First, from what I have been reading (and I am reading a lot of this
stuff, but I am quite new), some astrologers believe that the star
charts are merely reflections of ourselves, and some seem to believe
that the stars are much more deterministic. (In other words, the stars
tell us what will happen as well as what our choices in life are)
And everybody seems to regard Pluto with a great deal of dread. There's
not much that I can find on Pluto. It seems like a less popular planet
than Venus, Mars, and Saturn. But from what I've been reading, Pluto
has to do with things of depth, intensity, perhaps secrets, or things
buried.
So, I just got a reading that says "Sun Sextile Pluto". The astrologer
I used says this means a time of creativity. But I first thought, "Wow!
Something's going to happen." You know, like I would wake up in the
middle of the Blair Witch Project.
Can anybody give me any ideas on this. I really thought that Venus
would have more to do with being creative and artistic. And does it
mean my mind will be more open to Pluto-like thinking, or that Plut-like
stuff is going to happen in my life?
Just in case anybody needs to know, here are my "star stats":
Virgo, sept 4, 1960,
Born at 2:53 PM, EST, during Daylight Savings Time
40.00 N
75.10 W (Philadelphia)
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Before you buy.
jer...@my-deja.com wrote:
(snippage of fine and worthy sentiments)
> So, I just got a reading that says "Sun Sextile Pluto". The astrologer
> I used says this means a time of creativity. But I first thought, "Wow!
> Something's going to happen." You know, like I would wake up in the
> middle of the Blair Witch Project.
> Can anybody give me any ideas on this. I really thought that Venus
> would have more to do with being creative and artistic. And does it
> mean my mind will be more open to Pluto-like thinking, or that Plut-like
> stuff is going to happen in my life?
*** I tend to think of the Sun as signifying creative drive and
charisma, whereas Venus might better describe the urge to beautify and
to connect with others (which art in the conventional sense certainly
can do). The sextile has always struck me as a little more *voluntary*
than those ball-busting hard aspects (square, opposition)--it seems to
describe *opportunities*, such as when an interesting-looking person
passes your office at work and you have the choice to say something, in
hopes of getting to know them better, or just letting them pass by. And
one way of interpreting Pluto is as a symbol of the collective, and its
aspects to personal planets as describing our role in the collective.
So here's what I might say about Sun sextile Pluto: An opportunity to
act as a creative focal point on behalf of the collective. Imagine, for
example, a rock star (Sun) who is approached with an invitation
(sextile) to perform at a benefit concert for a very worthy and
universal cause--say, AIDS research or world hunger.
I would think that you will find yourself presented with a series of
opportunities which, if taken, would involve you in issues larger than
yourself, and with people who are intense, focused, in need, and/or
otherwise Plutonian.
> Just in case anybody needs to know, here are my "star stats":
>
> Virgo, sept 4, 1960,
> Born at 2:53 PM, EST, during Daylight Savings Time
> 40.00 N
> 75.10 W (Philadelphia)
***MMM...I'm not really sure why you got a "Sun sextile Pluto"
interpretation...Your natal Sun is conjunct Pluto, your progressed Sun
is not sextile Pluto, and transiting Pluto will soon be squaring your
natal Sun.
*** By the way, Jeffrey Green, Steven Forrest, and Donna Cunningham have
all written terrific books about Pluto, which you might find
interesting.
Cheers,
April Elliott Kent
http://www.members.home.com/thebigsky/
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>First of all--Jeri?--I enjoyed your witty and disarming post.
Thank you! I'm sure it must be quite a change among all the
accusations and name calling (even the Puritans got dragged into it!)
And they're dead!)
But alas, I can freely say that though this stuff is fascinating, I am
clueless. I have found some very good sites, but the "outer" planets
are not much discussed. If you should remember the title of that book
on Pluto, I shall be much obliged.
And thank you! It is quite a relief to know that Sun sextile Pluto
does not indicate I am going to get lost in the woods with a bunch of
kids who keep using the F--- word and getting lost. Actually, I think
we owe that witch a favor . . . .
<SNIP>
>So here's what I might say about Sun sextile Pluto: An opportunity to
>act as a creative focal point on behalf of the collective. Imagine, for
>example, a rock star (Sun) who is approached with an invitation
>(sextile) to perform at a benefit concert for a very worthy and
>universal cause--say, AIDS research or world hunger.
>I would think that you will find yourself presented with a series of
>opportunities which, if taken, would involve you in issues larger than
>yourself, and with people who are intense, focused, in need, and/or
>otherwise Plutonian.
>> Just in case anybody needs to know, here are my "star stats":
>>
>> Virgo, sept 4, 1960,
>> Born at 2:53 PM, EST, during Daylight Savings Time
>> 40.00 N
>> 75.10 W (Philadelphia)
>***MMM...I'm not really sure why you got a "Sun sextile Pluto"
>interpretation...Your natal Sun is conjunct Pluto, your progressed Sun
>is not sextile Pluto, and transiting Pluto will soon be squaring your
>natal Sun.
>*** By the way, Jeffrey Green, Steven Forrest, and Donna Cunningham have
>all written terrific books about Pluto, which you might find
>interesting.
Thank you for your kind reply. The reading was taken from a
"forecast" for the next month, based on my chart. According to the
astrologer, from Oct 28, 1999 to Oct 30, The Sun will be sextile to
natal Pluto.
But, to clarify-----your particular belief about all of this is not
that the star and planet alignments are just about our inner selves.
They can also indicate that "events" are going to take place? (Like
the rock star having a chance to do an AIDS benefit. I would consider
that an event. Having a mindset to do such a thing would be an "inner
self" reflection of the stars.)
The event vs. psychology thing sort of has me confused. If the sun
is in conjunction with Jupiter, does that mean I'm going to *get* rich
(event) or that I will *feel* rich? (inner self)
Thanks for your patience!
--Jeri
*** Okay, I get it. This forecast would be referring to the transiting
Sun, that is, the Sun in the sky as we speak; it moves through each sign
pretty quickly, about a month. For that reason, its movements and
aspects aren't given as much "weight" as a slower-moving aspect, such as
would be formed by transiting Pluto to the natal Sun, or the progressed
Sun. This isn't to say it has no meaning or import; but I suspect it
would act more as a "trigger" to catalyze slower moving aspects.
I don't mean to get too complicated here. Basically, you would have
this same aspect every November. You might think back to Novembers past
and see if you find a common thread.
> But, to clarify-----your particular belief about all of this is not
> that the star and planet alignments are just about our inner selves.
> They can also indicate that "events" are going to take place? (Like
> the rock star having a chance to do an AIDS benefit. I would consider
> that an event. Having a mindset to do such a thing would be an "inner
> self" reflection of the stars.)
