Godly Vs. Ungodly Sex - - Marriage, Separation, Divorce and Porn Copyright 6/23/'06; Revised 11/14/07; 5/15/08; 9/11/08; 03/23/09; 07/14/09; 06/20/10; 10/13/11; Tyler and Tyler Posts & Publications This is a text for unedited and unchanged distributi

[Ron Tyler]

Godly Vs. Ungodly Sex - - Marriage, Separation, Divorce and Porn

Copyright 6/23/'06; Revised 11/14/07; 5/15/08; 9/11/08; 03/23/09; 07/14/09; 06/20/10; 10/13/11; Tyler and Tyler Posts & Publications
This is a text for unedited and unchanged distribution on the net and
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by Tyler of San Diego, CA
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TABLE OF CONTENTS (Use your "finder" to locate a section number, e.g. [1.])

INTRODUCTION
[1]. A single woman touching/doing the genital of a man . . .
[2]. A single woman receiving the penis of a man in her mouth . . .
[3.] A single woman receiving a penis in her anus . . .
[4.] A single woman letting a man touch his penis to her skin . . .
[5.] If a man imagines and/or thinks about doing any of the sex sins above . . .
[6.] If a man imagines, thinks about or actually does touch any part of a woman's skin . . .
[7.] If a woman imagines, thinks about or actually does touch any part of a man's skin . . .
[8.] The act of sexually stimulating oneself to to orgasm, . . .
[9.] As far as I know, it is a Romans 14 issue if a single woman has the doubt-free
        faith/belief that it is acceptable to . . .
[10.] Touching a woman's breasts &/or nipples, lesbianism, seeing a woman's
        hairy genitals . . .
[11.] embracing, handling, pressing, using and/or squeezing the breasts of a woman - - - -
[12.] Laying bare, uncovering, and/or exposing the pudenda/vulva/labia/vagina/clitoris
        of a woman - - -
[13.] Oral sex when single or with a single woman - - -
[14.] MORE THOUGHTS ON ORAL AND ANAL SEX
15.] DOING UNGODLY SEXUAL THINGS TO A PERSON
[16] Thinking of doing sex with a cartoon/animation image - - -
[17] Controversial types of marriage in the Bible
[18.] Important terms, words and concepts dealing with sexual morality - - - -
[19.] Homosexuality, bisexuality, lesbianism
[20.] What about incest, sex with next of kin, relatives, cousins and in-laws?
[21.] What about children and sex and children having sex, being sexual?
[22.] THE POSITIVE SIDE OF THE SEX COIN
[23.] Marriage, separation, divorce, reconciliation
[24.] What is pornography? Pornography defined.
APPENDIX: Oral And Anal Sex Issues

INTRODUCTION

Only the Word of God is inspired and free of error, so as to what you read in
his document/file, please remember to obey the Word in the following:
***1 Thess 5:21 Test, examine and prove all things; hold fast to what is good.
***1 John 4:1 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see
whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
***Ephesians 5:10 and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord.
Please let me know of any and all errors you find in this document.

To understand what Jesus Word tells us today about godly sex and ungodly
sex we need to see what He told us about sex in the Old Testament, the
Old Covenant and the Law He gave to Moses. God began to reveal His
moral code in the Old Testament, especially to Moses, so we have to look at
it to see what the Bible says about  sex. It is clearly understood that Gentiles,
those who are not Jews, not descendants of Israel or or those who
covenanted with Jesus-Jehovah at Sinai - - that such people are no longer
required by Jesus-Jehovah to keep, observe and obey the Old Testament
Law. But it is clear that when Jesus used the terms fornication, i.e. sex sin
including adultery, homosexuality, incest and all sexual relations between
two people who are not joined together by God in marriage
- - He did not change the Old Testament definition of sex sin. When the
Spirit led the Apostles in Acts 15 and 21 to declare to be free from OT
Law observance all who are not descendants of the Sinai covenanters,
Israel and the mixed multitude, He did not change the Old Testament definition
of sex sin when He led the Apostles to declare - - -
++++25* But concerning those of the nations who have believed, we have
written, deciding that they should observe no such thing, only to keep
themselves both from things offered to idols, and from blood, and from
things strangled, and from fornication.? Acts 21

So we who are under the New Covenant, the Law of Christ, are expected
by God to keep ourselves from what the OT Law declares to be sex sin.
While the definitions came into the Church age unchanged, the social
and legal consequences of sex sin under OT Law did not remain unchanged.
Israel today and no other country on earth observes and/or enforces the OT
Law's social and legal consequences of sex sin. So let?s consider how the
OT Law defines the sex sin from which we are to carefully and diligently abstain.

