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Saturday August 23, 2025    from Waynesville, NC         “The question arises of just what constitutes an amend. Many of us find that the old rationalization, “If I stay sober, that’s amends enough to those I have hurt,”’ just doesn’t work. We have to be willing to go further.” ~ January 1967, Step By Step     "Thank God for allowing you to see another day. No matter what, keep trusting,  keep believing, be strong, have hope. The best is yet to come" Germany Kent     Most people don't grow up.  Most people age.  They find parking spaces, honor their credit cards, get married, have children, and call that maturity.  What that is, is aging. ~Maya Angelou     If growing up means it would be beneath my dignity to climb a tree, I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up! Not me! ~J.M. Barrie     Please Use This Link If You'd Like To Sign Up ADD A Friend , A Sponsee, A Sponsor or a Newcomer To Your Daily Reprieve Email List  https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/su/EA6cC5s           BIG BOOK QUOTE   Most of us feel we need look no further for Utopia. We have it with us right here and now. Each day my friend's simple talk in our kitchen multiplies itself in a widening circle of peace on earth and good will to men.   P16             DAILY SHARE   AA Speaker of the Day   DON C. Los Angeles, CA Serenity Improvement Group 04.26.25   https://bit.ly/4leoa6p           Celebrate Your Anniversary Here SHOW NEWCOMERS HOW IT WORKS!! Send your sober date and location to : so...@yourdailyreprieve.com     I always thought that posting our locations with our anniversaries was a great way to show newcomers that AA is all over the world. So I wish you would send your locations with your anniversary dates. We don't celebrate for our own benefit. We celebrate anniversaries to show the program works. If we add our locations we get to show that AA works EVERYWHERE!     AUGUST2025 Miracles     8/1 Bill H. (Wells, ME/Melbourne Beach, FL)…..16 8/1 David G. (Salem, NH)…..34 8/1 Michael K. …..15 8/1 Janet F. (Myrtle Beach, SC)…..3 8/1 Jessica E. (Sugar Land, TX)..…8 8/2 Garry K. (Kelowna, BC)…..56 8/2 Judy J. …..1 8/3 Dan S. (Glen Rock, NJ)…..10 8/3 Kurt O. (Sarasota, FL)…..3 8/4 Dan M. (Nantucket, MA)…..23 8/4 Maureen Q. (Syracuse, NY)…..31 8/5 Andre de (Bracknell, UK)…..23 8/5 Mary OO (Marina del Rey, CA)…..45 8/6 Jason J. (Maggie Valley, NC)…..13 8/7 Carrie B. (Orange Park, FL)…..6 8/7 Sherri R. (Panama City, FL)…..1 8/7 Glad H. (Atlantic Beach, FL)…..29 8/7 John D. (Natick, MA).….17 8/8/08 Donna F. (Cocoa Beach, FL)…..17 8/8 Steve R. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..1 8/8 Chris G. (Stuart, FL/Stone Harbor, NJ)…..21 8/8 Lisa L. (Canton, NC)…..10 8/8 David T. (Newmarket, NH)…..43 8/8 Leslie N. (New Providence, NJ)…..37 8/9 Jay C. (Waco, TX)…..23 8/9 Louise M. (Palm Coast, FL)….16 8/9 Vern M. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..25 8/9 Laura R. (Beaverton, OR)…..37 8/10 Justin B. (Anderson, SC)…..7 8/10 Susan B. (Tinton Falls, NJ)…..23 8/10 Rich M. (Rhinebeck, NY)…..11 8/11 Caroline O. (Selsey Bill, UK)…..16 8/11 Page H. (Amelia Island, FL)…..49 8/12 Billy M. (Haymarket, VA)…..25 8/13 Tommy OC. …..40 8/13 Kate P. (Hampton, NH)…..36 8/14 Tim D. (Newburyport, MA)…..32 8/14 Dottie Lu W. (St. Simons Island, GA)…..40 8/14 Wendy R. (WPB, FL)…..8 8/15 Tom W. (Charlotte, NC)…..1 8/15 Brian M. (Bernardsville, NJ)…..37 8/15 Dave O. (Everett, MA)…..6 8/15 Malley H. (Kingston, NY)…..40 8/15 George Y. …..31 8/15 Kurtis E. (Stuart, FL)…..3 8/15 Ronnie B. (Graham, NC)…..3 8/15 Siobhan (NYC)…..26 8/15 Ann W. (Darien, CT)…..40 8/16 Charlotte C. (New York City)…..16 8/16 Jody M. (Laguna Niguel, CA)…..19 8/16 Jeffrey B. (Vancouver, BC, CA)…..22 8/17 Charlie K. (Bay Village, OH/Naples, FL)…..27 8/17 John T. (Sarasota, FL)…..9 8/17 Susan D. (Parsippany, NJ)…..1 8/17 Jon B. (Parsonsburg, MD)…..37 8/18 Billy M. (Austin, TX)…..4 8/18 Paul D. (Hampton, NH)…..5 8/18 Steve C. (Jacksonville, FL)…..7 8/19 Dave C. (Murphy, NC)…..13 8/20 Bill W. (Sarasota, FL)…..33 8/20 Kurt M. (Jacksonville, FL)…..18 8/20 Larry B. (Kansas City, Kansas)…..24 8/21 Yolanda H. (Santa Cruz, CA)…..38 8/21 Kevin J.(Hampton NH …..16 8/22 Jackie Y. (Tustin, CA)…..31 8/22 John K. (Ruskin, FL)…..3 8/24 Marilyn R. (Sarasota, FL)…..30 8/24 Scott W. (Sarasota, FL)…..24 8/24 Claire S. (Garnerville, NY)…..38 8/25 John P. (Mallorca, Spain)…..6 8/26 Mike C. (Hilliard, OH)…..27 8/27 Stuart W. (Old Tappan, NJ)…..24 8/27 Greg R. (NYC)…..18 8/27 Kim S. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..30 8/28 Chuck M. (Boston, MA)…..40 8/28 Delia S. (Savannah, GA)…..35 8/28 John P. (Mallorca, SP)…..6 8/28 Patrick O. (Salt Lake City, UT)…..1 8/28 John D. (Graham, NC)…..7 8/28 Rick K. (Westport, CT)…..9 8/29 Mary O’C. (Maynard, MA)…..13 8/30 Chris B. (Sandwich, NH)…..33 8/30 Holly S. (Montreal, CA)…..28 8/30 Jeff G. (Morristown, NJ)…..12 8/31 Sarah M. …..17   1767 Total Years of Sobriety            Drop a Buck in the Basket? PayPal paypal.me/TomMurphy Venmo @Tom-Murphy-160     The cost to mail Your Daily Reprieve just went up to $195 a month!!       Thank you everyone for your generous contributions.       