*** My personal orientation tends toward the free-will, personal
improvement kind of astrology. But of course, we live on earth, and
physical events *do* take place here!--so of course they are reflected
in the chart as well. I think the reason many (but by no means all)
modern astrologers have backed away from "event-oriented"
prognostication is not because it can't be done, but because we live in
a society that stresses the individual's free will and the many, many
choices available to us--unlike many other times in history, when class
structure, sex, race, and so forth curtailed our potential in a much
more obvious way. So it's become arguably more difficult to "predict"
events for individuals with precision, because they generally have a lot
more options available to them.
But I guess a deeper philosophic point (which you may enjoy, with that
Sag ascendant, Jupiter rising, and bushel of 9th house planets!) is one
I've grappled with for the past decade: what's the point, really, of
predicting events? Some argue that it's helpful to the client to be
advised of specific events that might be coming up, like a job loss or a
death in the family, so that they can be prepared. For myself, I'm not
sure I would find it helpful to go to an astrologer and be read a
laundry list of when these kinds of things were going to happen, and
then be sent on my way. With my own clients, I try to offer them what
I've enjoyed in the best readings I've had: that is, perspective on
where they're at, so they have an opportunity to collaborate more
creatively with *whatever* comes their way.
To use the example of the rock star and the benefit concert, I might
make such a prognostication to the rock star and he might call me a
month later and say, "Wow, that's uncanny, how'd you know that?" Nice
validation of astrology and of my ability to interpret it. End of
story. But what if I'd spoken to him instead of upcoming opportunities
to give back to the global community, to use his personal success to
help others? Then we get to have a nice conversation about that area of
his life, which is maybe something that's been much on his mind, and
maybe leads to a deeper, richer exploration of various points in his
chart, and maybe a better understanding of what he has to offer the
world, rather than taking the somewhat isolationist (in my opinion)
approach of predicting what the world is going to be doing to, or
offering, him. The danger of such an approach, I feel, is that it might
tend to foster a sense of helplessness and passivity in your client.
> The event vs. psychology thing sort of has me confused. If the sun
> is in conjunction with Jupiter, does that mean I'm going to *get* rich
> (event) or that I will *feel* rich? (inner self)
*** Is it fair to say, "both"? ;> My take on Jupiter, for instance, is
that wherever it holds influence in your chart (life), you feel richly
blessed. With natal Jupiter in my second house, I've never been
wealthy, but I've always felt lucky about my relationship with money and
material possessions.
> Thanks for your patience!
>
> --Jeri
*** Thanks for the opportunity to share these thoughts with you!
Looking forward to more posts from you.
All the best,
April
>Greetings from the most star-illiterate reader of this board. Get ready
>for questions so basic, you will want to throw cyber shoes at me.
>
>First, from what I have been reading (and I am reading a lot of this
>stuff, but I am quite new), some astrologers believe that the star
>charts are merely reflections of ourselves, and some seem to believe
>that the stars are much more deterministic. (In other words, the stars
>tell us what will happen as well as what our choices in life are)
>
>And everybody seems to regard Pluto with a great deal of dread.
As I try to incorporate future transits to my own chart into my
normally no-predictive-stuff astrology...I'm really trying not to look
at anything with "dread"! Some things look pretty darn challenging,
yes, but I like to think of the challenges as possible opportunities
for growth and change...Pluto in particular....
Pam
recent veteran of Pluto in focal point of my t-square...
email address: beep at west dot net
Rheumatic Disease info: http://www.silcom.com/~sblc
> Greetings from the most star-illiterate reader of this board. Get ready
> for questions so basic, you will want to throw cyber shoes at me.
>
> First, from what I have been reading (and I am reading a lot of this
> stuff, but I am quite new), some astrologers believe that the star
> charts are merely reflections of ourselves, and some seem to believe
> that the stars are much more deterministic. (In other words, the stars
> tell us what will happen as well as what our choices in life are)
>
> And everybody seems to regard Pluto with a great deal of dread. There's
> not much that I can find on Pluto. It seems like a less popular planet
> than Venus, Mars, and Saturn. But from what I've been reading, Pluto
> has to do with things of depth, intensity, perhaps secrets, or things
> buried.
>
> So, I just got a reading that says "Sun Sextile Pluto". The astrologer
> I used says this means a time of creativity. But I first thought, "Wow!
> Something's going to happen." You know, like I would wake up in the
> middle of the Blair Witch Project.
>
> Can anybody give me any ideas on this. I really thought that Venus
> would have more to do with being creative and artistic. And does it
> mean my mind will be more open to Pluto-like thinking, or that Plut-like
> stuff is going to happen in my life?
>
> Just in case anybody needs to know, here are my "star stats":
>
> Virgo, sept 4, 1960,
> Born at 2:53 PM, EST, during Daylight Savings Time
> 40.00 N
> 75.10 W (Philadelphia)
>
> Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
> Before you buy.
Hi Jeri,
Your birthday is the day before mine, but three years earlier. I also have
Sun conjunct Pluto in my birth chart, but where yours is with an orb
(separation) of 6:07 degrees, mine is 0:06 degrees (six minutes). Is Labor
Day weekend your own personal holiday too?
Let me say a few things about Pluto. IMHO, a lot of the fear surrounding
Pluto that is often expressed in this group is unnecessarily exaggerated. I
know, I was one of the people talking about my Sun - Pluto conjunction, and
all the terrible things that happened to me, so I'm guilty of this
exaggeration too. Pluto has to do with change in a transforming way. I've
come to think of change, growth, personal evolution as a way of life. Pluto
can have some positive qualities. Relating to change and transformation,
Pluto is associated with regeneration, birth, and therefore the creative
process, as in the creation of life. Negatively, Pluto is like a steam
roller: slow, ponderous, inexorable, unavoidable. If you stand in the way,
oblivious of it's approach, you will get flattened. You can try to step
aside, run away, but a Pluto transit will eventually catch up to you. With
the awareness that astrology brings, you can climb aboard the steam roller
and ride it rather than get flattened by it. The advice to me once was to
"ride the dragon!"
Any astrologer who believes absolute fatalism is being irresponsible.
Here's my opinion. If every twitch of the eyelid were determined by the
most minute and obscure transits, then life wouldn't have any meaning in
itself. Astrology describes (does not determine) the influences at work in
our lives, and it's up to our own free will how we respond to those
influences. There's an old quotation you'll probably come across sooner or
later that "The stars impel, they do not compel." With this in mind, I see
a lot of people falling into the trap of over interpreting their chart.
