Could you run Abacus from the command line instead of double clicking on the JAR file?
The error messages are printed to the command line but you won't see them unless you call the jar from there.
Something like: java -Xmx48g -jar abacus.jar should work from the directory within the directory where the jar file is found.
You then run the program like you normally would and when it crashes the errors will appear in the command line window. This is the information I need to begin to decipher you problem.
Thanks,
Damian