jamef
Sliplover
jamef I dislike pajamas that
you get bound up in. I wore shorty P.J's for years for that reason. I also
would wear regular mens briefs to sleep in but they can be too warm. I
wanted something light, that felt like I was wearing nothing. On a lark I
tried on a pair of my wifes nylon briefs ( Her suggestion ) They were just
right! She said "I'll get you some and did. They were Warners hipsters. I
wear them to sleep in...that's it. No kinky desires, no high heels in the
closet etc. P.S. Jockey For Her Hi-Cut are also quite comfortable. I'm not
into lace or string bikinis...it's just a matter of comfort.
I started wearing my sisters’ bras at 10 or 11, and have continued to do so for
the past 38 years. ( I now buy my own or course.) I did not tell my wife for
the first 7 years of our marriage, but she now considers that disclosure to be
the opening up of our marriage. There was a part of me that I had to conceal
and hide behind gloom, shame anger etc. and a more delicate sensitive part that
would not tolerate her not approving of the practice. The kids, boy and girl 8
and 12, have known for the past four years and consider it part of me. Several
years ago I asked my daughter, then age 6, if I was different when I was wearing
bra and forms, petticoat and jumper. I have long hair and occasionally wear
lipstick, but no other make-up. She said that I was “more pretty and gentler.”
Cross dressing has also has proved positive in some unexpected ways as well.
My son came home one day with the “I will not be cool if I cant do what all the
other kids are doing.” complaint. I replied that I’m hardly like everybody
else. How many Ivy league - black belt - cross dressing - Chemistry professors
does he know that have a wonderful first (and only) marriage? “None.” was the
answer. He left feeling much more resolve to just be himself.
I suggest you find a good therapist, and talk it out with your wife. It is not
easy, but it is very rewarding to be able to be yourself; a more genuine you.
Dear Matt,
Since you're someone who likes to do this sort of thing, perhaps you
can answer a question I've had since joining acl; when you're wearing a
pair of women's panties, how are your male genitals fitting inside the
almost non-existent crotch? Common sense tells me that your testicles are
either going to 1) get split down the middle by the crotch (ouch) or
2) they will both end up hanging out on one side of the crotch.
Now, regarding this particular area of my anatomy, I'm fairly
sensitive there. And to have my genitals hanging like that all day would
be a *major* distraction to me, whether I was a student in a classroom or
an attorney in a courtroom. So perhaps you can also tell me how you and I
are different in this regard.
Curious,
Gary Fournerat (bwbs)
ga...@netin.com
>Dear Matt,
> Since you're someone who likes to do this sort of thing, perhaps you
>can answer a question I've had since joining acl; when you're wearing a
>pair of women's panties, how are your male genitals fitting inside the
>almost non-existent crotch? Common sense tells me that your testicles are
>either going to 1) get split down the middle by the crotch (ouch) or
>2) they will both end up hanging out on one side of the crotch.
Gary,
Have you ever seen more than one pair of panties? How about a couple
of panty girdles? There are many, many styles, offering a great
variety of coverages in different parts of the anatomy. Not all
panties have a tiny strip of cloth between the legs. In particular,
full cut briefs frequently have much more material between the legs
than men's cotton shorts. From another point of view, how do men wear
anything as silly as boxers? Talk about no support!
My husband has worn panties for years without the problems you
describe, perhaps because he and I have sufficient common sense to
purchase garments that fit his needs. With a little thought, you can
too.
I don't believe you are as silly as your post would indicate. Perhaps
you are trying to be cute, perhaps you think you are clever enough to
partake in a little gay-bashing without getting caught, or was that
not your implication-that real men with real genitals couldn't wear
panties!
Real men, straight and gay, can wear panties, girdles, bras or almost
any item of women's underwear with no physical problems if they shop
sensibly.
Perhaps you should get up from behind the computer and go to the
nearest department store and actually look at the dozens of styles of
panties available. One never knows, you might see something that
intrigues.
Ruth
Playtex 18 hour LL panty girdle, Cross-your-heart bra
> Since you're someone who likes to do this sort of thing, perhaps you
>can answer a question I've had since joining acl; when you're wearing a
>pair of women's panties, how are your male genitals fitting inside the
>almost non-existent crotch? Common sense tells me that your testicles are
>either going to 1) get split down the middle by the crotch (ouch) or
>2) they will both end up hanging out on one side of the crotch.
You haven't seen a very large selection of panties then. Panties come
in many different styles. Only low-cut bikini's really have the small
crotch. Most other styles have a full crotch, which is very
comfortable.
