I am a birth mother of a child that has been searching for me
Wendy
I was 15 and it was a private adoption thru the family Dr. I was
allowed to name you..I choose Christina
I was never allowed to see you...I heard many years ago that you were
searching for me in the newspapers in Illinois. I was told you adopted
by a wealthy family in Floridia.
I am now 48 and ready to answer your questions.
My name was Wendy Brown.
I hope you are well and happy.
Lynmariemacewen
Please do the paper work that I outline in step one. If your daughter made a
proper search for you she has signed a consent for contact. Also please write
a letter to be stored in her adoption file. I have been searching for more
than 20 years and if my family had done these things I would have found them 15
years ago.
Click here: World Wide Registry Matching Adoptees and BirthParents -
alt.adoption.searching
Click here: WWW.ABORN.ORG - Adoptee and Birthparent's for Open Records
Nationwide
Hi,
What follows is my Cut&Paste. I have added the suggestion that you go now to
the web site http://adoptionsearching.com/ and register with them.
When I did this a few weeks ago, angels sent me lists of all the people born on
that same day in that county. You will find your name there and one of those
other names are also you. The name your birth mother gave you. This may also
give you your birth mother's maiden name, keep these lists. When you register
with this board they will ask for your birth certificate number give them
something that looks like this 487 0123 XXXXX. Because this message will go on
boards seen by many people. An Angel who needs this info can get it from you
later. Only give this to persons of good repute - OK?
Also on this above web site the "HELP BUTTON" has volumes of adoption search
advice. I didn't go there for along time because I assumed that it was help
with just that site.:-)
CUT & PASTE
Put good information in your post. And study searching on your own every day.
You might want give my other suggestions some thought. After these are some web
sites to try.
8 Your first step in adoption searching is to: obtain your non identifying
information, sign a waiver of confidentiality and sign a consent for contact.
Information of how to go about this is on the first link above, in the "help"
section. Your second step is to register with I.S.R.R [address below].
8 Most volunteer's will only need Your name, birth date, place of birth, and
if you have it your birth mother's maiden. Once you confirm the integrity of
your searcher only then give them information such as your birth certificate
number full names of people you are searching for
8 Post your message repeatedly. About once a week. Mention how long you have
been searching.
8 If you are searching for siblings, you should focus your search on your
brothers. In this American culture it is easier to find men than women,
because women change their names.
8 Your brothers should be able to put you in contact with your B-Mom.
8 Are your adoptive parents still living? They may have relinquishment
papers
and other documents that may help you with your search.
here are some interesting sites, all free search places, but VSN has some of
the best info there is.
http://adoptionsearching.com/
http://www.adopting.org/supporta.html#free
http://www.bastards.org/library/
http://howtoinvestigate.com/adoption.htm
http://www.freeality.com/findt.htm
http://www.firstbeaches.com
http://www.plumsite.com/isrr/ A lot of sites link here
WWW.ABORN.ORG
bye bye for now
Lyn
register with this organization
1. First Send SASE to
I.S.R.R.
PO Box 2312
Carson City, Nevada
89702-2312
VSN-r...@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU this is outfit I volunteer for
