Robert Carnegie wrote:
> Alex W. wrote:
[...]
> > I would put that sort of thing down to social pressure.
> > Rock Hudson married to scotch career-ending rumours of his
> > homosexuality. Ditto Little Richard, Anthony Perkins,
> > Elton John.
>
> I was referring to George Liberace: maybe he was the
> straight one but didn't want children, or didn't get 'em.
I'm usually not the type to be hyper sensitive about these
things, but i do feel is an unfortunate nature of our
society that men who do not have children are assumed to be
homosexual. And though it may be difficult for the herd
animal to understand this, there are many legitimate reasons
why a man would not become a father. For instance, some men may:
1. be biologically incompatible with their partner
I know that most herd animals care little if they are
biologically compatible with their partner. But there are
(believe it or not) some men (and women!) who actually
consider these biological issues *BEFORE* the pregnancy
occurs.
2. be biologically incapable of having children
That's right folks... not every man is packing millions of
little Michael Phelps down there.
3. perfer their freedom, and thus, do not wish to burden
themselves with the onerous of fatherhood
Fatherhood is huge responsibility. Again, i know most folks
are too busy fogging the car windows in hasty late night
romp in the back seat of a car to care about little things
like the future, or the awesome responsibility of
parenthood... but, some men and women actually think about
these things before hand (*GASP*) Shocking, i know!
4. may be disgusted with the state of society, and thus, do
not want to bring a new life into such a dysfunctional
system.
Our societies are becoming more tyrannical by the day. Who
would, in their right mind, want to subject a child to that
continued erosion of liberty?
5. and finally, some men are _actually_ responsible with
their reproductive fluid. Yep! Another shock! I know!
OMG!
We're learning so much about men today!
>
> [...]
>
> I seem to have got a long way from the question, about
> which I have no idea, of whether great musicians have to be
> gay. And whether that, in itself, justifies denying them a
> cure.
I think claiming that you have to be gay to be a great
musician, a great artist, or a great dancer (to name only a
few misconceptions about "talent") is a dangerous notion.
If there is any correlation between these "talents" and
homosexuality, i would venture to say that the correlation
has more to do with the liberating nature of homosexuality
(meaning, homosexuals are living their lives in the manner
that most pleases them, regardless of what society thinks
about them). And it is this "feeling of liberation" _itself_
(not homosexuality), that gives rise to advanced forms of
creativity.
Liberty is the mother of creativity. While tyranny is the
mentally disturbed serial killer who destroys creativity in
a depraved, bloody-thirsty tirade of sexual sadism.
https://youtu.be/AlveI7aVJas?t=42
But, homosexuality is not the only lifestyle which can
induce a feeling of liberation in the subject. No. Even a
general rejection of society (and the herd conformity it
demands) can induce the same levels of liberation in
heterosexuals.
So yeah, i believe there is a correlation here, but
homosexuality is merely one (very conspicuous) facade of
this relationship. You must dig deeper to find the
inconspicuous.