12&12   Step Eight - "Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all." These obstacles, however, are very real. The first, and one of the most difficult, has to do with forgiveness. The moment we ponder a twisted or broken relationship with another person, our emotions go on the defensive. To escape looking at the wrongs we have done another, we resentfully focus on the wrong he has done us. This is especially true if he has, in fact, behaved badly at all. Triumphantly we seize upon his misbehavior as the perfect excuse for minimizing or forgetting our own. p. 78               TWENTY-FOUR HOURS     A.A. Thought For The Day   "We who have accepted the A.A. principles have been faced with the necessity for a thorough personal housecleaning. We must face and be rid of the things in ourselves that have been blocking us. We therefore take a personal inventory. We take stock honestly. We search out the flaws in our make-up that caused our failure. Resentment is the number one offender. Life that includes deep resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness. If we are to live, we must be free of anger." Am I free of resentment and anger?   Meditation For The Day   Keep in mind the goal you are striving for, the good life you are trying to attain. Do not let little things divert you from the path. Do not be overcome by the small trials and vexations of each day. Try to see the purpose and plan to which all is leading. if, when climbing a mountain, you keep your eyes on each stony or difficult place, how weary is your climb. But if you think of each step as leading to the summit of achievement from which a glorious landscape will open out before you, then your climb will be endurable and you will achieve your goal.   Prayer For The Day  I pray that I may realize that life without a goal is futile. I pray that I may find the good life worth striving for.           DAILY THOUGHT ^*^*^*^*^ (\  ~~  /) (  \(AA)/  ) (_ /AA\ _) / AA \ ^*^*^*^*^ Gratitude   "Another exercise that I practice is to try for a full inventory of my blessings and then for a right acceptance of the many gifts that are mine - both temporal and spiritual. Here I try to achieve a state of joyful gratitude. When such a brand of gratitude is repeatedly affirmed and pondered, it can finally displace the natural tendency to congratulate myself on whatever progress I may have been enabled to make in some areas of living. I try hard to hold fast to the truth that a full and thankful heart cannot entertain great conceits. When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, the finest emotion that we can ever know."  Bill W., March 1962 1988 AA Grapevine, The Language of the Heart, p. 271    Thought to Consider . . .  I have learned what a heart full of gratitude feels like.    *~*AACRONYMS*~* I S M Incredibly Short Memory         DAILY REFLECTION     BRINGING THE MESSAGE HOME Can we bring the same spirit of love and tolerance into our sometimes deranged family lives that we bring to our A.A. group? TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 111-12   My family members suffer from the effects of my disease. Loving and accepting them as they are— just as I love and accept A.A. members—fosters a return of love, tolerance and harmony to my life. Using common courtesy and respecting others' personal boundaries are necessary practices for all areas of my life.         POT LUCK        Broken Hearts    Many of us, during the course of our lives, experience a number of broken relationships. Some of them are very painful and stay with us for years. We often feel we have been harmed and hold onto deep resentments about the rejection. After many days, months, sometimes years, we bury our broken heart and carry-on with our lives.     Step Eight asks us to take another look at these relationships. We must dig up our broken heart assume our responsibility for our part in the break. We come to discover that, whether we like it or not, we all have a part in the breakdown of the relationship. The way to help us heal the broken relationship is to make amends. As hard as thar may be that may be for us, we must make every effort except where we may harm someone. We must be fully honest, even it means the amends are not returned.     Today I try to remember that relationships always have two sides. I take responsibility for my part in broken ones, and make amends where I can to the best of my ability.       Stephen Beal, Editor, Stepping Stones to Recovery for Men                 UPDATED      **NEW** "AA Recovery Interviews" Podcast https://aarecoveryinterviews.com   Blog http://todaysreprieve.blogspot.com/     Wee Willie’s Sobriety First Media AA CD’s Literature and tapes https://www.mediafire.com/sobrietyfirst     AA Membership Survey 2022 Alcoholics Anonymous 2022 Membership Survey | Alcoholics Anonymous     Committee Consideration from the 73rd General Service Conference In response to a Committee Consideration from the 73rd General Service Conference regarding any possible future changes to literature written by A.A.’s founders,  that committee agreed it would be beneficial to gather shared experience from the Fellowship regarding this topic. Questionaire   How Should We Treat A.A. Founders' Writings?  https://bit.ly/3uhEPBK       DR. PAUL O. 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