy on they called "Mr. Andy" who sang to a "Mighty
Mouse" record, and did this killer Elvis out of nowhere.
Of course, Bill and Andy had nothing in common except they were both
called comedians and they both died young of cancers that they weren't
really candidates for.
doohic...@yahoo.com wrote in news:3eb1ddc8.10588375
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I, too, have met a number of up-and-coming performers in the Los
Angeles area. At first I was very excited to know them, and I was sure
that at least one of them would get a big break and then I could say
"I knew back when she was starting." But I was merely caught up in
somebody else's fantasy. The people who are definitely not going to
make it are the people who can't even get the basics down, such as
making sure they are always 100% prepared before a performance. If you
don't have discipline you might as well stay in Podunk, Iowa, or
wherever. I get the feeling that while Bill may have let other parts
of his life meander, he rarely took his chosen occupation for granted.
Just a hunch.
--Zak
On Sun, 04 May 2003 17:18:23 -0500, Tim Simpson
I guess the point I'm making is that he did have discipline when it came
to his craft. He was just visiting Pam's family, but when it looked like
the rest of us were going to fade off to bed, Bill went to work.
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