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>Dear Matt,
> Since you're someone who likes to do this sort of thing, perhaps you
>can answer a question I've had since joining acl; when you're wearing a
>pair of women's panties, how are your male genitals fitting inside the
>almost non-existent crotch? Common sense tells me that your testicles are
>either going to 1) get split down the middle by the crotch (ouch) or
>2) they will both end up hanging out on one side of the crotch.
> Now, regarding this particular area of my anatomy, I'm fairly
>sensitive there. And to have my genitals hanging like that all day would
>be a *major* distraction to me, whether I was a student in a classroom or
>an attorney in a courtroom. So perhaps you can also tell me how you and I
>are different in this regard.
>
>Curious,
>Gary Fournerat (bwbs)
>ga...@netin.com
Try wearing them backwards then the wide back panel is in front and
provides all the support you need for the family jewels. Some styles
are wide enough in front of course but if not try this method.
Peter.
La Senza white garter belt, WonderBra mink vision stockings, white
nylon high cut briefs, backwards.
> Gary,
>
> Have you ever seen more than one pair of panties?
yes i have, in fact, i'm currently buying all the panties for three
women; sizes 5, 7, and 8; from VS and it runs me about $300/month. when
it comes to panties, i'm very serious.
>How about a couple of panty girdles?
the first time i ever saw a panty girdle was in '59 and it looked just as
tight then as they do now. isn't that their purpose?
> There are many, many styles, offering a great
> variety of coverages in different parts of the anatomy. Not all
> panties have a tiny strip of cloth between the legs. In particular,
> full cut briefs frequently have much more material between the legs
> than men's cotton shorts.
thank you nervous, i didn't know that. my trips inside VS don't usually
take me to the full cut brief section. when i'm buying a woman a pair of
panties you can bet your last good girdle that it won't be full cut
briefs. if i wanted to see a woman in full cut briefs i'd toss her some
of my own underwear to put on... not!
> From another point of view, how do men wear
> anything as silly as boxers? Talk about no support!
we each appear to have our own idea of what the opposite gender looks
"best" wearing. to answer your question though, because they're
comfortable; just like women wear what they think is comfortable. isn't
that fair? or am i being a sexist? i understand that you feel boxers are
silly, and now you are wanting me to think boxer shorts are silly. i'm
sorry but i'm not convinced. you see, for me to think boxers are silly...
I have to think boxers are silly; not you.
> My husband has worn panties for years without the problems you
> describe, perhaps because he and I have sufficient common sense to
> purchase garments that fit his needs.
the fact that you are the one writing this post, and not your husband,
would indicate that you have convinced him that his "needs" dictate he
wear panties. very cute. you're not only a very smart wife but a
domineering one at that. i'm happy for you.
>With a little thought, you can too.
>
"a little thought" being your way of thinking, right? no thanks. i have a
mind of my own and for 42 years it's worked very well without your
presence.
> I don't believe you are as silly as your post would indicate.
i wasn't trying to be silly at all. it was a simple post from a man, to a
man, asking HOW something is done.
>Perhaps you are trying to be cute,
not at all. i was asking HOW something is done.
> perhaps you think you are clever enough to
> partake in a little gay-bashing without getting caught,
nervous, i'll tell you exactly how clever i think i am; i'm clever enough
to know that i don't know enough. and that's precisely the reason for my
post. you can read all you want into my original post, you can add your
own ideas about why i posted it in the first place, but if you really
look at what i said, you just might see that i was seeking knowledge,
without any hidden agenda, simply because i didn't know. can we still do
that in acl?
gay bashing? did Matt say that he was gay? what difference does it
make? Matt's post told me only that he would know how to arrange
the hardware so i asked. another person's sexual preference is none of my
business and i could care less. to me it's like the color of their eyes -
who cares?
> or was that
> not your implication-that real men with real genitals couldn't wear
> panties!
i try to imply nothing. i have a fairly good vocabulary and i don't "beat
around the bush". let me give you an example of what i mean. you pissed
me off when i first read your reply. that's probably not a big surprise.
but i'm not as pissed now as i was then. i was pissed because you took my
quest for knowledge and turned it into something very ugly. allow me to
continue...
>
> Real men, straight and gay, can wear panties, girdles, bras or almost
> any item of women's underwear with no physical problems if they shop
> sensibly.
>
did i say men couldn't wear panties? as i recall, i asked Matt HOW he
does it. that's all i did. that's all i was curious about. that's all i
wanted to know, because i didn't know. now, i've got a question (cause i
don't know); if a man is going to shop sensibly for, say, a panty girdle,
how does he do that?