Some people who are not conversant with astrology will learn about their Sun
sign, and subconsciously play out that role, not realizing that there are
stronger influences from other sources in their natal chart. Other people
who are more conversant with astrology will look at the more obscure
details, and maybe assume that everything is equally significant, and play
out the roles dictated by less significant details. This is a form of
auto-suggestion in both cases, and leads to unrealized potential. So some
amount of perspective is required to know what is the most important
influences, and how to make the best of who you are and how you experience
life. This perspective is ultimately an art form that grows out of a never
ending process of learning, growing and evolving as a person. So that's my
philosophical take on astrology.
I took a look at your chart, and you do indeed have Sun transiting sextile
to Natal Pluto exact 10/29/1999. This is a very short-term influence,
lasting a couple of days or so. If it were the other way around, Pluto
transiting sextile to natal Sun, it would be a much longer lasting transit
(due to the slow movement of Pluto), and it would hit probably three,
possibly five times and last a couple of years. This would be a much more
significant influence than Sun transiting Pluto. The Pluto transiting
square natal Sun you have coming up (I have it too) will be an exact hit on
1/18/2000, 5/15/2000, and 11/15/2000. It generally has influence felt about
three months before and after the exact hit, and may have another secondary
period without an exact hit as Pluto retrogrades and goes direct back and
forth near the exact position. The Sun transiting to Pluto can have it's
creative qualities, but it will be more personal, not necessarily involving
other people. The Pluto transiting square Sun is more of a power struggle
type of situation. You may already be feeling this. I know I am. I work
in Tech Support. Today, I had to tell a guy who wasn't cooperating and
wasn't willing to consider my suggestions that there was nothing more I
could do for him. This might be the first time ever I close an incident
with a resolution code of "unresolved". This is the kind of power struggles
I'm learning to deal with in a Pluto transiting square Sun.
Mark
What do you think of Sun/Pluto in synastry?
I have lots of friends with their Suns conjunct and opp my Pluto...I
grew up in a household where my Pluto was opp one's Sun, square two
others, and for the last their Pluto squared my Sun :)
Pam
never a dull moment
I see. I agree with you that a laundry list of events would be a big
drag. And the person would run the danger of all prophecies being
self fulfilling. Hmmm. Actually, I am starting to see that being an
astrologer might bring up all kinds of ethical questions.
Did you ever read CS Lewis' CHRONICLES OF NARNIA? In the second book,
PRINCE CASPIAN, Caspian and his tutor go up to the top of the castle
at night, and the tutor shows him two great planets coming into
conjunction, and he says, "There! Tarva and Umbril have kissed." This
wasn't an everyday sort of alignment. It was a big major one that
indicated great events coming on. It indicated, in fact, that Narnia
would be re-established, and Caspian, of course, was to be her king.
Are there great big alignments like that in a person's life? Not that
I aim to be king. But what I really want is knowledge of my destiny:
if I am meant to be one thing or another.
--Jeri
> On Thu, 28 Oct 1999 01:00:31 CST, Mark Martin <mpma...@bwn.net>
> wrote:
>
> >
> >Let me say a few things about Pluto. IMHO, a lot of the fear surrounding
> >Pluto that is often expressed in this group is unnecessarily exaggerated. I
> >know, I was one of the people talking about my Sun - Pluto conjunction, and
> >all the terrible things that happened to me, so I'm guilty of this
> >exaggeration too.
>
> What do you think of Sun/Pluto in synastry?
>
> I have lots of friends with their Suns conjunct and opp my Pluto...I
> grew up in a household where my Pluto was opp one's Sun, square two
> others, and for the last their Pluto squared my Sun :)
I wouldn't think that Pluto - Sun interactions would be particularly romantic.
Interestingly though, Pluto conjunct Sun is considered a key aspect for a solid
relationship. The Pluto person is a major influence in the Sun person's life,
bring some rather intense changes into this person's life. Pluto either thinks
of Sun as a sort of hero or heroine, or despises this person and everything they
represent. Pluto can psychologically overpower Sun. The whole thing leaves me
with the impression of a co-dependent relationship with a sort of guru or
father-figure. How Pluto handles this would determine whether the relationship
was dysfunctional or not. I remember the U2 lyrics:
"Have you come here for forgiveness?
Have you come here to raise the dead?
Have you come here to play Jesus
To the lepers in your head?"
I would think that Sun opposite Pluto would also be considered a key aspect, but
it's not. The same type of interaction is going on here, but with a twist. The
Sun person might have a stronger counter-reaction to Pluto's power trips, and in
so doing, transform themselves, rather than being transformed by Pluto. In this
case, Sun tends to get the upper hand, and Pluto will want to re-evaluate where
they are coming from and why they want to change the Sun person. There's a sort
of turning away from each other, causing each person to examine themselves in a
new light.
Sun square Pluto strangely seems to indicate great intimacy, especially
sexually. This becomes a serious problem and breaks down as the Sun person feels
invaded or violated by Pluto. This would be understandable if Pluto becomes
obsessive of Sun. There's a significant lesson to be learned here. If the
conflict is resolved and an understanding reached, then the process could have a
bonding effect in the relationship.
I should give Sun trine Pluto some air time too. This is a mutually
regenerative, self-renewing partnership. Sun benefits from Pluto's insights or
resources, while Pluto is given much needed confidence by Sun's convincing
appreciation or admiration of Pluto's qualities. Together, the two people can
make changes in their sphere of influence, whether it's society, work
environment, family, or in whatever context the relationship operates.
>
> Pam
> never a dull moment
>
> email address:
> beep at west dot net
> Rheumatic Disease info:
> http://www.silcom.com/~sblc
Mark
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[snip]
Hi Mark,
I'm enjoying your insight here. I went through a three year
relationship with a girl who's Pluto was opposite my Sun. There
was a lot more tied into this, as her Uranus was also opposite,
and her Chiron/ Saturn was conjunct. (phew!!). She was and still
is, one of the most accomplished emotional manipulators I have
ever met.
For a long time I allowed myself to be dragged hither and yon by
her intense and powerful emotional undertow, but eventually, over
time, I began to respond differently to all these shennanigans.
To put it simply, I worked hard to stay in "Adult" mode, and not
get dragged into "Good Parent", who was often seen as "Bad
Parent".
I did indeed have to transform myself in a most fundamental way.
And I turned away from her finally, 2 months before the wedding.
Why did I stay with her so long? In the words of the old gag: "I
needed the eggs."
And my Chiron is on her Venus.
> Sun square Pluto strangely seems to indicate great intimacy,
especially
> sexually. This becomes a serious problem and breaks down as
the Sun person feels
> invaded or violated by Pluto. This would be understandable if
Pluto becomes
> obsessive of Sun. There's a significant lesson to be learned
here. If the
> conflict is resolved and an understanding reached, then the
process could have a
> bonding effect in the relationship.
