Pain simply sits beside us, hoping to be noticed, or at least not ignored.

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Abraham Madu

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Dec 20, 2025, 8:16:15 PM (4 days ago) Dec 20
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Sometimes the quietest moments tell the loudest stories.

Two friends sit side by side, not speaking much, not trying to fix the world, just sharing the cold air and the weight of unspoken thoughts. One looks thoughtful, the other looks tired in a way that words can’t quite reach. And in that stillness, there is a truth we often forget — that pain doesn’t always announce itself. It doesn’t always cry out. Sometimes it simply sits beside us, hoping to be noticed, or at least not ignored.

We pass people every day who are carrying heavy things in invisible pockets of their hearts. Smiles can be practiced. Laughter can be polite. Strength can be borrowed just long enough to get through the day. And yet, inside, someone may be fighting a battle they never asked for, wondering if anyone would understand if they knew.

Kindness, then, becomes something very powerful. Not the loud kind. Not the showy kind. But the gentle kind — the kind that listens without interrupting, stays without asking questions, and chooses patience over judgment. The kind that says, “You don’t have to explain yourself here. I’m just glad you’re not alone.”

Because sometimes, sitting next to someone is enough.

Sometimes, being there is the help.

And sometimes, the smallest act of kindness becomes the warmest thing in a very cold moment.

So be kind — not because you know someone is hurting,

but because you may never know just how much they are.

Be kind in your words.

Be kind in your silence.

Be kind in the way you stay.

Always. 💛🐻

Nt d kwa?

Ya kptba!

Ya gazie.

m nne Abrahaụọg Aṅụsobi Mad.


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