Aita for walking out on my boyfriend after he made a list

[Майя Зарикова]

The walk must've taken no less than twenty minutes but it felt like an hour. His brother and his family live in one (wife & 3 kids), my boyfriend and his mother live in one and he rents out the other 3. I have a feeling his comment of things being different when married is not false, but more of in the way that he feels you cannot leave him as easily, so you will have to deal with it. If this is how he treats you now, imagine what happens when you are married. My bf was frustrated and yelled at me because of it. An hour ago he sends me a text that he needs to tell me something. He asked if he could have intimacy with a girl in town just "for the fun of it" and "to try it out" Quick background, I was born in Guatemala and was adopted by my parents when I was 6 months old. Like hell I came over when he was studying to make a home cooked dinner and he decides it's time for jokes? So I put my phone on don't disturb for the night and split a bottle of wine with my friend and her roommate. After I came back home, he showed me what he did. We were told that he had cancer, my boyfriend didn't take it well, he did not even give the vet time to explain to us what was really going on We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. "AITA for booking to go away the same weekend as my boyfriend leaving him to look after our daughter?" My boyfriend and I have a 3-year old daughter together. Nov 7, 2022 · To appease him I said yes although I didn't feel comfortable wearing it especially after the weight gain. My disagreement with you was not personal (sorry if my bluntness made it seem like it was); but is based on my experience with people like Tom and the fact that OP has tried talking to him in the past and was told she was being too sensitive (a common abuser’s trick), that’s all. Most people in both my previous posts said that it wasn't my fault, and after properly speaking to my family and friends, I realized that I was indeed, not that wrong. Subreddit Announcements. He is extremely reactive and you have to walk on eggshells as to not set him off. Yesterday there was a get together with my family who I see about once a year. ). When my boyfriend realized I wasn't wearing panties he started yelling at me and then proceeded to give me his sweater. After a few hours I got my phone back and saw couple increaed followers ( I had a private account). His friend was telling my bf that he’s lucky to have me and that I’m a real catch. I know 1 and a half year is not that much but we really had a good connection. He kept replying and again - she was borderline flirty with him. In our country you can recycle bottles by putting them into a maschine that then gives you a bit of money in return. so we were walking in Boyfriend: Should never have agreed to leave at 9-10pm. Obviously, I left. So my boyfriend (BF) bought a new controller for his console today. I had a conversation with him to see where he was at after he told me “love you, bye”. That or he didn't tell you he found an alternate ride home. Well my boyfriend has been recently spending more time with her and it’s been bugging me a bit and I’m kinda getting jealous of this. Third, run from this man. My boyfriend and one of his friends grabbed my back pockets and pulled them pretty hard and tore my jeans completely. I think you are getting it kinda wrong. Only The Most Interesting AITA Posts I lost my grandparents at a young age so his family really felt like mine too. Both Owen and I are very taken back by this comment and I end up getting up from the table, putting on my shoes, grabbing my stuff and walking out of their house. But when I turned it on this morning, I had many text messages from my parents, saying they were disappointed in me for walking out of my own birthday dinner. 11M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. He was extremely friendly and asked a lot of questions but after 3 or 4 days of texting he did, indeed, mention that he’d be spending the weekend at his girlfriends place. I thought we were pretty happy, but last year he dumped me pretty suddenly. On my 19th birthday I logged in my Instagram on my boyfriend's phone because my phone was dead and I had to reply to many birthday wishes and didn't want to be rude if I replied late. I'm now planning a trip to Europe but with my two best friends. " And take it from someone who's been there: Nothing you do is going to take away that fundamental insecurity he has about relationships, and that insecurity may be what keeps this from being a forever kind of relationship. At the begging of our relationship with my bad intentions my boyfriend told me about the last girl he liked let’s call her Jane. As soon as he saw me walking in, he busted out laughing. The whole night, I was extremely scared and uncomfortable sleeping next to him. And he definitely didn't deserve to get a ride home from you. OP says he expected to go back on things when he calmed down, so if Josh had told him of his plans, it sounds like OP would have had a decent chat. AITA for returning a birthday gift I got for my boyfriend after he insulted me about my “colorful” past? This happened last night but my phone is still blowing up. He immediately seemed super annoyed and I felt bad for asking, but another friend gave him shit for not going with me so he ended up reluctantly agreeing to walk me home. He was at the restaurant with his family and friends