From the Times of 11 Nov 2022:
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Lady Guthrie obituaryVivacious wife of the chief of the defence staff whose exacting standards of duty as a military spouse were much admired
When in 1973 Kate Worrall married Major Charles Guthrie of the Welsh Guards and SAS, she knew he had a future in the army. Her father had ascertained as much before consenting to the marriage. She could hardly have known, however, that he would rise to be chief of the defence staff and a field marshal, or consequently what duties would fall to her.
...She had, too, given up a life of some glamour. St Mary’s, