[penelope garner]

Please give me some suggestions on how to break the ice about having desires for women to your man, without him getting jealous or becoming insecure?
 

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[penelope garner]

[Charles Purcell]

That is a good question. Being a male and an open-minded male, I
wouldn't have a problem with it. But first let me make this
suggestion...If you aren't sure how your man will react to you telling
him about your desires, why not rent an adult movie with a woman/woman
love scene and watch how he reacts to it. Then just ask how he feels
about that. Or you one evening you can say something like, "What are
some of your wildest fantasies?" Then after he answers, I'm sure he
will ask you the same and then you can share your's. Remember though,
in either case you do run the chance of him becoming jealous or
insecure. But depending on how long you've been married or dating the
man, you should know how he may react. I've found that we know our
mates a lot better than we let on, but choose to ignore or deal with
certain personality traits because at the time our love for the person
out weighs anything else. Sometimes we have to face the fact that we
may have out grown the person we're with. I'm not saying you still
don't love them or have feelings for them, but that maybe at this time
of our lives, this relationship isn't for us. Just like couples that
try swinging. It can make or break a relationship. So you have to
weigh the pros and cons for yourself and think about are you willing
to take that risk.

In my life though, I have found that honesty is the best policy. So
if you have that desire and it is something you really want to try,
the nbe honest and discuss it. You may even want to let him know that
you want to talk about something that may upset him, but since you
love him, you want to be able to share your thoughts with him and not
feel weird. Above anyone else, you should be able to trust your mate
with your feelings. If you can't, why be in the relationship? I'm
not sure if this helps. Let me know what you think.

DCNUDIST

On Apr 6, 12:23 pm, penelope garner <sixftbe...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Please give me some suggestions on how to break the ice about having desires for women to your man, without him getting jealous or becoming insecure?
>  Living My Life Like It Is Golden
>

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