when I arrived with my sister. Jun 30, 2024 · "UPDATE: AITA for walking out of my engagement party and refusing to answer calls for three days?" ValuablePristine8037. Now, to be completely fair, my boyfriend was SHOCKED. Not that I think he’s a child predator or anything, but he lacked a filter and I didn’t want to have to officially kick him out of my life after some kind of “18th Running away with my boyfriend after he called me "insults", and not explaining the situation properly Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Looking back, as a young woman, I should not have gone to a strange man’s apartment, but hey we live and we learn. Posted by u/Defined_Figure_139 - 26,782 votes and 3,000 comments His brother lies constantly about the smallest things. I recently took my gf on a getaway weekend, nothing fancy just a four day weekend to the Hilton Hotel going on fun outings she mentioned she wanted to do like ice skating, dancing, painting and other fun activities. I own my home as I purchased it this February and it is my second home. Find a better boyfriend. I have a good career making about 80K and my mortgage is $1500. He even said that I have many admirable qualities and jokingly asked my bf how he managed to bag me. We hung out at his apartment for a bit and after when we were walking back to campus and he asked me how old I was (I had never mentioned before and he didn’t ask). The bulk of the responsibility with the dogs was on me. It’s all incredibly inappropriate for a 36 year old man to try and bully his partner’s younger sister while alone in the house - never mind to access a safe full of valuables his partner does NOT trust him with. He didn't have to walk home, he just didn't choose to utilize any of the other options. So I left. And I think it’s normal to wonder if he loves me after he’s says that ESH. I made a good amount on my first home and put most of that money towards this house. Aita Edit: update I spoke to my boyfriend and apologized. Not for long periods, just a night or two. 12M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. My eyes were still red, but I tried to remain composed. Shortly after, Owen pulls up next to me in his car and we head back to his apartment. " she works as a nurse so she then explained to me the type of incision they make for that and how it'll leave a scar. Your boyfriend didn't act like he was your boyfriend, insulting your decorating and your scars in one go. AITA for walking out of a restaurant on my GF? GF and I were having dinner at a restaurant when she got a text from her best friend (who recently gave birth), and she said "omg she got a C section. Now he felt he had control he could act like he really is. I know, overused terms, but he is reframing reality to make you wonder if you are doing something wrong. He CHOSE to move out when he did, without even notifying OP of his intentions. After reading these responses I’ve learned that I was First few months is when couples are really feeling each other out; if you feel he needs to cut off a meaningful friendship he has rather than try to get to know her on the same level then you need to walk away because you do not have the right to dictate his friendships beyond asking he place reasonable boundaries. I turned around and walked out without saying another word. When my boyfriend bought his building he told me he wanted to give his mother a unit and for me to move in with him. AITA for walking out on my boyfriend on my birthday after he paid? For 3 years, my boyfriend and I had been unable to celebrate my birthday due to the pandemic and his busy schedule managing the family business. Well, she didn’t reply for two days because then she hit him up again. He came after me and said that he had no idea that she would react that way but she was just having a bad night and that we should go back in and everything will be okay. He also went up in weight due to that now that he got a ps4 he plays on it whenever he is not working, and he stopped working out because he got "lazy". All he did was take the dogs out for the occasional walk and make instagram accounts for the two puppies. My boyfriend (33M) "Angus" and I (26F) went shopping at a grocery store yesterday. He used to go away very occasionally by himself before we had her and this has increased quite a lot since she was born. just finished being handled by the courts. OP was telling him to get out in December. Person A’s boyfriend said he couldn’t make it when we made the reservation long ago but he suddenly showed up at the restaurant last minute. Jun 30, 2022 · I would have been upset if, after some reflection, I hadn’t realized that he wasn’t really the kind of person I would have wanted around my kids- especially my daughter. Maybe me being the only single person in the group made me instantly the odd one out. He even told me he sometimes thinks people are in his walls waiting for him to fall asleep so they can hurt him. We have our arguments but this is something we cannot come to an agreement with. If you want a particular type of food, order and pay for it yourself rather than making it someone else’s responsibility. He has two little children who love going out to eat. To keep his identity hidden, I'll call him O. he has a 2 year old kid with his baby mama. We were both high, I was caught off guard and I asked my boyfriend to not touch me anymore. Aug 30, 2023 · I (30F) have been dating my boyfriend, (32M) for about five months now.