I would use LEDs for the lighting now - that's what I've done with the
clock - those clock bulbs are a real pain to change (and to find). for
the clock, I used a white LED and a dropping resistor - I tried a "12V
LED" from china, it lasted about 6 months and then started to flicker -
with a regular LED and a dropping resistor, all is good.
hook/tab - probably no reasonable fix, it's an odd plastic - I have had
good luck with the special plastic epoxy that DEVCON makes - it has a
strong smell and really etches into the plastic - but if the part you
are describing is what I think it is, I wouldn't sweat it.
By the way, the usual DME relay failure is a solder joint failure, easy
to fix