This is what is confusing me. When I double click on the paragraph mark beside the paragraph style, it brings up the "new paragraph style" box. (Like one I've seen in various screenshots). Trouble is, in the version I have (cs 3.0.1???), there is no tab for bullets and numbering. The categories on the left are:
general
basic character formats
advanced character formats
indents and spacing
tabs
paragraph rules
keep options
hypenation
justification
drop caps and nested styles
character color
opentype features
underline options
strikethrough options
What am I missing? Sorry to be thick!