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On Mon, 23 May 2022 10:28:14 -0700, Janithor had the audacity to say the
following:
> My wife was molested by her own grandfather...
So was my daughter. In hindsight, I should have recognized the signs. The
biggest one being when he hung himself in my ex's garage, and the ex refused
to tell me what he said in the note he left. My daughter was the one who
found him. It also explains why he would always leave the room when I came
over, why my ex had told me he was "afraid" of me, but she didn't know why...
and even more importantly, why my daughter had an irrational fear of
bathrooms. Every time she had to go, she would insist that I stand guard
outside the door. She could never tell me what she was afraid of.
On that fateful day, it was I who went to take a shower, and she started
freaking out about being scared. Of what she either couldn't or wouldn't say.
She wanted to wait in the room with me. I didn't like that idea and said no.
I told her I'd leave the door unlocked... not good enough. At that point she
was crying and completely hysterical. She said if she could wait inside,
she'd face the wall and not even look at me. Against my better judgment, I
finally relented. Crying does that to me.
So that was the situation... I thought. I start taking a shower and the next
thing I know, she's got her clothes off and is getting in with me. That was a
situation I was clearly unprepared for but without elaborating further, let me
just say that "someone" had taught her things I wouldn't have expected her to
know, and no... intercourse was never part of it. As dazed and confused as
that experience left me, I still retained at least some modicum of restraint.
It was only after that, that I came to realize how much psychological damage
victims can experience. I had never given it much thought before. I'm
certain my encounter with my daughter would have never happened without her
previous experience with her grandfather, but it did nevertheless, and I have
to bear that responsibility.
When you see someone so hateful and vindictive as "Steve"... someone that I've
known of on Usenet for decades, and spends virtually all his time stalking
"pedophiles," (although one incident with one post-pubescent underage
individual, does not make someone a pedophile for life, IMO) it's a strong
indication that they too were molested as a child. Often, they physically
enjoy it at the time. This is just the way we're wired. It doesn't mean we
liked "it," it just means it felt good, and that adds a layer of guilt... "Why
did I like THAT"? BTW, I learned of this fact from psychologists, courtesy of
the State, it isn't an opinion that I just pulled out of my ass.
I don't owe this explanation to anybody, but you get to hear it anyway, and
you can make of it what you will. Just keep in mind that your response, if
any, may say as much about you as it does about me.
Time to push the button...
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