John Baker
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Thank God that sex is not a taboo topic anymore as we can practically
talk about anything that we like without it coming off as too much or
perverted, right? So, do we want to talk about how size matters or what
kind of blowjob we like to give and receive? Or, do we want to talk
about all the crazy places we ended up fingering someone or actually
taking it? Anywho, let’s focus on bottoms this time, and to make things
even spicier (yes, that is possible hunny), let’s talk about submissive
bottoms. Now, everyone loves submissive sex every once in a while, and
here are 10 signs that you’re a submissive bottom. Perhaps this is
something you didn’t know about yourself.
1. You’re a bottom
The first thing that will actually tell you that you are a submissive
bottom is the fact that you are a bottom. If you like taking it up the
ass and you like the feeling of an eggplant inside of you – yes, you are
a bottom, and yes, perhaps even a submissive one. This is also a
preference that changes over time, so even though you might enjoy bottom
sex right now, it doesn’t mean that you won’t top in the future, and
vice versa.
2. Your like submissive sex toys
It is almost 2020, so talking about sex toys is also something that
should never qualify as a taboo. There are people who enjoy adult toys
in the bedroom, and the good thing is that there is a plethora of sex
toys that you can opt for, ranging from vanilla to BDSM that not many
people like. If you prefer the latter, and if you like the sex toys that
are simply not for everyone, well, we have news for you.
3. You like choking
Come on, nobody likes actual choking. Well, nobody likes choking until
Chris Hemsworth comes and puts his big arms around you – yes, Chris, you
can literally choke us all to death and then spit on us! Joking aside
(is it a joke, though?), if you like the idea of having your partner
behind you while you are naked and dictating you how much you are able
to breathe in a sexual way and when – you are pretty kinky and submissive.
4. You’re always the passive one in roleplays
Roleplaying are for everyone, and everyone who says they never performed
any sexual roleplay is probably lying. Even if they are not lying –
dudes, where’s your fun? There are plenty of ways in which you can play
this, and there are literally millions of different scenarios to play
out. But if you’re a student who wants to be punished because he didn’t
do his homework, or if you want to be a patient who cannot move and the
doctor has to perform quite unusual procedures, or if you’re a prisoner
who has to comply to the police officer – you are a member of this group!
5. You like leather
This is actually quite subjective and cannot apply to everyone, but if
you like leather, the black color and putting some black makeup on, you
are probably into BDSM just a little bit. And if you happen to be into
BDSM, then there’s a good chance you’re at least a tad submissive.
6. You like slapping
Just to make things clear – being submissive doesn’t actually mean that
you have to be 100% submissive. This is a spectrum and you can also be
just 2-% submissive, that is totally fine. One of the most popular
sexual fetishes right now is slapping, so if you like a slap during hard
sex, you might consider going a bit harsher just to see if you like it
as well.
7. You like spanking
This might be an even more important sign that you’re a submissive
bottom. If you want your partner to slap you on the ass, and if you
actually do enjoy this movement (and honestly, there are not many bottom
gay guys who do not enjoy this), you might want to call yourself just a
little bit submissive. And do you know how many gay guys love submissive
bottoms? Answer: A lot.
8. You like calling your man “daddy”
“Daddy” can be the sexiest word ever, only if you are into this. So,
calling your partner daddy means that you actually want someone powerful
in the relationship (or bed), someone who will call the shots and tell
you what you can and can’t do. Does daddy have your full attention now?
9. You like it rough
There are always two sides while playing it rough – the one who is
calling the shots and performing the rough parts, and the one who is
taking it and loving it. If you belong to the latter group of people,
there is nothing to be ashamed of – you like it rough, and you like to
be dominated. Why not?
10. You like being in a sandwich
Finally, if you find yourself between two guys, and if you cannot get
enough of one, but if you want both of them to do nasty and bad things
to you – yes, you are a submissive bottom and you should be proud of that!
To sum up – contrary to popular belief, there is literally nothing wrong
with either being submissive or a bottom. If this combination is
something that will make you cum at the end of the day and if this is
something that you like and enjoy – feel free to do it. Sex is good, and
all sex is good (if it is with consent, of course!). Love and let love.
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AA #1898
Giver of No Fucks
Keeper of the Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch