Three Key Break Up Warning Signs

[Dana Turner]

Relationships constantly evolve. If you are not feeling good about
some of the changes that are happening in your relationship you are
probably wondering if they are signs of an inevitable break up. Not
every change means you are headed for break up but there are three key
break up warning signs.
Break Up Warning Sign #3
The blame game is the number three break up warning sign. If its
always the other person's fault then no one is taking responsibility.
Sometimes in relationships people revert to childhood tendencies.
These aren't that actual words but in effect they are saying, "it's
not my fault, you made me do it." There is no culpability for one's
own actions. So if neither party is willing to take responsibility for
the relationship there is going to be a problem. This blame the other
person is the number three warning sign of a break up.
Break Up Warning Sign #2
Constant fights are the number two break up warning sign. If the
frequency and content of the fights tend to escalate then you have a
serious break up problem. When two people fight like this things get
said and insults are hurled that are very difficult to take back
later. Its very, very difficult to keep the relationship going this
way. What the fights are about is not nearly as important as the
nature of the fight. Verbal sparring often leads to very serious
relationship injuries and is clearly the number two warning sign of a
break up.
Break up Warning Sign #1
Relationships often move very quickly to a comfortable place. However,
it is very easy to move from being comfortable with each other to
neglecting each other. Neglect is the number one warning sign of a
break up. Neglect can take many forms but we all know it when we are
feeling it. You may feel neglected because your feelings and opinions
are not seriously considered. Even worse you may feel neglect because
you are being ignored. When your significant other begins to tune you
out the relationship is headed for a break up. This type of neglect is
really the most insulting. It implies that you have no value or
anything to say worth listening to. So it is important to address
neglect, the number one warning sign of a break up immediately. Don't
let it persist.
Ideally, couples will see these warning signs and address them before
they get out of control. However, the reality is that many people let
these things go on and eventually find themselves in a broken
relationship and they don't really know why. Go over these three key
break up warning signs and you will begin to find the real source of
your problem.

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