Fetish or not?
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randy
Mar 19, 2009, 7:20:03 AM3/19/09
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I'm curious about what others think. I recently began wearing diapers
after my bf revealed his love of diapers. I wear every night after
work, go to bed in them, and enjoy the wet diapers in the morning. He
says it isn't really a fetish because if it were, I would ahve been
wearing all my life. I say that because of the way I was brought up,
including a low sense of self-esteem, conservative, always being
fearful of what others thought, I pushed my desires down for a long
time and didn't act on them. Now, i have reached a point in life
where I am able to be myself. So, the questions: Just because one
finds the freedom to be and do as one wants later in life does that
make it not a fetish? If so, how do we define "fetish"?
after my bf revealed his love of diapers. I wear every night after
work, go to bed in them, and enjoy the wet diapers in the morning. He
says it isn't really a fetish because if it were, I would ahve been
wearing all my life. I say that because of the way I was brought up,
including a low sense of self-esteem, conservative, always being
fearful of what others thought, I pushed my desires down for a long
time and didn't act on them. Now, i have reached a point in life
where I am able to be myself. So, the questions: Just because one
finds the freedom to be and do as one wants later in life does that
make it not a fetish? If so, how do we define "fetish"?
sleazpig
Mar 19, 2009, 9:10:29 AM3/19/09
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It really sounds like you enjoy wearing Diapers so what is the
problem. I understand about your feeling but you have made the plunge
and are now freeof those inhibitions so enjoy.
If you want to feel it's a 'Fetish' to you thats now a problem.
I got into diapers late in my life now it's part of me and I love it.
You are so lucky to have someone to fully share them with you.
problem. I understand about your feeling but you have made the plunge
and are now freeof those inhibitions so enjoy.
If you want to feel it's a 'Fetish' to you thats now a problem.
I got into diapers late in my life now it's part of me and I love it.
You are so lucky to have someone to fully share them with you.
Adrian
Mar 19, 2009, 1:29:48 PM3/19/09
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Hi guys, I agree with sleazepig on this one. Personally I have always
been an AB, and have loved nappies/diapers, plastic pants, etc etc
almost as long as I can remember. I also se it as more than just a
fetish for me. It's part of who I am I guess.The point is we are all
different in the detail, and as long as you have fun and enjoy it it
really does not matter how it is defined.You really are lucky Randy,
having someone to share it with. I would love to have a friend who
did, but alas I dont. However, where there's life there's hope! Anyone
interested out there?!lol!
Baby Adrian.
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randy
Mar 19, 2009, 8:18:52 PM3/19/09
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I do enjoy wearing diapers!!!! :) and, plastic pants!! I am enjoying
myself and i don't care if what i am doing meets the definition of
fetish or not. Actually, my bf doesn't either. I looked up the word
fetish and it is defined as an obsession. I'm thinking that an
obsession, like an allergy, can develop at any time, that it doesn't
have to be something from our youth. Thanks, guys for your input.
Would enjoy hearing what others think.
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myself and i don't care if what i am doing meets the definition of
fetish or not. Actually, my bf doesn't either. I looked up the word
fetish and it is defined as an obsession. I'm thinking that an
obsession, like an allergy, can develop at any time, that it doesn't
have to be something from our youth. Thanks, guys for your input.
Would enjoy hearing what others think.
Raymond Noyce
Mar 20, 2009, 1:29:38 AM3/20/09
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| hi i too love the ab/dl scene am hoping you can help me meet others ray as i have been a closset ab/dl wishing to find others --- On Fri, 20/3/09, randy <rg...@comcast.net> wrote: |
randy
Mar 20, 2009, 6:53:46 AM3/20/09
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Sleaspig, Oh how I know I am lucky to have my bf and that we both
enjoy diapers! Thanks for your comments.
enjoy diapers! Thanks for your comments.
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