Realizing Your Dreams

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For any desire to be realized by you, or before anything can manifest
in your life experience, there must be vibrational compatibility
between your desires and your beliefs (from The Secret). This is an
exceptionally important statement to understand!
Many people think that they understand the concepts behind
manifestation and then become frustrated because their life isn't
changing in the way they would like it to. They say their
affirmations, they create their dream board, but they don't take a
look at what they really believe about their worth or their ability to
deserve.
All of our beliefs are broadcast from our chakras, which create much
of our auric fields of energy. This broadcast then attracts to it
situations in your life that match your belief system (Law of
Attraction). You are creating your life from your beliefs and you
can't change your life or manifest what you really want until you
change some of what you believe.
What most people don't realize is that beliefs are choices-nothing
more. You can actually change your broadcast, by simple deciding to
believe differently.
All of your actions are rooted in your belief system. Although most of
your beliefs were formed as a child, you still have a choice whether
to follow them. If you do not like what you believe, you can change
it. As an adult, you have full control of your beliefs. To change,
however, you must take a long, scrutinizing look at your particular
belief structure and understand why it exists and if you want to
continue embracing it. When you examine your beliefs, look for the
strong messages you received as a child and others that you developed
as an adult. You may not yet realize that these strong messages
usually constitute a major portion of your core belief structure and
hold an incredible amount of power. Write these beliefs, or messages,
down on paper in a list form. Keep the sentences short for easy
reading. Again, you are searching for the core or foundation of a
belief, not the philosophy behind it.
After you have completed your list, write down what you would rather
believe. This is the time to be co-creative and to use your
imagination to construct a list that is ideal. Create a belief system
that will support you, love you, and work for you, not against you.
There are no rules, except that you do this exercise in its entirety.
(See Becoming Yourself: The Journey from Head to Heart, page 57.)
The following is a composite of the common belief statements I hear
from my clients: Remember: For any desire to be realized by you, or
before anything can manifest in your life experience, there must be
vibrational compatibility between your desires and your beliefs (The
Secret).
The desire: I want more money. The belief: I am so tired of not being
able to afford the things that I want to do. Change the belief to: I
am so glad that each and everyday I am able to afford more things. My
life is continually improving.
The desire: I want a better relationship with my employer. The belief:
My boss doesn't realize the value that I offer, and he is just a plain-
o-grouch. Change the belief to: I feel good about the work I do,
regardless if anyone notices it. I do quality work.
The desire: I want to achieve and maintain a healthy body weight. I
want to loose weight!!! The belief: It is really difficult, almost
impossible to maintain the body weight that I desire without strenuous
exercise and depriving myself of the foods I like to eat. Change the
belief to: It is possible for me to find a comfortable lifestyle that
will give me the results that I want. (Ester Hicks, The Secret)
As you review your list and discern the nature of your current belief
system, remember that it represents choice. If it does not reflect
what you desire, discard it. Let your imagination go and create a new
belief system. Then read that list over and over again. Engage
yourself in the envisioning of living that new belief system.
Your lists may look entirely different from the examples that I gave.
That is good. In fact, you need to develop your own personal profile.
These are just examples to trigger your own thinking. The important
thing is to remember that whatever beliefs you choose will manifest
into your own reality as you add energy to them. Be good to yourself.
Give yourself the best and have fun with this assignment.
This is the first step in the process of bringing a new belief system
into reality. In the beginning, it may feel uncomfortable, but let
that be. Use your imagination and create. Give yourself permission to
explore and create new possibilities. If you cannot imagine something
as being possible, then you are not going to have it. But if you can
imagine the possibility, you are already on your way to creating it.
Your new belief system may even feel comfortable, like a familiar
truth that automatically resonates with your soul. If this happens,
realize that your soul is responding to a truth and letting you know
about it through a feeling.
Remember to keep putting energy into your new belief. Buy books that
will reinforce it, talk about it, gather with people of like minds-all
of these acts will add energy to the new beliefs and help them to
multiply. Do not be victimized by old belief systems handed to you as
a child, especially if they are causing hardships in your life now. Do
something about it.
Self-worth and the quality of deserving are at the core of every money
issue I have ever encountered while working with a client. Look
closely at what you really believe about yourself. Again, underlying
belief systems can be hidden from immediate view, but we can discover
(or uncover?) them.
Be honest with yourself. You may need to start at the very core to
understand how you truly feel about yourself-your self-love. No matter
where you are on your spiritual path, keep looking at the issue of
love. Love is what the universe is based on-you must not lose sight of
this. Love includes self-love. In fact, self-love is the most
important. When you love yourself, you will make quality decisions for
yourself, which will directly influence every other relationship you
have, including your relationship with money.