Are You a Dogmatic Person?
Junaid Tahir
Are You a Dogmatic Person?
Are You a Dogmatic Person? Understanding the Signs and Impacts We all encounter different personalities throughout our lives, bu t one par...
Are You a Dogmatic Person? Understanding the Signs and Impacts
We all encounter different personalities throughout our lives, bu
t one particular trait that often stands out is dogmatism. Have you ever found yourself or someone else being overly rigid in their beliefs, refusing to consider other perspectives, or always insisting that their way is the right way? If so, you might be dealing with a dogmatic personality. But what exactly does dogmatism mean, how can you identify it, and what impact does it have on both the individual and those around them? In this article, we’ll explore these questions and offer practical advice on how to improve if dogmatism is affecting your personality or your relationships.
What Is Dogmatism?
Dogmatism refers to a personality trait characterized by the tendency to hold thoughts in a rigid, inflexible manner without considering alternative viewpoints or evidence. People with dogmatic tendencies often believe that their opinions, beliefs, or views are the absolute truth and resist changing them, even when presented with conflicting information.
In simple terms, a dogmatic person believes their way is the only correct way, and they are often unwilling to listen to others or entertain new ideas.
Signs You Might Be a Dogmatic Person
It’s not always easy to identify dogmatism in oneself, but recognizing certain behaviors can help. Here are some common signs that indicate dogmatic tendencies:
1. Inflexibility in Beliefs
A dogmatic person is often unwilling to change their beliefs, even when faced with new evidence or a different perspective. They may argue endlessly to defend their viewpoint, even when it’s clear that their stance doesn’t hold up.
2. Difficulty Accepting Contradictory Views
If you find it challenging to accept ideas or opinions that differ from your own, this could be a sign of dogmatism. Dogmatic individuals frequently dismiss opposing viewpoints as wrong or misguided, rather than engaging in open-minded discussion.
3. An Overemphasis on ‘Right’ and ‘Wrong’
People with dogmatic personalities tend to view the world in black-and-white terms. They may not tolerate ambiguity or complexity and often insist that there is a clear right answer to everything.
4. Lack of Curiosity
Dogmatic individuals are less likely to explore new ideas or seek out information that might challenge their existing beliefs. This lack of curiosity limits their personal growth and understanding of the world around them.
5. Excessive Confidence in Their Own Knowledge
A dogmatic person often overestimates their own knowledge or understanding of a subject. They may believe they know everything there is to know and may dismiss others' expertise or experience.
Practical Examples to Identify Dogmatism
Understanding how dogmatism manifests can help you recognize it in real-life situations. Here are a few practical examples:
In Conversations: Imagine a conversation where someone insists that their favorite political viewpoint is the only reasonable one. Even after providing facts that contradict their argument, they refuse to entertain the idea that they might be wrong.
In the Workplace: A dogmatic leader might disregard feedback from team members or insist on using a specific method, even when other approaches could be more effective. They refuse to acknowledge that their ideas could benefit from input or adaptation.
In Relationships: Dogmatism can surface in personal relationships when one person refuses to consider the other's opinions, making the relationship feel one-sided. For example, if one partner is adamant that their way of handling finances or parenting is the only valid way, it can create tension and resentment.
حضرت قران کہتا ہے:
"اِنَّ الصّلوۃَ تَنہیٰ عَنِ الفَحشَاءِ وَالمُنکَر۔
بے شک نماز بُرے اور بے حیائی کے کاموں سے روکتی ہے۔
)سورہ عنکبوت آیۃ 45(
لیکن آج ہم دیکھتے ہیں کہ بہت سے لوگ نماز بھی پڑھتے ہیں اور سود بھی کھاتے ہیں،
جھوٹ بھی بولتے ہیں، بے حیائی کے کام بھی کرتے ہیں۔
ہم خود بھی نماز پڑھنے کے باوجود گناہوں سے مکمل طور پر کنارہ کش نہیں ہو پاتے۔
تو اِس آیۃ کا کیا مطلب ہوا؟
فرمانے لگے: قاضی بیٹا۔
قران کی آیۃ پر نہیں اپنی نمازوں پر شک کرو۔
کہ ان نمازوں میں ایسی کون سی کمی ہے
جو تمہیں گناہوں سے نہیں روک پا رہیں۔
صحابہ رضوان اللہ علیھم اجمعین نے کبھی یہ سوال نہیں کیا،
کیونکہ انکی نمازیں واقعی نمازیں تھیں۔
اب بھلا سوچو اگر ایک شخص کو دن میں پانچ بار عدالت میں جج کا سامنا کرنا ہو تو کیا وہ جرم کرنے کا سوچے گا بھی؟
جرم تو وہ کرتا ہے جو سمجھتا ہے کہ عدالت سے بچ جائیگا۔
یہ جواب سن کر مجھے وہ حدیث یاد آگئی کہ بہت سے نمازیوں کی نمازیں انکے منہ پر مار دی جائینگی۔
یا اللہ ہمیں اصلی اور سچی نمازیں پڑھنے اور اس پر پابند ہونے اور رہنے کی توفیق عطا فرما دے۔
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