My sister and I (I am 4 years older, both in late thirties) have
always been emotionally close. In retrospect, we probably *should*
have been lovers but we were too shy and well behaved. I left home
very early and moved far away, and didn't return often because my
mother is a freak and I wanted to avoid her; the down side to that
is that I haven't been as close to my sis as I could have been. She
and I are both very happily married now, with spouses each of us
likes, so any thoughts of a physical relationship will have to be just
thoughts.... It both makes me sad and gives me some comfort to know
that, although she wouldn't leave her husband for me (nor vice versa),
if both of us got divorced the same time I would probably move nearby,
see her and her kids often, and see her ... often.
The one time we got close to getting close to having sex was many
years ago when I was 19 (virgin) and she was 15 (definitely not a
virgin) and I was visiting her and my mother. We had time alone
together, we wanted each other, but I was sadly too well behaved and
shy (I think she was ready). In a different life, I imagine the
following scenario: she would tease me gently about never having a
girlfriend, then she would have gotten a little bit serious and we
would have talked about relationships each of our feelings etc. At
some point I would have reached out and touched her face or she woould
have said something, and we would have gotten into bed. I think she
would have laughed a little bit with me, perhaps even joking about
being in bed with her brother, but then we would have kissed and
touched each other tenderly, and she gently (and then not so gently)
would show me where to caress her, how to hold her breast, how to kiss
her body, and how to enter her cunt; I can imagine her giggling,
perhaps, as she got on top of me naked later, giggles that would turn
to moaning. She still says that she is the mature one of us two, and
it would have made sense that she initiate her older but awkward
brother. I guess that would have been the best possible way to lose
my virginity ever. :) I imagine that afterward, we would have felt
awkward around other people, but completely natural with each other
alone. She would have visited me at college, indulged in a hotel room
and a nice dinner and not hiding our feelings, and we would have lived
within an hours drive of each other as adults...
My guess is that we would have still found other spouses, but I
(retrospectively) wish that we shared that particular secret today.
That is not your story, John and Lucey, but it seems like you have a
better one. I am not going to contact you directly (I hope to stay
married, and that crosses a (possibly imaginary) line ...) but I would
love to read in this forum about the successes and challenges of
making your relationship together.
So all you success stories, please share :)
On Apr 13, 10:04 am, "_" <marriagedan...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> On Apr 11, 6:07 am, "John and Lucey" <londonboyb...@yahoo.co.uk>
> wrote:
>
> > Hi, My sister Lucy and I would love to hear from other sibs who are
> > addicted to each other. I'm 36, Lucy's 2 years younger. We've been
> > attracted to each other since we were little, and had our first
> > intimate exp. in our early 20's.
<jealously snipped>