> Perhaps you should get up from behind the computer and go to the
> nearest department store and actually look at the dozens of styles of
> panties available. One never knows, you might see something that
> intrigues.
Ruth, i do that about twice a week. and i see a ton of panties that
intrigue; i'm about to go in debt from so much intrigue... but i love it
and enjoy it, and am fortunate enough to know ladies that enjoy it also.
but your point was to find panties that would intrigue me enough to want
to wear them. you will see me in panties just as soon as they put screen
doors on submarines.
i just had a thought. isn't it possible that your husband is so much in
love with you that he is willing to wear panties for the pure and simple
reason that he knows it excites you?
>
> Ruth
>
> Playtex 18 hour LL panty girdle, Cross-your-heart bra
hmmmm, i've got another question... if LL stands for long leg, which it
very well may not, what is a long leg panty girdle? i thought a panty
girdle was the kind that looks like a full-cut panty but is made out of a
billion rubber bands, as in no legs to it.
Later,
Gary (not wearing any, save the whales t-shirt)
> Dear Matt,
> Since you're someone who likes to do this sort of thing, perhaps you
> can answer a question I've had since joining acl; when you're wearing a
> pair of women's panties, how are your male genitals fitting inside the
> almost non-existent crotch? Common sense tells me that your testicles are
> either going to 1) get split down the middle by the crotch (ouch) or
> 2) they will both end up hanging out on one side of the crotch.
> Now, regarding this particular area of my anatomy, I'm fairly
> sensitive there. And to have my genitals hanging like that all day would
> be a *major* distraction to me, whether I was a student in a classroom or
> an attorney in a courtroom. So perhaps you can also tell me how you and I
> are different in this regard.
You have to be picky regarding the panties. In general, satin and plain cotton
ones won't do, for the reasons you give. Better are stetch materials - I've
found that stretch cotton panties usually give good coverage. For some reason,
the fronts of cotton thongs are often pretty full as well.
Of course, the best solutio is to buy panties from Apres Noir - lingerie cut
for men. This avoids the problem altogether.
Tom Burke
AN cotton knickers
Sean...(Vanity Fair, pale
blue nylon birefs)
Mb in lil pink satin string bikinis
P.S looking to trade panty pics...e-mail me and we'll chat!
> ....... From another point of view, how do men wear
>anything as silly as boxers? Talk about no support!
The scrotum is designed to suspend the testicles away from the body to
keep the sperm cool, so they don't go off, so the idea that men need
support is scientifically unsound. (And men WERE designed to hunt,
fight, and generally get physical, though I must say putting their
most sensitive bits in a dangling pouch where they are easily grabbed
or banged does not sound like very good design. Maybe God was a
woman, and this was her idea of a little joke at our expense.)
I have never felt any need for any support, even when indulging in
fairly violent (not to say reckless) activity like running down rock
strewn mountainsides, or riding rock slides down scree slopes, and
have always found any degree of confinement of the fittings very
uncomfortable. However, as pointed out in another post, that doesn
not stop me wearing panty girdles. Incidentally open girdles are
worse in this regard, at least when worn with trousers, as they squash
the legs together, and reduce the space between them.
We have had several discussions on the subject in ACL, and it would
seem the majority of men feel that their testicles will get damaged if
they are allowed to swing freely, particularly if they indulge in
contact sports. But it would take a box to give any real degree of
protection, and I can't see that the normal 'support' briefs are going
to make much difference.
Rather like the bra/no bra arguments, I guess.
Bunyip. Hickory HW ll panty girdle, Kolotex Sheer Relief stockings.
(And a lovely set of bruises, and technicolor scrotum, courtesy of
repairs to my hernias last week.)
(And experience indicates it is wise to wait a bit more than seven
days before getting amorous. Ouch :)
[snip]
> most sensitive bits in a dangling pouch where they are easily grabbed
> or banged does not sound like very good design. Maybe God was a
> woman, and this was her idea of a little joke at our expense.)
Billy Connolly has an altenative explanation. It's the 6th day of creation, and
one of god's helpers has a problem:-
"Hey! God! There's a load of elbow skin left over. What shall we do with it?"
"Hmmm... OK, make wee bags so they can put their balls in them!"
Tom Burke
White cotton panties
I, too, love to wear panties and lingerie.
I'd give anything to find a woman in the L.A.
area to share her panties and lingerie and
feminize me.
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