Your Daily Reprieve 08.19.25

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Tuesday August 19, 2025    from Waynesville, NC         "What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul." --Yiddish Proverb     "The spirit, the will to win, and the will to excel are the things that endure. These qualities are so much more important  than the events that occur." --Vince Lombardi     People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success. ~Norman Vincent Peale     Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday.  It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love? ~Leo Buscaglia     Please Use This Link If You'd Like To Sign Up ADD A Friend , A Sponsee, A Sponsor or a Newcomer To Your Daily Reprieve Email List  https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/su/EA6cC5s           BIG BOOK QUOTE     Here are thousands of men and women, worldly indeed. They flatly declare that since they have come to believe in a Power greater than themselves, to take a certain attitude toward that Power, and to do certain simple things, there has been a revolutionary change in their way of living and thinking.   P50               DAILY SHARE   AA Speaker of the Day   CHRIS R. Ingram, TX Serenity Improvement Group 07.29.25   https://bit.ly/4lg1fb3           Celebrate Your Anniversary Here SHOW NEWCOMERS HOW IT WORKS!! Send your sober date and location to : so...@yourdailyreprieve.com     I always thought that posting our locations with our anniversaries was a great way to show newcomers that AA is all over the world. So I wish you would send your locations with your anniversary dates. We don't celebrate for our own benefit. We celebrate anniversaries to show the program works. If we add our locations we get to show that AA works EVERYWHERE!     AUGUST2025 Miracles     8/1 Bill H. (Wells, ME/Melbourne Beach, FL)…..16 8/1 David G. (Salem, NH)…..34 8/1 Michael K. …..15 8/1 Janet F. (Myrtle Beach, SC)…..3 8/1 Jessica E. (Sugar Land, TX)..…8 8/2 Garry K. (Kelowna, BC)…..56 8/2 Judy J. …..1 8/3 Dan S. (Glen Rock, NJ)…..10 8/4 Dan M. (Nantucket, MA)…..23 8/4 Maureen Q. (Syracuse, NY)…..31 8/5 Andre de (Bracknell, UK)…..23 8/5 Mary OO (Marina del Rey, CA)…..45 8/6 Jason J. (Maggie Valley, NC)…..13 8/7 Carrie B. (Orange Park, FL)…..6 8/7 Sherri R. (Panama City, FL)…..1 8/7 Glad H. (Atlantic Beach, FL)…..29 8/7 John D. (Natick, MA).….17 8/8/08 Donna F. (Cocoa Beach, FL)…..17 8/8 Steve R. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..1 8/8 Chris G. (Stuart, FL/Stone Harbor, NJ)…..21 8/8 Lisa L. (Canton, NC)…..10 8/8 David T. (Newmarket, NH)…..43 8/8 Leslie N. (New Providence, NJ)…..37 8/9 Jay C. (Waco, TX)…..23 8/9 Louise M. (Palm Coast, FL)….16 8/9 Vern M. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..25 8/9 Laura R. (Beaverton, OR)…..37 8/10 Justin B. (Anderson, SC)…..7 8/10 Susan B. (Tinton Falls, NJ)…..23 8/10 Rich M. (Rhinebeck, NY)…..11 8/11 Caroline O. (Selsey Bill, UK)…..16 8/11 Page H. (Amelia Island, FL)…..49 8/12 Billy M. (Haymarket, VA)…..25 8/13 Tommy OC. …..40 8/13 Kate P. (Hampton, NH)…..36 8/14 Tim D. (Newburyport, MA)…..32 8/14 Dottie Lu W. (St. Simons Island, GA)…..40 8/14 Wendy R. (WPB, FL)…..8 8/15 Tom W. (Charlotte, NC)…..1 8/15 Brian M. (Bernardsville, NJ)…..37 8/15 Dave O. (Everett, MA)…..6 8/15 Malley H. (Kingston, NY)…..40 8/15 George Y. …..31 8/15 Kurtis E. (Stuart, FL)…..3 8/15 Ronnie B. (Graham, NC)…..3 8/15 Siobhan (NYC)…..26 8/15 Ann W. (Darien, CT)…..40 8/16 Charlotte C. (New York City)…..16 8/16 Jody M. (Laguna Niguel, CA)…..19 8/16 Jeffrey B. (Vancouver, BC, CA)…..22 8/17 Charlie K. (Bay Village, OH/Naples, FL)…..27 8/17 John T. (Sarasota, FL)…..9 8/17 Susan D. (Parsippany, NJ)…..1 8/17 Jon B. (Parsonsburg, MD)…..37 8/18 Billy M. (Austin, TX)…..4 8/18 Paul D. (Hampton, NH)…..5 8/18 Steve C. (Jacksonville, FL)…..7 8/19 Dave C. (Murphy, NC)…..13 8/20 Bill W. (Sarasota, FL)…..33 8/20 Larry B. (Kansas City, Kansas)…..24 8/21 Yolanda H. (Santa Cruz, CA)…..38 8/21 Kevin J.(Hampton NH …..16 8/22 Jackie Y. (Tustin, CA)…..31 8/22 John K. (Ruskin, FL)…..3 8/24 Marilyn R. (Sarasota, FL)…..30 8/24 Scott W. (Sarasota, FL)…..24 8/24 Claire S. (Garnerville, NY)…..38 8/25 John P. (Mallorca, Spain)…..6 8/26 Mike C. (Hilliard, OH)…..27 8/27 Stuart W. (Old Tappan, NJ)…..24 8/27 Greg R. (NYC)…..18 8/27 Kim S. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..30 8/28 Delia S. (Savannah, GA)…..35 8/28 John P. (Mallorca, SP)…..6 8/28 Patrick O. (Salt Lake City, UT)…..1 8/28 John D. (Graham, NC)…..7 8/28 Rick K. (Westport, CT)…..9 8/29 Mary O’C. (Maynard, MA)…..13 8/30 Chris B. (Sandwich, NH)…..33 8/30 Holly S. (Montreal, CA)…..28 8/30 Jeff G. (Morristown, NJ)…..12 8/31 Sarah M. …..17   1706 Total Years of Sobriety                Drop a Buck in the Basket? PayPal paypal.me/TomMurphy Venmo @Tom-Murphy-160     The cost to mail Your Daily Reprieve just went up to $195 a month!!       Thank you everyone for your generous contributions.       12&12   Step Seven - "Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings." The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear--primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual disturbance and frustration. Therefore, no peace was to be had unless we could find a means of reducing these demands. The difference between a demand and a simple request is plain to anyone. p. 76               TWENTY-FOUR HOURS     A.A. Thought For The Day   "People of faith have a logical idea of what life is all about. There is a wide variation in the way each one of us approaches and conceives of the Power greater than ourselves. Whether we agree with a particular approach or conception seems to make little difference. There are questions for each of us to settle for ourselves. But in each case the belief in a Higher Power has accomplished the miraculous, the humanly impossible. There has come a revolutionary change in their way of living and thinking." Has there been a revolutionary change in me?   Meditation For The Day   Worship is consciousness of God's divine majesty. As you pause to worship, God will help you raise your humanity to His divinity. The earth is a material temple to enclose God's divinity. God brings to those who worship Him a divine power, a divine love, and a divine healing. You only have to open your mind to Him and try to absorb some of His divine spirit. Pausing quietly in the spirit of worship, turn your inward thoughts upward and realize that His divine power may be yours, that you can experience His love and healing.   Prayer For The Day   I pray that I may worship God by sensing the eternal Spirit. I pray that I may experience a new power in my life.           DAILY THOUGHT ^*^*^*^*^ (\  ~~  /) (  \(AA)/  ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Freedom    "Through A.A., we can experience freedom from self. After all, it was self (you, me) that stood in our own way, that ran the show and ran ourselves into bankruptcy, that hurt the ones we loved. All Twelve Steps of A.A. are designed to kill the old self (deflate the old ego) and build a new, free self."  1976 AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 459   Thought to Consider . . .  Within our wonderful new world, we have found freedom from our fatal obsession.   *~*AACRONYMS*~* F I N E Free, Independent, New and Energetic          DAILY REFLECTION     A FRAME OF REFERENCE Referring to our list [inventory] again. Putting out of our minds the wrongs others had done, we resolutely looked for our own mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 67   There is a wonderful freedom in not needing constant approval from colleagues at work or from the people I love. I wish I had known about this Step before, because once I developed a frame of reference, I felt able to do the next right thing, knowing that the action fit the situation and that it was the correct thing to do.           POT LUCK        Keeping score of old scores and scars, getting even and one-upping, always make you less than you are. ~Malcolm Forbes     Today's Meditation:   One of my biggest fears in life always has been that people would see me as less than I am--that they would judge me unfairly and harshly and I wouldn't have a chance to defend myself. It's been a fear since I was small. And in some ways, I think that fear has led me to hold on to things that I shouldn't hold on to, to have a long memory about hurts and pains and betrayals. Fortunately, I haven't fallen into the trap of always trying to get even, but I do know that holding on has caused me my share of pain that was completely avoidable.   Something that has passed, has passed. As many, many wise teachers have noted, it's impossible to live in the here and now, to get the most out of the present moment, if we're focused on something that's over and done with. It's especially difficult to enjoy the now if the feelings associated with the past are negative and bring us down.   I had a friend once who constantly talked about bad things that people had done to her years earlier. Her day seemed to be incomplete if she wasn't able to tell someone about just how unfair life had been to her, and just how her current negative situation had been caused by the actions of others. She knew every scar that was on her spirit, and she could tell you about every hurt she had ever suffered. Not surprisingly, I don't remember ever seeing her happy. I often tried to redirect our conversations to what was going on in the present, but it was usually to no avail. Was she making herself less than she was? Absolutely--because she was always tied to things in her past, she was never able to reach any of her potential in the present.   Getting even is another story entirely, and something that will bring us down so fast that it's frightening. And in my experience, the actual act of getting even never is anything what we imagine it to be when we're formulating our revenge in our minds. The actual acts reveal us to be petty, scheming, spiteful people.  When something's over, let it be over. You don't have to become friends with someone who hurt you, and you don't have to trust someone who has betrayed your trust. 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