>
> I should give Sun trine Pluto some air time too. This is a
mutually
> regenerative, self-renewing partnership. Sun benefits from
Pluto's insights or
> resources, while Pluto is given much needed confidence by Sun's
convincing
> appreciation or admiration of Pluto's qualities. Together, the
two people can
> make changes in their sphere of influence, whether it's
society, work
> environment, family, or in whatever context the relationship
operates.
> Mark
Pete.
**Dream as if you'll live forever...
Live as if you'll die today...**
>
>
>Beep wrote:
>
>> On Thu, 28 Oct 1999 01:00:31 CST, Mark Martin <mpma...@bwn.net>
>> wrote:
>>
>> >
>> >Let me say a few things about Pluto. IMHO, a lot of the fear surrounding
>> >Pluto that is often expressed in this group is unnecessarily exaggerated. I
>> >know, I was one of the people talking about my Sun - Pluto conjunction, and
>> >all the terrible things that happened to me, so I'm guilty of this
>> >exaggeration too.
>>
>> What do you think of Sun/Pluto in synastry?
>>
>> I have lots of friends with their Suns conjunct and opp my Pluto...I
>> grew up in a household where my Pluto was opp one's Sun, square two
>> others, and for the last their Pluto squared my Sun :)
>
>I wouldn't think that Pluto - Sun interactions would be particularly romantic.
>Interestingly though, Pluto conjunct Sun is considered a key aspect for a solid
>relationship. The Pluto person is a major influence in the Sun person's life,
>bring some rather intense changes into this person's life. Pluto either thinks
>of Sun as a sort of hero or heroine, or despises this person and everything they
>represent. Pluto can psychologically overpower Sun. The whole thing leaves me
>with the impression of a co-dependent relationship with a sort of guru or
>father-figure. How Pluto handles this would determine whether the relationship
>was dysfunctional or not. I remember the U2 lyrics:
>"Have you come here for forgiveness?
>Have you come here to raise the dead?
>Have you come here to play Jesus
>To the lepers in your head?"
Interesting.
I have had quite a few platonic friendships with my Pluto conjunct
their sun...I'm trying to translate what you have said into that
context.
>
>I would think that Sun opposite Pluto would also be considered a key aspect, but
>it's not. The same type of interaction is going on here, but with a twist. The
>Sun person might have a stronger counter-reaction to Pluto's power trips, and in
>so doing, transform themselves, rather than being transformed by Pluto. In this
>case, Sun tends to get the upper hand, and Pluto will want to re-evaluate where
>they are coming from and why they want to change the Sun person. There's a sort
>of turning away from each other, causing each person to examine themselves in a
>new light.
Hmm.
The relatives that I have this aspect with...we aren't in contact,
now.
Some friends have stuck with it, but we aren't as close as we once
were (my Pluto, their sun)
>
>Sun square Pluto strangely seems to indicate great intimacy, especially
>sexually. This becomes a serious problem and breaks down as the Sun person feels
>invaded or violated by Pluto. This would be understandable if Pluto becomes
>obsessive of Sun. There's a significant lesson to be learned here. If the
>conflict is resolved and an understanding reached, then the process could have a
>bonding effect in the relationship.
Well the one I was thinking of was NOT a sexual relationship at
all...it is a parent/child relationship which went through a lot of
truly horrific things before a bond of friendship was made (parent's
Pluto square child's sun)
>
>I should give Sun trine Pluto some air time too. This is a mutually
>regenerative, self-renewing partnership. Sun benefits from Pluto's insights or
>resources, while Pluto is given much needed confidence by Sun's convincing
>appreciation or admiration of Pluto's qualities. Together, the two people can
>make changes in their sphere of influence, whether it's society, work
>environment, family, or in whatever context the relationship operates.
Trine?
What's that?
(me looks around in my life...draws a blank ;) )
Mark, thank you for what you have written. I will save it for
reference; it was very interesting and thought-provoking.
Pam
Pluto-ruled
This is Dead on IMO. I was working with a lady at the base on development
of a new computer system whose Mars/Pluto conjunction in Virgo opposed my
Sun/Venus conjunction in Pisces. (I also have the same Sun/Pluto opp
natally within a half degree orb.) Originally we got on well together but
as more responsibility was delegated to her by supervisors all of her
latent "stuff" started emerging (this was also noticed by other personnel)
and consequently I developed a strong "allergic" reaction to her power
trips, aggressiveness, and dominating tactics, to the point where we had
limited personal interaction (although we were only about 2-300 ft apart in
different rooms). The result (i.e. transformation) is that I've learned to
be more self-assertive, and not be used/manipulated by people who are prone
to doing so to others (whether it's conscious or unconscious).
In general, I also think all Sun/Pluto interaspects have some sort of
karmic meaning IMO, but this is intuition on my part.
Max
Mark Martin wrote:
>
> Beep wrote:
>
> > On Thu, 28 Oct 1999 01:00:31 CST, Mark Martin <mpma...@bwn.net>
> > wrote:
> >
> > >
> > >Let me say a few things about Pluto. IMHO, a lot of the fear surrounding
> > >Pluto that is often expressed in this group is unnecessarily exaggerated. I
> > >know, I was one of the people talking about my Sun - Pluto conjunction, and
> > >all the terrible things that happened to me, so I'm guilty of this
> > >exaggeration too.
> >
> > What do you think of Sun/Pluto in synastry?
> >
> > I have lots of friends with their Suns conjunct and opp my Pluto...I
> > grew up in a household where my Pluto was opp one's Sun, square two
> > others, and for the last their Pluto squared my Sun :)
>
> I wouldn't think that Pluto - Sun interactions would be particularly romantic.
> Interestingly though, Pluto conjunct Sun is considered a key aspect for a solid
> relationship.
I doubt it :), though there are many inovations in astrology today. A
Sun/Mars conjunction is a negative aspect, therefore a Sun/Pluto
conjunction would be more intense, not recommended.
Thomas
The Pluto person is a major influence in the Sun person's life,
> bring some rather intense changes into this person's life. Pluto either thinks
> of Sun as a sort of hero or heroine, or despises this person and everything they
> represent. Pluto can psychologically overpower Sun. The whole thing leaves me
> with the impression of a co-dependent relationship with a sort of guru or
> father-figure. How Pluto handles this would determine whether the relationship
> was dysfunctional or not. I remember the U2 lyrics:
> "Have you come here for forgiveness?
> Have you come here to raise the dead?
> Have you come here to play Jesus
> To the lepers in your head?"
