"My Boyfriend Is a Scam" — An Open Talk on Dating App Extortion
A community conversation for queer people navigating dating apps safely
Good As You, Swabhava and Alternative Law Forum come together to bring you an honest conversation on something we've all heard about — and some of us have lived through. A great chat, a growing connection, and then suddenly: threats, blackmail, demands for money. Dating app extortion is happening to more and more queer people, and silence only helps it continue.
Join us for an open, judgment-free conversation on:
• Why this happens — the psychology and social dynamics that predators exploit, and why queer people are often targeted
• The legal side — what your rights are and what recourse actually looks like (with legal experts from ALF)
• Real experiences — a few community members sharing their stories, so no one feels alone in this
• Moving forward — how we as a community can support each other, spot red flags earlier, and respond appropriately if it happens to you or someone you know
This isn't about fear — it's about being informed, supported, and less alone.
📍 Venue: 📌 Alternative Law Forum (
https://maps.app.goo.gl/uXDYkKig2Qp8Sehu7)
(We are considering the possibility of opening the session on Zoom as well)
🗓️ Date, Time: 18th July, 5:30 pm
Come with your questions, your stories if you're comfortable sharing, or just yourself. All are welcome. Do reach out to Tushar on 9920636025 if you would like to share your experiences around this topic during the session.
Registration-
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