Mastering Your Mindset Pdf

0 views
Skip to first unread message

Berna Cagley

unread,
Aug 5, 2024, 2:03:24 AM8/5/24
to algatinma
Numerousscientific studies show that understanding your mindset can help you improve performance and increase your well-being and resilience. What exactly is mindset? A mindset is a set of underlying beliefs, attitudes, and assumptions that serve as the foundation for how you view, engage with, and interact with the world. Mindsets are powerful: They create your realities, and shape your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in important ways. They can also create blind spots, fuel biased thinking, and when left unchecked, can be hard to change. For many, aspects of your mindset remain outside of your consciousness. It takes effort and intention to learn about and become aware of how those mindsets show up in both productive and counterproductive ways in our personal and professional lives.

Awareness and acceptance begin with knowing what your mindsets are. Change is brought on by opportunities to practice subtle mindset shifts to benefit performance and well-being, both in and out of the workplace. Knowledge is developed through a deep and nuanced understanding of the complexity of mindsets and their role in shaping your everyday experiences.


In her research, she examined mindsets among young students. She found that children with a "growth mindset" believe that intelligence can be developed and are better able to overcome academic challenges than those with a "fixed mindset" that intelligence is predetermined.


First coined by Stephen Covey in his book, "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People," scarcity mentality refers to people seeing life as a finite pie, so that if one person takes a big piece, that leaves less for everyone else.


Some of what you put down might be expansive, life-opening, opportunity-generating, and others might be limiting. They're limiting because they aren't serving you to live a full life of happiness, fulfillment, success, and whatever else you want.


Maybe you've never heard of these terms before, but you certainly know what they represent: the absolute monster in your mind. It's the voice inside your head that can be mean, belittling, superior, or negatively sarcastic. It can judge us, criticize us, and demean ourselves, others, and situations.


The voice inside your head causes you to deflate, shrink. Your body feels it and shows it (our body keeps the score of what we're feeling). It shrinks the box of what we're capable of. When this voice is louder than our wiser sage brain, it prevents us from trying new things, taking risks of ambition, being happy, and ultimately enjoying life. It's the thief of joy. It prevents us from living a life we truly want because it robs us of our enjoyment of experiencing life fully.


Once I learned to silence them and bring in my Sage, not much changed in my life, but I felt different. Then I started taking new, exciting risks. After five months, I got engaged to my partner, left a job that was "great on paper," started a software company, and now am creating my own coaching business to make the power of coaching accessible to everyone.


Research shows the SAGE brain lives in a completely different part of your brain as well. Whereas the saboteur's brain lives in your reptilian brain, aka your limbic system, its sole focus is on survival. The sage part of your brain is in your middle prefrontal cortex, and its focus is on thriving.


This shift happened when I was running at the gym at 6:30am on a Tuesday. I was training for a half marathon, and I noticed I was more tired than usual, and was royally pissed off at myself for being so slow considering how far I was into training.


So I tried shifting. I realized that I was at the gym at 6:30am on a Tuesday, when most people were still sleeping. I was also already five weeks into training for a half marathon and how many people do that? I was running slower because I just hadn't adjusted the speed to be faster yet! After that shift, I finished my run with more energy than when I started.


However, some saboteurs are more sophisticated and sneaky than just changing your focus from what's going wrong to what's going well, and they're what make us controlling, people-pleasers, sticklers, victims, avoidant, and more [take PQ saboteur assessment to find them].


Personally, I engage the empathize SAGE superpower than others. When someone is distant, mean, or unnecessarily angry, I recognize that they too have a history that could have lead to the mindset they're in right now.


And meditating doesn't have to be about finding a quiet space and sitting on the floor for at least five minutes. In this context, it's better to activate that part of your brain in the middle of a war, meaning in stressful situations where tension is high, like in traffic, in a meeting before you present, or wherever else you notice your saboteur would kick in.