>
> I would think that Sun opposite Pluto would also be considered a key aspect, but
> it's not. The same type of interaction is going on here, but with a twist. The
> Sun person might have a stronger counter-reaction to Pluto's power trips, and in
> so doing, transform themselves, rather than being transformed by Pluto. In this
> case, Sun tends to get the upper hand, and Pluto will want to re-evaluate where
> they are coming from and why they want to change the Sun person. There's a sort
> of turning away from each other, causing each person to examine themselves in a
> new light.
>
> Sun square Pluto strangely seems to indicate great intimacy, especially
> sexually. This becomes a serious problem and breaks down as the Sun person feels
> invaded or violated by Pluto. This would be understandable if Pluto becomes
> obsessive of Sun. There's a significant lesson to be learned here. If the
> conflict is resolved and an understanding reached, then the process could have a
> bonding effect in the relationship.
>
> I should give Sun trine Pluto some air time too. This is a mutually
> regenerative, self-renewing partnership. Sun benefits from Pluto's insights or
> resources, while Pluto is given much needed confidence by Sun's convincing
> appreciation or admiration of Pluto's qualities. Together, the two people can
> make changes in their sphere of influence, whether it's society, work
> environment, family, or in whatever context the relationship operates.
>
> >
> > Pam
> > never a dull moment
> >
> > email address:
> > beep at west dot net
> > Rheumatic Disease info:
> > http://www.silcom.com/~sblc
>
> Mark
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Sheesh, you know I love you, Thomas, but every now and then I think
you are the reincarnation of William Lilly. And, in this case, I think
you are correct...its not a socially accomodating aspect...unless there
is a war on at the time.
Rog
>
>Thomas Seers <bel...@acelink.net> wrote in message
>news:3819948E...@acelink.net...
>>
>>
>> Mark Martin wrote:
>> >
>> > Beep wrote:
>> >
>> > > On Thu, 28 Oct 1999 01:00:31 CST, Mark Martin <mpma...@bwn.net>
>> > > wrote:
>> > >
>> > > >
>> > > >Let me say a few things about Pluto. IMHO, a lot of the fear
>surrounding
>> > > >Pluto that is often expressed in this group is unnecessarily
>exaggerated. I
>> > > >know, I was one of the people talking about my Sun - Pluto
>conjunction, and
>> > > >all the terrible things that happened to me, so I'm guilty of
>this
>> > > >exaggeration too.
>> > >
>> > > What do you think of Sun/Pluto in synastry?
>> > >
>> > > I have lots of friends with their Suns conjunct and opp my
>Pluto...I
>> > > grew up in a household where my Pluto was opp one's Sun, square
>two
>> > > others, and for the last their Pluto squared my Sun :)
>> >
>> > I wouldn't think that Pluto - Sun interactions would be particularly
>romantic.
>> > Interestingly though, Pluto conjunct Sun is considered a key aspect
>for a solid
>> > relationship.
>>
>> I doubt it :), though there are many inovations in astrology today. A
>> Sun/Mars conjunction is a negative aspect, therefore a Sun/Pluto
>> conjunction would be more intense, not recommended.
>> Thomas
>
> Sheesh, you know I love you, Thomas, but every now and then I think
>you are the reincarnation of William Lilly. And, in this case, I think
>you are correct...its not a socially accomodating aspect...unless there
>is a war on at the time.
>
>
>Rog
>
>
>>
>>
Well, I have this with a huge proportion of my friends...and my family
:)
Pam
this means war??? ;)
One time I said the following to somebody and it clicked for them. It
might for you, too.
There is no past and future.
There are two futures.
You get to pick which you're going to have.
One is the destiny that makes you, born out of what you perceive to be
the past.
The other is the destiny you make, born out of what you perceive to be
the future.
In all cases, the thing you are about to become is the thing you were
"meant to be" when you consider the karmic rules that are in place
that make it all happen if you opt to cede control.
tvp
>>jeriwho wrote:
>>Are there great big alignments like that in a person's life? Not that
>>I aim to be king. But what I really want is knowledge of my destiny:
>>if I am meant to be one thing or another.
>One time I said the following to somebody and it clicked for them. It
>might for you, too.
>There is no past and future.
>There are two futures.
>You get to pick which you're going to have.
>One is the destiny that makes you, born out of what you perceive to be
>the past.
>The other is the destiny you make, born out of what you perceive to be
>the future.
>In all cases, the thing you are about to become is the thing you were
>"meant to be" when you consider the karmic rules that are in place
>that make it all happen if you opt to cede control.
>tvp
I think that is an intriguiing philosophy to have as an overall
approach to life, but I am taking a much more strategic approach to a
single, definite goal. I want to know exactly what conditions are
favorable and how much influence they have over actual events so that
I can make a strategy and act upon it. My own past doesn't come into
play at all except for the skills I have accumulated and now hold in
possession. My own future as a global thing is not my target. I just
want as much information as possible to achieve a specific goal that I
want to achieve.
If the stars carry no weight in terms of what others do or what I can
expect form my environment, then I will plan my strategy one way. But
if the stars do carry an influence on things that will happen out of
my personal control, I would like to know how influential they are and
what the indications are so that I can behave in accord with them to
achieve my ends.
Hope that clarifies it!
Here is where you err. And seeing it is important. The past is
*always* in play.
Even though I admit that it is completely over-come-able, I will never
say that it is *ever* over-look-able under any circumstances.
The degree to which you learn it's lessons indicates it's
"over-come-able-ness", the degree to which you ignore those lessons is
the degree to which it will bite you in the ass.
(Pardon the vulgarity, it sounded so much better that way.)
>My own future as a global thing is not my target. I just
>want as much information as possible to achieve a specific goal that I
>want to achieve.
If you put the effort necessary into getting there, the chance of
getting there is maximized.
The planets are best viewed as the energies of the past OR the
opportunities of the future.
Pick one.
tvp
I thought this list was just a software release list. Is this the norm to be
discussing astrological techniques and such? (Not that I mind, I just want
to clarify my own understanding.)
--
Best Wishes,
Michael
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>
> I have an experience of Sun|pluto relationship. My friend's pluto is
> tightly conjunct my Sun. Add to that venus! They are conjunct too.
> Some one described this as "two psychological octopuses wrestling
> constantly...". Yes. It is stimulating but at times very tiring too
> because pluto tries to manipulate Sun.
>
> I was told that it creates a lasting creative bond.
>
>
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>
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>Here is where you err. And seeing it is important. The past is
>*always* in play.
No, Tad, it really isn't. Not in terms of making a strategy. I've
supplied a client with everything available to support the client up
to this point, and I need to know the client's mindset. Case closed.
My past really doesn't enter into it. If the client is favorable or
interested in my process, I would like to know this, and I will
continue to make the time investment to gain the client for future
support processes. If the client is unable to view my method as
workable in his situation, then I would like to just close up shop and
move on. It's a matter of wanting to know how amenable the client is.