A key word in this consideration is Strong's 07901 shakab {shaw-kab'}; v
Qal: to lie, lie down, lie on, to lie (of sexual relations, relating to another
by means of a sex organ)

***Lev 18:22  And thou shalt not have genital contact<07901> with mankind
as one has genital contact with a woman: it is an abomination. 23 And thou
shalt have genital contact<07901> with no beast to become unclean [by genital
fluids] therewith; and a woman shall not stand before a beast to have genital
contact <07901> with it: it is confusion.

So any genital contact between two people of the same sex and/or
anyone having genital contact with animals represents sin and is not fit for a
follower of Christ to do, see or think about (Phil 4:8) or enjoy (Rom 1:32)

***Exod 22:16 And if a man seduce a virgin that is not betrothed, and
have genital contact<07901> with her, he shall certainly endow her, to be
his wife.

***De 22:22 If a man be found having genital contact<07901> with a woman
married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that had
genital contact<07901> with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put
away evil from Israel.  23 * If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an
husband, and a man find her in the city, and have genital contact<07901> with her; . . .
25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her,
and have genital contact<07901> with her: then the man only that had genital
contact<07901> with her shall die: . . . 28 * If a man find a damsel that is a virgin,
which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and have genital contact<07901>
with her, and they be found; 29 * Then the man that had genital contact<07901>
with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be
his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.


The 3rd Century B.C. Jewish translators who gave us the Septuagint
rendered "Shakab" in the Greek as "Koitayn". Koitayn is rendered by
Lexigraphers Strong and Thayer as "cohabitation, . . . sexual intercourse."
Sexual intercourse is communicating with another by means of a sex organ.
Harper's Analytical Greek Lexicon agrees. Lexigraphers Arndt & Gingrich go
even further rendering it as "sexual intercourse, . . . seminal emission
(Num 5:20 . . . Lev 15:16f, 32; 18:20; 22:4 . . .)." This is the Greek word used
 in Heb 13:4 of marital sex in the marriage bed. To have sexual intercourse with
someone is to be communicating and/or interacting with someone by means of a sex
organ (penis, pudenda, vulva, clitoris, vagina). If a person does not
realize that there is communication and interaction when the penis of a
man touches the skin of a woman, that person doesn't know sex.
Nonverbal communication is as significant as verbal communication and
powerful and effective nonverbal communication is the penis of a man
touching the skin or mucous membrane of a woman, or the
clitoris/labia/pudenda/vulva/vagina of a woman touching the skin or
mucous membrane of a man, or the breast/nipple of a woman of a woman
touching the skin or mucous membrane of a man. Only the ignorant fail
to realize the reality of the nonverbal communication between the man
and the woman that takes place when the penis of a man is inside the
body of a woman or touches the skin of a woman.

Body fluids make one defiled or unclean under the Law. A woman who has
contact with the penis fluids of a man who is not her own man maritally
has been "defiled" sexually, and is fornication since a woman, under
the Law should be defiled by penis fluids only by her own man. See Gen
34:5,13,27; Deut 22:20-30.

From the Holy Spirit's use of <07901> above I understand the following:

[1]. A single woman touching/doing the genital of a man is
a single woman relating to a man by means of his genital, therefore it is <07901
shakab or Koitayn> behavior.
***Exod 22:16 And if a man seduce a virgin that is not betrothed, and
have genital contact<07901> with her, he shall certainly endow her, to be
his wife.
***De 22:22 If a man be found having genital contact<07901> with a woman
married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that
had genital contact<07901> with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou
put away evil from Israel.  23 * If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an
husband, and a man find her in the city, and have genital contact<07901> with
her; . . . 25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her,
and have genital contact<07901> with her: then the man only that had genital
contact<07901> with her shall die: . . . 28 * If a man find a damsel that is a virgin,
which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and have genital contact<07901>
with her, and they be found; 29 * Then the man that had genital contact<07901>
with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be
his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

If her relating to the man by his genital (anally, orally or manually)
was voluntary and she did not cry out for someone to rescue her from the
man's sexual activity,it was sex sin (Deut 22:23-29; Acts 21:16-26; 1 Cor
6:9-20), the sex sin we are told to avoid and flee from in Acts 21:25 and 2 Tim
2:22. Such sin should be avoided by disciples of Jesus Christ. "19 . . . I want you
to do what is good and to avoid what is evil." Rm 16 GW

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