Congratulations on the promotion and on all the invitations!
Best,
Joan Birman
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One thing that any mathematician can do is to simply respond politely
and substantively to e-mails from mathematicians, women and men (and
often I can't tell because I don't always recognize the sex of someone
from another culture), young or not so young, who write for help
that's related to the mathematics that I know. I tend to get letters,
maybe because I almost always respond. The letter writers often tell
me that "nobody else answered my letter." Without bragging, I do know
that I've really helped some number of women and men that way. Often
the math questions lead to questions such as the ones Christina
mentioned about choosing good research problems, but others are quite
different. One that comes to mind was a request, long ago, for a
suggestion of a gift to an elderly relative who was fascinated by
latin squares! Another was from someone who wanted to donate money to
honor someone who had died, and noticed that I had initiated the
Satter Prize, and wanted advice. (On that one, my part was actually
minimal; the good will of individuals in the AMS made the prize what
it is today.)
The "almost always respond" relates to the high school students whose
teacher tells them to write an essay about a famous woman
mathematician. Questions about my family from strangers feel rude to
me, and have nothing to do with mathematics. While the assignment is
surely well-intentioned, I question the judgment of the teacher. For
the same reason, I dislike the AWM essay contest.
"Cult of personality" is very popular in our culture, but we are
professional mathematicians, and promoting that feels undignified to me.
e-Requests to help high school students who want to do research are
another no-no for me. I just don't have the time, or real interest, in
using my time that way. I try to say no politely and not just delete
the letter.
Requests about admission to grad school are also tricky. I tell the
writer to go to the website for grad admissions. If a college math
student is writing, I say to make sure she/he has the prerequisites,
and then suggest that the student look at the research interests and
papers of the faculty members, to choose a good university. Very often
that will lead to requests about choosing an appropriate university,
and that's when I can start to really help. The letter-writers almost
always think that to be admitted to grad school they need the support
of an individual researcher. That's just not true in my university.
Best,
Joan
Quoting ChristinaSormani <sorm...@gmail.com>: