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Saturday February 14, 2026    from Ponte Vedra Beach, FL           Life's most difficult challenges, are our greatest teachers and an opportunity for growth. --unknown     Happiness is intrinsic, it's an internal thing. When you build it into yourself,  no external circumstances can take it away. That kind of happiness is a twenty-four-hour thing. --Leo F. Buscaglia     Spirit is at work through me, I am led to do the right and loving thing. --Shelley     We have to learn to be our own best friends because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies. --Roderick Thorpe     ****** Happy Valentine’s Day & Happy 10th Anniversary Diane Murphy What a decade this has been! Here’s to several more…. I love you.      If You'd Like To Sign Up ADD A Friend , A Sponsee, A Sponsor or a Newcomer To Your Daily Reprieve Email List  Send me an email at: so...@yourdailyreprieve.com.           BIG BOOK QUOTE     To some extent we have become God-conscious. We have begun to develop this vital sixth sense. But we must go further and that means more action. P85            DAILY SHARE   AA Speaker of the Day   LARRY VAN D. Serenity Improvement Group 09.07.21   https://bit.ly/4tie0ab           ZOOM Loose Garment Group https://us02web.zoom.us/j/238977518 Saturday & Sunday….Pot Luck…0900 ID: 238 977 518 PW: 004 394           Celebrate Your Anniversary Here SHOW NEWCOMERS HOW IT WORKS!! Send your sober date and location to : so...@yourdailyreprieve.com     I always thought that posting our locations with our anniversaries was a great way to show newcomers that AA is all over the world. So I wish you would send your locations with your anniversary dates. We don't celebrate for our own benefit. We celebrate anniversaries to show the program works. If we add our locations we get to show that AA works EVERYWHERE!     FEBRUARY2026 Miracles   2/1 Gilly L. (Brighton, UK)…..26 2/1 Rick J. (Rye, NY)…..34 2/1 Jerry I. (Pittstown, NJ)…..33 2/1 Mike P. (Floral Pary, NY)…..38 2/1 Sean D. (Rochester, NY)…..18 2/1 Peter the Builder (London, UK)…..28 2/1 Barbara L. (Tampa, FL)…..8 2/2 Cortney M. …..9 2/2 Brad M. (Westfield NY)…..43 2/2 Lorraine (Ft. Pierce, FL)…..27 2/2 Jennifer W. (Amelia Island, FL)…..10 2/2 Maureen B. (NY, NY/Hobe Sound, FL)…..37 2/3 Sherry M. (Jackson Hole, WY)…..22 2/4 Bob F. (New Rochelle, NY)…..11 2/4 Pam S. (North Hollywood, CA)…..39 2/4 Covi C. (Jupiter, FL)…..8 2/5 Jane S. (Newfound Lake, NH)…..17 2/6 Vanessa G. (Stuart, FL)…..30 2/6 Joey H. (Waynesville, NC…..3 2/6 Kevin N. (Jasper, GA)…..9 2/8 Mark B. (Deal, NJ)…..10 2/9 Darlene A. (Clearwater Beach, FL)…..32 2/10 Doreen T. (Beaufort, NC)…..2 2/10 Howard S. (Fort Myers, FL)…..12 2/11 Catherine T. (Ireland)…..15 2/11 Tim S. (Charlotte, NC)…..14 2/11 Stephen B. (Wenham, MA)…..46 2/11 Stacey Z. (Waynesville, NC)…..14 2/12 Erin M. (MA)…..3 2/12 Chuck H. (Houston, TX)…..4 2/13 Beth O’. (Cedar Knolls, NJ)…..1 2/13 Constance G. (High Point, NC)…..41 2/14 Laura C. (Jersey City, NJ)…..11 2/15 Josh D. (Bath, UK)…..21 2/15 Jack B. (Streator, IL)…..38 2/17 Peter R. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..15 2/17 Kevin K. (Delray Beach, FL)…..12 2/17 Lisa D. (Palm Coast, FL)…..1 2/17 David H. (Rye, NH)…..48 2/17 Noel S. (Harrison, NY)…..17 2/18 Michael P. (Elmont, NY)…..34 2/18 Allan C. (No. Andover, MA)…..15 2/19 Perry K. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..15 2/20 Jackie M. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..20 2/20 Cami M.(Louisiana)…..16 2/22 Chris M. (Chatham, NJ)…..9 2/22 Mike H. (Miami, FL)…..4 2/22 Casey Q. (ManchVegas, NH)…..33 2/22 Marshall T. (Nantucket, MA)…..28 2/23 Mike D. (Nantucket, MA)…..33 2/24 Rex S. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..12 2/24 Michael W. (Washington Terrace, UT)…..1 2/24 Betsy W. (Sarasota, FL)…..37 2/25 Judy S. (Los Angeles, CA)…..45 2/25 Mike B. (Haw River, NC)…..4 2/25 Scott W. (Bedford, MA)…..6 2/26 Vaiva (Monterey, CA)…..25 2/26 John G. (Stuart, FL)…..41 2/27 Neil R. (Queens, NY)…..12 2/27 John T. (Rye, NY)…..37 2/28 Matthew M. (Pelham, NY)…..16 2/29 Royce McC. (Unicoi, TN)…..230   1140 Total Years of Sobriety            Drop a Buck in the Basket? PayPal paypal.me/TomMurphy Venmo @Tom-Murphy-160     The cost to mail Your Daily Reprieve just went up to $195 a month!!       Thank you everyone for your generous contributions.       12&12   Tradition Six - "An A.A. group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose." These adventures implanted a deep-rooted conviction that in no circumstances could we endorse any related enterprise, no matter how good. We of Alcoholics Anonymous could not be all things to all men, nor should we try. p. 157               TWENTY-FOUR HOURS   A.A. Thought For The Day After that first drink, we had a single track mind. It was like a railroad train. The first drink started it off and it kept going on the single track until it got to the end of the line, drunkenness. We knew this would happen when we sat down at a bar to have the first drink, but still we couldn't keep away from liquor. Our will-power was gone. We had become helpless and hopeless before the power of alcohol. It's not the second drink or the tenth drink that does the damage. It's the first drink. Will I ever take that first drink again? Meditation For The Day I must keep a time apart with God every day. Gradually I will be transformed mentally and spiritually. It is not the praying so much as just being in God's presence. The strengthening and curative powers of this I cannot understand, but I can experience them. The poor, sick world would be cured if every day each soul waited before God for the inspiration to live aright. My greatest spiritual growth occurs in this time apart with God. Prayer For The Day I pray that I may faithfully keep a quiet time apart with God. I pray that I may grow spiritually each day.           DAILY THOUGHT   ^*^*^*^*^ (\  ~~  /) (  \(AA)/   ) (_ /AA\ _) /AA\ ^*^*^*^*^ Anger It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, there is something wrong with us. If somebody hurts us and we are sore, we are in the wrong also. But are there no exceptions to this rule? What about "justifiable" anger? If somebody cheats us, aren't we entitled to be mad? Can't we be properly angry with self-righteous folk? For us of A.A. these are dangerous exceptions. We have found that justified anger ought to be left to those better qualified to handle it. c. 1952 AAWS Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 90   Thought to Consider . . . Anger is the hot wind that extinguishes the light of reason.   *~*AACRONYMS*~* A N G E R Any No-Good Energy Rising         DAILY REFLECTION     EXPECTATIONS vs. DEMANDS Burn the idea into the consciousness of ever, man that he can get well regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in God and clean house. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98   Dealing with expectations is a frequent topic at meetings. It isn't wrong to expect progress of myself, good things from life, or decent treatment from others. Where I get into trouble is when my expectations become demands. I will fall short of what I wish to be and situations will go in ways I do not like, because people will let me down sometimes. The only question is: "What am I going to do about it?" Wallow in self-pity or anger; retaliate and make a bad situation worse; or will I trust in God's power to bring blessings on the messes in which I find myself? Will I ask Him what I should be learning; do I keep on doing the right things I know how to do, no matter what; do I take time to share my faith and blessings with others?         POT LUCK      All our loves are first loves. ~Susan Fromberg Schaeffer     When we fall in love with someone, it is a unique thing that comes from deep within us. Any relationship is the creation of two people who open themselves to each other and share themselves beyond the usual boundaries. That is the excitement of true love. Two people give each other the keys to their private world, just as we might share the key to our home, trusting that it will be used with care and respect. This intimacy isn't usually instantaneous. It builds on experience together.     In an intimate relationship, we have the responsibility to be good stewards of the trust given to us. Looking at our partner's role is always so much easier than looking at our own, but we need to resist that easy temptation. Our first questions should always be; do I make it safe for my partner to be open with me? Do I witness my partner's vulnerability as a trust that I do not abuse? Am I gentle and respectful with the key my partner gave me?     Today, I will be a good partner, honoring and guarding the trust I have been given.       Today's reading is from the book Stepping Stones: More Daily Meditations                   UPDATED    BIG BOOK for DUMMIES https://bit.ly/4mDbNCx    (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYDjgj9FYY9O_Py_HxvToTUS_3B-vBcf&si=00m3zjpik036G1Sn)     **NEW** "AA Recovery Interviews" Podcast https://aarecoveryinterviews.com   Blog http://todaysreprieve.blogspot.com/     Wee Willie’s Sobriety First Media AA CD’s Literature and tapes https://www.mediafire.com/sobrietyfirst     AA Membership Survey 2022 Alcoholics Anonymous 2022 Membership Survey | Alcoholics Anonymous     Committee Consideration from the 73rd General Service Conference In response to a Committee Consideration from the 73rd General Service Conference regarding any possible future changes to literature written by A.A.’s founders,  that committee agreed it would be beneficial to gather shared experience from the Fellowship regarding this topic. 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Tuesday February 17, 2026

 from Ponte Vedra Beach, FL

"We cannot change anything until we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses.” ~Carl Jung     “I could do something about changing my own thoughts, but nothing about changing the people around me.” ~ La Verne, California, December 1966,     "Life got immeasurably easier for me when I got passionate about taking responsibility for my own situations while deferring any responsibility  for your life situations to you..."    --Unknown     “If you want to change the way people respond to you, change the way you respond to people.” ― Timothy Leary

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BIG BOOK QUOTE   This is the how and why of it. First of all, we had to quit playing God.    P62     

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LORRAINE K. Serenity Improvement Group 08.31.21.21   https://bit.ly/4rg7Plq

2/12 Julie K. (Wisconsin)…..14

2/13 Beth O’. (Cedar Knolls, NJ)…..1 2/13 Constance G. (High Point, NC)…..41 2/14 Laura C. (Jersey City, NJ)…..11

2/14 Mike R. (Mendham, NJ)…..4

2/15 Josh D. (Bath, UK)…..21 2/15 Jack B. (Streator, IL)…..38 2/17 Peter R. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..15 2/17 Kevin K. (Delray Beach, FL)…..12 2/17 Lisa D. (Palm Coast, FL)…..1 2/17 David H. (Rye, NH)…..48 2/17 Noel S. (Harrison, NY)…..17 2/18 Michael P. (Elmont, NY)…..34 2/18 Allan C. (No. Andover, MA)…..15

2/18 Stephanie K. (Melbourne, FL)…..9 2/18 Marcia T. …..41

2/19 Perry K. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..15

2/19 Lisa H. (Longwood, FL)…..1

2/20 Jackie M. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..20 2/20 Cami M.(Louisiana)…..16 2/22 Chris M. (Chatham, NJ)…..9 2/22 Mike H. (Miami, FL)…..4 2/22 Casey Q. (ManchVegas, NH)…..33 2/22 Marshall T. (Nantucket, MA)…..28 2/23 Mike D. (Nantucket, MA)…..33

2/23 Laura T. (Jacksonville, FL)…..13

2/24 Rex S. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..12 2/24 Michael W. (Washington Terrace, UT)…..1 2/24 Betsy W. (Sarasota, FL)…..37 2/25 Judy S. (Los Angeles, CA)…..45 2/25 Mike B. (Haw River, NC)…..4 2/25 Scott W. (Bedford, MA)…..6 2/26 Vaiva (Monterey, CA)…..25 2/26 John G. (Stuart, FL)…..41 2/27 Neil R. (Queens, NY)…..12 2/27 John T. (Rye, NY)…..37 2/28 Matthew M. (Pelham, NY)…..16 2/29 Royce McC. (Unicoi, TN)…..230

1222 Total Years of Sobriety

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12&12   Tradition Six - "An A.A. group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose."

Soon they'd spotted their man, an A.A. with the necessary experience. Straightway he appeared at New York's A.A. headquarters, asking, "Is there anything in our tradition that suggests I shouldn't take a job like this one? The kind of education seems good to me, and is not too controversial. Do you headquarters folks see any bugs in it?" pp. 157-158

TWENTY-FOUR HOURS   A.A. Thought For The Day

Alcohol is poison to the alcoholic. Poison is not too strong a word, because alcoholism leads eventually to the death of the alcoholic. It may be a quick death or a slow death. When we go by package stores and see various kinds of liquor all dressed up in fancy packages to make it look attractive, we should always make it a point to say to ourselves, so that we'll never forget it: That stuff's poison to me. And it is. Alcohol poisoned our lives for a long time. Do I know that since I am an alcoholic all liquor is poison to me?  Meditation For The Day   I must somehow find the means of coming nearer to God. That is what really matters. I must somehow seek the true bread of life, which is communion with Him. I must grasp at the truth at the center of all worship. This central truth is all that matters. All forms of worship have this communion with God as their purpose and goal.   Prayer For The Day  I pray that I may meet God in quiet communion. I pray that I may partake of the soul-food which God has provided for me.

DAILY THOUGHT ^*^*^*^*^ (\  ~~  /) (  \(AA)/   ) (_ /AA\ _) /AA\ ^*^*^*^*^

Belonging There is no more aloneness, with that awful ache, so deep in the heart of every alcoholic that nothing, before, could ever reach it. That ache is gone and never need return again. Now there is a sense of belonging, of being wanted and needed and loved. In return for a bottle and a hangover, we have been given the Keys of the Kingdom.  c. 2001 AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 276

Thought to Consider . . .

Turn your wounds into wisdom.     *~*^AACRONYMS^*~*   G R A C E Gently Releasing All Conscious Expectations           DAILY REFLECTION     THE LOVE IN THEIR EYES Some of us won't believe in God, others can't, and still others who do believe that God exists have no faith whatever He will perform this miracle. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 25   It was the changes I saw in the new people who came into the Fellowship that helped me lose my fear, and change my negative attitude to a positive one. I could see the love in their eyes and I was impressed by how much their "One Day at a Time" sobriety meant to them. They had looked squarely at Step Two and came to believe that a power greater than themselves was restoring them to sanity. That gave me faith in the Fellowship, and hope that it could work for me too. I found that God was a loving God, not that punishing God I feared before coming to A.A. I also found that He had been with me during all those times I had been in trouble before I came to A.A. I know today that He was the one who led me to A.A. and that I am a miracle.           POT LUCK     "CALM: Care about life’s moments."     They say that one of the gifts of recovery is the sense of peace and calm that you get. I have heard it described as feeling comfortable in your own skin. That concept was totally foreign to me before I got sober; in fact, I felt the opposite way. My solution was a drink, and for brief moments I could relax and feel okay with myself. But by the end of my drinking, I was uncomfortable both drunk and sober, and that’s when I knew I had hit bottom.       I remember being amazed by how happy and easygoing everyone seemed in meetings. They could look me in the eye, smile, and offer me their phone numbers. They didn’t seem driven by the anxiety that was my constant companion, and I soon wanted what they had. I could have that, my sponsor assured me, if I was willing to do the things they did. And that meant working the Twelve Steps and developing a relationship with a Power greater than myself. I was willing.      It took years for me to work though the layers of my old self, but today I have the feelings of serenity and peace I sought. I even like and respect myself today. I am so very grateful to not feel that restlessness and discontent any longer. Today, I know calm and am able to take in and appreciate life’s precious moments. The gifts of sobriety go far beyond just not drinking, and these gifts are available to anyone who is willing to honestly work the program.