This doesn't have much to do with my past. It does have to do with
conditions being favorable, or the client himself being favorable to a
particular process of support.
At first I was concerned that the Pluto situation (since so many
people seem to think of it as unlucky or bad) indicated that this was
just a bad time to offer a support method to a client. I was
wondering if I should wait.
Otherwise, my only interest for myself in terms of the Pluto
situation is the idea that maybe the time is now right for me to
discover a flaw in the process itself or in my methodology of creating
the support process for the client. As I understand it, Pluto's
influence is to discover what needs to be killed off in order to
bring to llife a transformed, living replacement.
I suppose I could use this event, (or any event) to sit and stare at
myself and my past, but I have a job to do and a goal to reach and a
client to win. And even though introspection does make up a part of
my life, not this part. For this I need strategy, information, and
decision.
>>My own future as a global thing is not my target. I just
>>want as much information as possible to achieve a specific goal that I
>>want to achieve.
>If you put the effort necessary into getting there, the chance of
>getting there is maximized.
Thank you, I know that. Having done all that I could do, I would like
to know if the stars/planets have any influence on conditions
themselves.
>The planets are best viewed as the energies of the past OR the
>opportunities of the future.
>Pick one.
I'm still looking to see if anybody can read them (or if they truly
have inflluence) as determiners of conditions that exist in a person's
environment. In othe words, if certain times under their influence
are more auspicious for winning a client than other times.
jw
> Mark Martin <mpma...@bwn.net> wrote in message
> news:38194D11...@bwn.net...
> >
> > I would think that Sun opposite Pluto would also be considered
> a key aspect, but
> > it's not. The same type of interaction is going on here, but
> with a twist. The
> > Sun person might have a stronger counter-reaction to Pluto's
> power trips, and in
> > so doing, transform themselves, rather than being transformed
> by Pluto. In this
> > case, Sun tends to get the upper hand, and Pluto will want to
> re-evaluate where
> > they are coming from and why they want to change the Sun
> person. There's a sort
> > of turning away from each other, causing each person to examine
> themselves in a
> > new light.
> >
> Hi Mark,
> I'm enjoying your insight here. I went through a three year
> relationship with a girl who's Pluto was opposite my Sun. There
> was a lot more tied into this, as her Uranus was also opposite,
> and her Chiron/ Saturn was conjunct. (phew!!). She was and still
> is, one of the most accomplished emotional manipulators I have
> ever met.
> For a long time I allowed myself to be dragged hither and yon by
> her intense and powerful emotional undertow, but eventually, over
> time, I began to respond differently to all these shennanigans.
> To put it simply, I worked hard to stay in "Adult" mode, and not
> get dragged into "Good Parent", who was often seen as "Bad
> Parent".
> I did indeed have to transform myself in a most fundamental way.
> And I turned away from her finally, 2 months before the wedding.
>
> Why did I stay with her so long? In the words of the old gag: "I
> needed the eggs."
> And my Chiron is on her Venus.
This is fascinating. I was just summarizing the sections on these
particular four cross-aspects from Lyn Birkbeck "Do It Yourself
Relationship Astrology". Now, at least a couple of people are
confirming the indications from what I wrote. I'm pretty impressed with
Birkbeck's ability to synthesize the interpretations and come up with
situations and responses that are likely to occur.
It would be interesting to see, Pete, if this girl you mentioned had
things in her natal chart, or maybe progressions that made her a
particularly Plutonian type of personality? Or was it just the
interaction between the two of you that brought out all this
manipulation? Also, how close was the orb on this aspect?
I'm still a bit perplexed at why Birkbeck considers Sun conj. Pluto a
"key aspect". I guess this isn't necessarily a negative aspect, if both
sides make the best of it. But then, I don't think a "key aspect" needs
to be positive, just significant; in this case the Pluto person makes a
significant impact on the Sun person's life. It could be a therapist,
professor, manager, legal counselor, marriage counselor, or anyone else
who makes a profound, transforming change in the person's life without
it being a romantic relationship. There are some aspects that Birkbeck
indicates are both "key" and "teardrop aspect", or particularly
sorrowful. e.g. Moon opp. Pluto. Here, he's saying the Pluto person
emotionally feeds off the Moon person in order to subconsciously gain a
position of power. There's a parent-child type relationship happening,
a lot of crap going on that in the end either makes or breaks the
relationship. Yuck.
Mark
>There are some aspects that Birkbeck
>indicates are both "key" and "teardrop aspect", or particularly
>sorrowful. e.g. Moon opp. Pluto. Here, he's saying the Pluto person
>emotionally feeds off the Moon person in order to subconsciously gain a
>position of power. There's a parent-child type relationship happening,
>a lot of crap going on that in the end either makes or breaks the
>relationship. Yuck.
Heh.
What about Moon square Pluto...?
Pam
I may have to buy the book
*** I like it!
> I suppose I could use this event, (or any event) to sit and stare at
> myself and my past, but I have a job to do and a goal to reach and a
> client to win. And even though introspection does make up a part of
> my life, not this part. For this I need strategy, information, and
> decision.
>
> >>My own future as a global thing is not my target. I just
> >>want as much information as possible to achieve a specific goal that I
> >>want to achieve.
>
> >If you put the effort necessary into getting there, the chance of
> >getting there is maximized.
>
> Thank you, I know that. Having done all that I could do, I would like
> to know if the stars/planets have any influence on conditions
> themselves.
>
> >The planets are best viewed as the energies of the past OR the
> >opportunities of the future.
>
> >Pick one.
>
> I'm still looking to see if anybody can read them (or if they truly
> have inflluence) as determiners of conditions that exist in a person's
> environment. In othe words, if certain times under their influence
> are more auspicious for winning a client than other times.
>
> jw
I would say, yes, definitely they can be read that way, I just would
prefer to say "indicators"--as in, *describing* the conditions-- rather
than "determiners," which suggests the planets are actually, physically
exerting sway. But, that's me, and you'll probably find many
astrologers who believe in a causal explanation of planetary influences.
In any case, I suspect what you might be looking for is a good,
traditional, cookbook style guide to transits, such as Rob Hand's
classic "Planets in Transits." It sounds as though we are all jumping
in with best intentions to give you ideology when what you really need
in this instance is good old fashioned, nuts and bolts stuff, practical
stuff like, "What's the best day to have this meeting?" Am I reading
you here? And I think Hand's book is a really terrific place to start.
I think March & McEvers' "The Only Way to Learn About Horary and
Electional Astrology" (or something very close to that) is quite good
too, depending on your level of technical astrological understanding.
Hope this helps!
