On 30/03/2020 19:25, ImperiusDamian wrote:
>>> I deleted Facebook a couple of years ago and never looked back. Toxic
>>> fucking place.
>> No you didn't. It's still there.
> In fact I did. I didn't just deactivate; I looked up the link for
> permanent deletion. It's gone.
No, you didn't. It - Facebook - is still there. You did not delete Facebook.
You may have deleted your account, but that's not what you said! :p
And, in fact (being serious now) you didn't fully delete your account. I
know this because I did the same a very long time ago - and later
discovered that it's bollocks.
Several years after supposedly "permanently" deleting the account I
decided to see what would happen if I created a new account again. So I
started the process with the same name, and the same old email address.
It offered to restore the old account. It hadn't truly deleted the old
account, not fully. I don't know how much of the old account was still
there, because I declined; that account is "gone" as well - but
certainly there was enough for them to make that offer.
I also created a new account separately, same name but different email
address, and which until recently I only ever looked at very rarely.
Although at first it was showing me randoms as friend suggestions (and
the only people I *had* added weren't people I had on my friends list
previously) it soon started showing me people who had been on my list on
the old account.
This makes sense *now* because I have added some of the people I had as
friends previously - but when it first started doing it, the only
conclusion could be that it had made the connection with my old,
supposedly deleted account.
(Note: As I said, until recently not used much - but my use has
increased quite a bit this year; while I use Twitter, most of my family
use Facebook, and at the moment that makes it the best way to keep in
general contact.)
And all of that's before we talk about the so-called 'shadow' profiles,
where they build up a picture of your habits even if you don't have an
account and therefore they don't actually know who you are. This is done
most obviously through cookies - so you do have some control (in my
case, for example, I tend to have my main browsers wipe all cookies on
exit), and it goes way beyond that: I'm about as careful (read:
paranoid) as it's possible to be; not just the cookie deletion, but
unique email addresses for different things, only giving out certain
info if I absolutely have to, and even then (if I can get away with it)
making that unique (e.g. I have multiple dates of birth), and so on.
And yet Facebook managed to shock me with their creepy tendrils (and it
still irks me to this day, as much because I haven't sussed out how it
happened as anything else).
What happened was that I looked at the advertising preferences via the
website, and there's a section that shows you things like companies,
applications, etc, you've used. Because of the way I segregate things,
that list should have been empty.
Except that an application that I'd installed on my phone (Plex) was
listed there.
I hadn't ever logged into Facebook on my phone at that point - not only
not via the website, but I also hadn't installed any of their apps - yet
somehow they knew I'd installed Plex.
So, if you think you've escaped Facebook's creepy stalking, think again.
If they can get around my attempts at privacy, they can probably get
around yours as well.