What I did:
A mini workshop:
I asked people to write down all the choices they made this morning, till the workshop
(one choice per post it)
(3 minutes)
Give one post it at the time and explain
next person gives on, a round teh table, one post at the time
At the end I gave them more choices they made:
- getting up
- going to work (yes it's a choice)
- getting dressed
- order of clothing to put on
- shaving or not
- brushing teeth or not
- ...
I also talked briefly about how some choices become habits and why that is good or bad
>> we want that taking care of our body is a habit: like we teach our children to brush their teeth in the hope they will create a habit.
>> Companies want that we buy their brand out of habit> cheaper to them
>> Some companies want we follow orders out of habit
>> Reacting to a fire in a company, should be a habit, to avoid ingured or deaths
....
Then I asked people about the costs of the choices (3 minutes)
At this point I realized I should have asked about the options, much more then the choices they had.
it's the options that have a cost
As this was an optional mini training during lunch and we started late (due to an emmergency this morning)
I was running out of time. (And peopel had now clearly stated their boundaries)
I decided to explain the rest
- options also have a value
- options have an expiration date + time
- it's important to decide when to decide
- It's important (according to me) to keep as much options open as possible
(clarified as "as much possible options")
- some people prefer to decide as fast as possible. I don't. ;-)
- while you don't have to decide yet, gather info
- only commit when you must (or when you have a good reason to do so)
In retrospect a nice start for a new kind of workshop, as always it needs another iteration or 2 before it's great
Yves