All the best,
April Kent
First
of all I've been an astrologer for over 8 years but because
of my head for business.. Astrology is not my main profession..
even though I utilize it every day. With that said I have been
in Sales working with clients for over 13 years in many dog eat
dog arenas and been number one in sales no matter what I did.
Why? easy... I don't look at clients as "winning". I look at them as
human beings that in many cases have become my friends as well.
People I care about enough to "improve" their situation.
I cannot sell anyone anything that I truly feel would not or
could not work for them. A good example is me selling
more ads than anyone but upon seeing that the product
itself that someone else created was NOT improving
my clients bottom line..I quit. Yes...I am that caring and
that honest..
yes you Can care, be honest and still be number one
with out looking at it as "winning". You don't "win" clients,
you cultivate relationships to improve conditions. Until
you stop viewing people as something you "win" you
will always be lost. And I for one will not teach anyone
how to use astrology for such a negative reason as you
are searching for. You have much to learn it seems; not just
about Astrology, but much more importantly, how to view
people. I'm an extremely intuitive person and quite frankly
anyone who needs to use or ask about astrology in regards
to "winning" clients..immediately tells me that they are failing
at it without astrology.
"Your process" in sales is the kiss of death. There is no room
for "your" anything when dealing with clients. It's not about
"you" it's about "them" Perhaps it's my attitude about clients
that has got me where I am today. I learned it from my Dad as a child
and he became a millionaire with the exact same approach that
I use too.. It's because of this approach
that I was asked to be Director of sales for a startup company that
sold triple what the competition was selling and they had 20 times
our financial resources. Serve others and not yourself and you
will go far. Ye shall reap what you have sown.
If you want to know about Pluto..you're going to learn quite
a bit about him in the years to come. He seems to already
have you firmly in his sight ; and apparently won't be letting
go for many years..which looks like you're in for quite
a ride. Only Pluto can create scenarios to wake you
up. I can't.
Good Luck to You.
Heather
jer...@my-deja.com wrote in message
<7vhnfb$2in$1...@nntp3.atl.mindspring.net>...
> I had to sit for awhile before writing this. I started reading Tad's post
>first..LOL because I like him ( Hi Tad) <wink> and then read your
>reply to him which I found very revealing. I had no idea what
>your DOB was yet said to myself as I read your words"accumulated"
>"now hold in possession" and "win". I said to myself this is one
>negged out scorpionic person or a negative operating sun-pluto.
>I then went to the top of the thread and found your DOB and yes
>I was correct without even knowing your DOB to begin with.
No, I'm Virgo, with Sagittarius---something. Rising. No, Ascendent.
No, First House. Wait. Virgo with Sagitarius in the Moon? Oh,
that's not right. I'll check. [walks away to find charts]
I'm Virgo: Sun in VIrgo; Moon in Pisces; Sagittarius Ascendant
Sept 4, 1960
2:53 PM, EST (DST)
Philadelphia PA
Thank you for this excellent sermon. Now let me tell you this: I
have put six months into entirely free work for this person and have
been glad to do it. My work is an avocation of teaching women to
protect themselves from men who are harassing them. I am dealing with
a woman who has been harassed, stalked, and publicly humiliated by a
man. I have spent six months explaining to her the psychology of
violence, control, and harassment, and I have succeeded in seeing her
learn to keep her mind, emotions, and skills marshalled when he calls
her up repeatedly or sends her harassing mail.
But I must win, yes *win* her trust and confidence so that she will
allow me to go beyond explaining principles and begin to implement
definite actions that will keep her protected and push back the person
harassing her.
I do not charge her anything. I do not plan to charge her anything.
My professional work writing software manuals keeps me in big buckets
of money. But yes, I must "win" her consent, her agreement, and her
actions. She is my client (not my friend) because our relationship
needs to be professional. Yet I am asking her to make a very personal
commitment to me, to give me her confidences about matters that are
personal to her. And I have to ask it dispassionately and
professionally. But yes, I care about her very much and am very
willing to make enormous sacrifices to help her.
The next time you decide to correct a Scorpio who is actually a Virgo.
who seems hell bent on making a sale but is actually trying to prevent
violence and harassment from escalating, maybe you ought to *ask*
before you preach.
>"Your process" in sales is the kiss of death. There is no room
>for "your" anything when dealing with clients. It's not about
>"you" it's about "them" Perhaps it's my attitude about clients
>that has got me where I am today. I learned it from my Dad as a child
>and he became a millionaire with the exact same approach that
>I use too.. It's because of this approach
>that I was asked to be Director of sales for a startup company that
>sold triple what the competition was selling and they had 20 times
>our financial resources. Serve others and not yourself and you
>will go far. Ye shall reap what you have sown.
>If you want to know about Pluto..you're going to learn quite
>a bit about him in the years to come. He seems to already
>have you firmly in his sight ; and apparently won't be letting
>go for many years..which looks like you're in for quite
>a ride. Only Pluto can create scenarios to wake you
>up. I can't.
Oh, believe me, Heather, you e-mail has been quite revealing. Thank
you.
If Pluto is the killing off of what needs to be killed, then I surely
do need Pluto. ven if Pluto's actions are painful, I want to be
transformed to a person who can win others to the support of martial
thinking and calmness. To be persuasive with women who have been
victimized, I need transparency and openness with my clients. But
with all my shortcomings, I have found I do possess one distinct
quality, Heather When they ask me a question, I answer the question
that they asked.
But right now, I want to win this cllient. As my initial work closes
up, I have to wait for her decision on how she wants to proceed, and I
want to know if there is a "best time" in terms of planetary
influences to present her with a list of options she can choose that
will continue her development along these lines. But it is almost
time for her to make a commitment or for her to seek other options. I
just want to put a plan in front of her at the best possible time.
>>jer...@my-deja.com wrote:
>> Otherwise, my only interest for myself in terms of the Pluto
>> situation is the idea that maybe the time is now right for me to
>> discover a flaw in the process itself or in my methodology of creating
>> the support process for the client. As I understand it, Pluto's
>> influence is to discover what needs to be killed off in order to
>> bring to llife a transformed, living replacement.
>*** I like it!
Hmmm, I think I got the wording from Mark Martin. If it didn't come
from Mark Martin, then I think I got it from a two-part article on
Pluto that I searched out on the web. (ah, Plagiarism! Such a time
saver!)
But the real, question, April, is do you as an astrologer think that
it is an accurate way to describe Pluto's influence? I know you will
answer directly, clearly, and without a lecture. And for this, my
gentle friend, THANK YOU.
<SNIP>
>I would say, yes, definitely they can be read that way, I just would
>prefer to say "indicators"--as in, *describing* the conditions-- rather
>than "determiners," which suggests the planets are actually, physically
>exerting sway. But, that's me, and you'll probably find many
>astrologers who believe in a causal explanation of planetary influences.
