Hi OM,
What specifically are you thinking needs to be addressed?
Regards,
Brock
> Answer: Yes, I have several to choose from at this point
>
> I am willing (despite how annoying it is to do so) to go to the effort
> of cutting and pasting instances where you speak to the character of
> your opponent as opposed to simply discussing the issue at hand. I
> will also in the interest of fairness present instances where others
> have done the same. (including myself)
>
> No ones perfect, but there's a point where childish bickering becomes
> the norm, and that paints this group as a bunch of hypocrites.
> As I see it we might as well delete this group entirely if we can't
> progress beyond that.
>
> So bear with me while I busy myself with the petty, in the interest of
> the serious. (examples will be in my next post)
It's lamentable that such effort is necessary, atyp, but I applaud your patience and forbearance to do so. Kudos.
You can find several examples of 'what not to say' among my recent posts too. Let me know if you can use my help to cull through the threads.
is it petty of me respond to your charges of incivility?
its lamentable that you are talking down at me, while demanding i be civil to you
Hi Mardi,
I hope your advice is helpful to e_space. I thank you for your
perspective; but I don't consider it is accurate in one respect:
Folks on this forum have as a generalization taken great care in
keeping their responses civil and productively focused, and have set
aside animus in responding to one who, tragically, may only seem to be
interested in eristic provocation. :(
I am thankful for such a group, and don't take it for granted. For
two specifics, SM and atypican have been great examples of kindness,
civility and willing to be communicative in their interactions with
e_space, even though e_space receives such interactions as an
annoyance or offense. In short, both worked very hard to build a
bridge of communication. And at each and every point, both were
rebuffed and their attempts to find common ground belittled, ridiculed
and made out to be an offense.
Such is a reminder to me that healthy boundaries in relationships
matter, and a bridge of communication isn't any stronger than that
which BOTH parties bring.
Regards,
Brock
Thanks for the thoughtful response, Mardi! You've spoken well here. :)
Regards,
Brock