In my Co-Active Coach training, they teach us how to cultivate our Appreciator Ally. That's the part of ourselves that can appreciate what is good about any situation, even in circumstances where it feels as if there is very little that is good about the situation. Our most profound learning happens when we can activate our Appreciator.


Did you get fired, but it brought you to find the job of your dreams? Did you have a bad break-up, but it taught you to love yourself, and you ended up finding your life partner next? Did you lose a family member to a disease, and as a result begin an annual donation drive to support finding a cure?


In challenging situations, it can be hard to find the Appreciator Ally, especially at the moment. But, there is always something to appreciate about any situation, and it often requires some deep digging.


However, the only thing that actually helped was working with a coach. It took everything I learned from books from simple intellectual knowledge to deeply experienced truths. That's when everything changed for me.


Progress is the key here, not perfection. Depending on how long you've been trapped in negative thought spirals, it may require more effort to retrain your mind. And that's okay, because it's worth the effort. I promise.


We know it can be hard deciding where to start when it comes to fitness programs. Move With Us offers a variety of programs tailored to different fitness goals and lifestyles. To help you decide which one is right for you, click below.


One of the biggest factors that influences your outputs and outcomes in your health and fitness journey is your mindset.



Despite if you're working out and tracking your nutrition day in day out, you are only ever as healthy as your mindset is. Your mental state has a direct impact on your overall health, behaviours and your ability to achieve physical results.


Mastering your mindset is a constant work in progress, and like everything, good things take time and consistency.



Keep scrolling for our practical tips and strategies for developing a healthy mindset, to help you cultivate perpetual growth, greater fulfilment and success in all aspects of your life.




Our mindset ultimately shapes the beliefs and attitudes we hold about ourselves and the way we view the world around us. These ways of thinking directly affect the choices and decisions we make each day, which makes mastering your mindset an integral factor in achieving health and wellbeing.



Here are some key reasons why working on your mindset is so important when it comes to our mind, body and spirit.




No matter how badly you want to achieve a certain goal, your journey will never be completely smooth. To get through rough waters, being equipped with the proper mindset is essential. Staying courageous, open-minded and flexible in any situation, and the ability to handle pressure in stressful times, all comes with mastering your mindset.


One of our favourite approaches to shifting your way of thinking was created by Carol Dweck, Professor of Psychology at Stanford University, in her book called Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. Carol identified two types of mindset, a fixed mindset vs a growth mindset.


On the contrary, people with a growth mindset believe that their abilities and skills can be developed when enough effort is applied. They are not afraid to put in the work just to see whether something comes out of it, being that in fitness or other areas of life. Those with a growth mindset are appreciative of any feedback so long as it's constructive, are always ready to be challenged and see hard work as a pathway to success.


The ultimate key to taking control of your health and fitness journey is through mastering your mindset.



By adopting a growth mindset, embracing positive self talk and taking inspired action, you can start making sustainable long term changes and be completely capable of achieving whatever you put your mind to.



Don't wait until next month or next Monday to start working on your mindset. Today is the perfect opportunity to say goodbye to any old mentalities that have been holding you back, and make space for a new year of hitting goals.



Make your move today.




LinkedIn and 3rd parties use essential and non-essential cookies to provide, secure, analyze and improve our Services, and to show you relevant ads (including professional and job ads) on and off LinkedIn. Learn more in our Cookie Policy.


Hey there! Ever had one of those weeks where the universe decided to test your limits? You know, like preparing for a live in-person workshop in Africa only to be met with an intense struggle that had nothing to do with you? Yep, I was there a couple of weeks ago.


When you're stuck in a quagmire of disappointment and frustration, it's all too easy to slip into negativity. But here's the secret sauce: your mindset. What exactly is mindset? We hear that word tossed around a lot. Since I had a 17-year career in information technology, I see mindset as the operating system for your brain. Just like how you wouldn't want your computer running on outdated software, you wouldn't want to tackle life with a mindset that holds you back. The good thing about mindset is that YOU are the programmer of the operating system.

3a8082e126
Reply all
Reply to author
Forward
0 new messages