>In any case, I suspect what you might be looking for is a good,
>traditional, cookbook style guide to transits, such as Rob Hand's
>classic "Planets in Transits." It sounds as though we are all jumping
>in with best intentions to give you ideology when what you really need
>in this instance is good old fashioned, nuts and bolts stuff, practical
>stuff like, "What's the best day to have this meeting?" Am I reading
>you here? And I think Hand's book is a really terrific place to start.
>I think March & McEvers' "The Only Way to Learn About Horary and
>Electional Astrology" (or something very close to that) is quite good
>too, depending on your level of technical astrological understanding.
'
Ah, books! Where would us Virgos be without them? I just saw a
reference to PLANETS IN TRANSITS on the web site that lets you make
your own chart report. (It lets you connect to Astrodienst (sp?) and
then come back and look up everything on your chart)
As soon as I pay off my gym dues for the year, I shall plan to buy it.
March & McEvers' "The Only Way to Learn About Horary and
Electional Astrology" seems less well known, but I think I dug up a
site devoted to horary books, so I will check that.
Is that really what I am asking? Am I looking for some type of horary
chart that will tell me how the event will unfold?
Thanks again for the help!
*** Yes, I think your interpretation of uncovering flaws in a process or
methodology sounds quite appropriate for Pluto's influence. He also
seems to favor "bringing things back from the dead"--so, maybe
resucitating and revamping abandoned methodologies...?
*** I think a horary chart might be quite useful. Just ask the specific
question ("What approach can I take with my client that will demonstrate
the value of my services to best advantage?" or some such thing), note
the time, draw the chart--theoretically, all should be revealed. I have
found them useful in the past; the key is to ask the right question!
Another approach is to schedule important meetings or similar
interactions with your prospective client on days that are
advantageous. This falls more into the category of electional
astrology, and can be useful, but can get quite complicated; for this
reason, I tend to use electional astrology pretty sparingly--say, for
choosing a wedding date or a date to incorporate a business, that kind
of thing. For something of an important, but not necessarily
life-altering, nature, I might just check the moon's sign and aspects
for the date in question to get a feel for how things might go, and,
importantly, the kind of energy my client might best respond to on a
given day (as described by the moon's sign; for instance, when the moon
is in Libra, I might tend to ask them a lot of questions and tailor my
presentation to their reactions; when the moon is in Aries, I would try
to keep the presentation very short and to the point). If the moon is
making predominantly harmonious aspects to other transiting planets that
day, indications are good that the matter in question will go pretty
smoothly and make both parties reasonably happy. But if it's making a
lot of nasty aspects, we can expect to have to work a little harder to
get things to come out the way we want.
This is an extremely simplified explanation, of course. Suffice to say,
the idea behind electional astrology, as I understand it, is to use
astrology to flow with the momentum of the day, instead of struggling
against it. Some days are better for certain things than others, which
I guess we've all noticed; astrology can be a handy tool for figuring
out which things go better on which day! (Kind of like subtitles for a
foreign film.)
Anyway, the March & McEvers book is quite handy, and is probably
available also through Amazon.com.
I very much hope this has been helpful.
moon opposite Pluto:
"You are naturally defiant of authority and may have difficulty in
dealing with the general public, although your job may require
such contact. Try to have consideration for the feelings of those you serve.
If you aren't careful you may become cranky and hard to
get along with, although you won't realize it"
I wasn't intending to lecture you only to point out that clients
(and it doesn't matter if money is exchanged or not. That's irrelevant)
are not "won" in any way shape or form. nor for that matter
is trust. You earn it. period. There are no planetary setups
that will "win" your clients trust. For that at this point I am
very happy about. LOL. Like I said there are no smoke
and mirrors about trust...no planetary magic.
By the way.. coincidentally I just spent the last 9 days being
harassed by a man by phone. It was very difficult to make this stop.
I got counseling by someone who cared and "won" me over
into changing my number <wink> dang that was hard to do.
( By the way in case you took that literally...no I didn't get
counseling.. I changed my number) <BG>
Sorry for the sarcasm but I've been stalked and harassed my
whole life by men...one way or another. It's about power
and control.
I have tried to help people my whole life too..be it with suicide, drugs,
men...you name it I've done it. But what I came to realize is
you cannot and I repeat cannot help ANYONE that doesn't
want to help themselves. You cannot fight their battles for them.
And by "helping" them as you call it you are making them weaker.
While what you are
doing is admirable ;when you come to realize that you must let go
of control in peoples lives to give them their own strength..
only then will you have truly helped them. hmmmm guess
when I realized this???? On the biggest Pluto hit to my
chart in my life. Just as I realize I cannot help you to see this...
only you can come to see this...hopefully before it's too late.
By the way the only way to "push back" a person is to put
them in jail . I doubt you advocate murder so that's off the list.
<smirk> restraining orders are worthless. Ironically as I am writing
this I just got a phone call with unknown name and unknown
number on my caller ID. Am I wigging out? nope. why?
yes it could be that this guy is well connected and got my new
unlisted phone number. If it's him will I fall to pieces?
nope.I'm in control not him. He's the one with the problem..
not me. That's something not any counselor
could teach me. it comes from within ....period. when you don't
give stalkers what they want... they fold. By the way...I assume
you've been stalked in your life correct? otherwise how could
you know the mindset of a stalker eh? <wink>
Take Care and be well.
Heather
jer...@my-deja.com wrote in message
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----- Original Message -----From: Michael JohnsonTo: Rajeev UpadhyeSent: 02 November 1999 01:56Subject: Re: Sun|Pluto in Synastry Re: Sun Sextile Pluto---good, bad? determiner , , or not?I misread. Sorry. I thought you said "highly UNlikely" and I disagreed. Yes,
I agree, it is "highly likely". Very strong physical attraction. Thanks for
your input.
Best Wishes,
Michael
----- Original Message -----
From: Rajeev Upadhye <yuy...@giaspn01.vsnl.net.in>
To: Michael Johnson <hek...@intergate.bc.ca>
Cc: Pete Phoenix <flam...@clara.co.uk>; <ha...@listbot.com>
Sent: Monday, November 01, 1999 5:58 PM
Subject: Re: Sun|Pluto in Synastry Re: Sun Sextile Pluto---good, bad?
determiner , , or not?
> On Mon, 1 Nov 1999, Michael Johnson wrote:
>
> | Does anyone have thoughts on the combination of the person A's Su to
> | person B's Ma/Ve=ASC?
> |
> | Best Wishes,
> | -Michael
>
>
> Its highly likely that the person A is attracted to B's personality.
>
> Harmonically (and harmoniously too),
>
> Rajeev Upadhye
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