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Qualities and Bullying
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Ilya Shambat
Aug 12, 2022, 8:14:48 PM8/12/22
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When I was a child I hated sports and exercise. Now I do tons of exercise and am in a better shape than most people my age. The reason for this is that, when I was a child, these things were being forced on me, whereas now I choose them willingly, and it has been for the better.
The same has been the case with personal qualities, such as humility. They were being taught in a very bullying way, and I identified these qualities with the bullying behavior and turned against them. As an adult I am choosing to have these qualities, willingly, for reasons of self-improvement.
People need to learn better ways of teaching such qualities, where they are not being taught in a bullying manner but engage the mind of the child to convince them why they are good.
The same has been the case with personal qualities, such as humility. They were being taught in a very bullying way, and I identified these qualities with the bullying behavior and turned against them. As an adult I am choosing to have these qualities, willingly, for reasons of self-improvement.
People need to learn better ways of teaching such qualities, where they are not being taught in a bullying manner but engage the mind of the child to convince them why they are good.
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