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How do you fit your penis in a man's anus?
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Syd M.
Nov 8, 2012, 10:20:32 PM11/8/12
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Of course either way, do please make sure you and your partner are
mentally, emotionally, and physically prepared before doing something
like this...
Relaxation is key. So is lube. Using your fingers and lube widen the
opening until you believe your boyfriend is relaxed enough to receive.
It wouldn't be a bad idea to rub the prostate some while relaxing them
either.
General tips on anal:
1. Relax. No, really. Although you can control your sphincter muscles
to a certain degree, the muscles deeper in your rectum work
reflexively, despite your best efforts to relax them. The best way to
"loosen things up" is to let the relaxation start in your head. If
you're lying there expecting pain, you can't help but tighten up.
2. Closely related to number 1: a drink (or 3) never hurt anyone. Many
people require a bit of a buzz before they can take it up the rectum.
Marijuana and a bit of cocaine are also effective.
3. Use. TONS. Of. Lube. Your rectum doesn't lubricate itself, and when
you're dealing with both (A), an extremely narrow passage, and (B),
sensitive tissue that tears easily, you want to make sure to ease the
dildo/penis/plug/carrot/insert phallic object here in there. You're
going to think you're using too much, but you're not. Trust me. Keep
pouring it on there.
4. Start small. You or your partner can start with a finger, then 2,
to get you accustomed to the feeling, help you relax, and apply lube.
5. Go slow. This applies to every step in the process. You should be
in charge of guiding him in. For example, once the head of his penis
is in, take a few breaths, wait, and make sure you're okay. If you
are, indicate to him that he can push further. Every inch or so, stop
to make sure you're okay. Once he's all the way in, you can let him
know if you're okay with full thrusts. Make sure that you maintain
control and don't let him start pounding away. Once you're accustomed,
that'll be fine-but not from the beginning.
mentally, emotionally, and physically prepared before doing something
like this...
Relaxation is key. So is lube. Using your fingers and lube widen the
opening until you believe your boyfriend is relaxed enough to receive.
It wouldn't be a bad idea to rub the prostate some while relaxing them
either.
General tips on anal:
1. Relax. No, really. Although you can control your sphincter muscles
to a certain degree, the muscles deeper in your rectum work
reflexively, despite your best efforts to relax them. The best way to
"loosen things up" is to let the relaxation start in your head. If
you're lying there expecting pain, you can't help but tighten up.
2. Closely related to number 1: a drink (or 3) never hurt anyone. Many
people require a bit of a buzz before they can take it up the rectum.
Marijuana and a bit of cocaine are also effective.
3. Use. TONS. Of. Lube. Your rectum doesn't lubricate itself, and when
you're dealing with both (A), an extremely narrow passage, and (B),
sensitive tissue that tears easily, you want to make sure to ease the
dildo/penis/plug/carrot/insert phallic object here in there. You're
going to think you're using too much, but you're not. Trust me. Keep
pouring it on there.
4. Start small. You or your partner can start with a finger, then 2,
to get you accustomed to the feeling, help you relax, and apply lube.
5. Go slow. This applies to every step in the process. You should be
in charge of guiding him in. For example, once the head of his penis
is in, take a few breaths, wait, and make sure you're okay. If you
are, indicate to him that he can push further. Every inch or so, stop
to make sure you're okay. Once he's all the way in, you can let him
know if you're okay with full thrusts. Make sure that you maintain
control and don't let him start pounding away. Once you're accustomed,
that'll be fine-but not from the beginning.
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Syd M.
Nov 9, 2012, 2:11:24 AM11/9/12
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On Nov 8, 10:20 pm, "Syd M." <seventynine...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Of course <>
More personal experiance, forger boi?
PDW
> Of course <>
More personal experiance, forger boi?
PDW
Usenet Legends bobandcarole £
Dec 7, 2012, 9:22:54 PM12/7/12
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Adam
Dec 8, 2012, 1:08:01 AM12/8/12
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On 12/07/2012 11:52 PM, Joe Bruno wrote:
> asshole.
>
That's not it. Syd doesn't understand the purpose of looking for
another asshole when he's already there. I think he's a bit insulted.
--
Adam & Eve
> On Friday, December 7, 2012 6:22:54 PM UTC-8, Usenet Legends bobandcarole £ wrote:
>>
>>
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>> Ya like that bung-hole eh, sydley? :-)
>
> Syd gets frustrated before sex. He has trouble finding the other guy's
>>
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>> Ya like that bung-hole eh, sydley? :-)
>
> asshole.
>
That's not it. Syd doesn't understand the purpose of looking for
another asshole when he's already there. I think he's a bit insulted.
--
Adam & Eve
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misspi...@gmail.com
Apr 30, 2019, 11:16:29 AM4/30/19
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That's the same with my partner. He has a had time finding my hole.
misspi...@gmail.com
Apr 30, 2019, 11:28:33 AM4/30/19
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What should we do to make it easier?
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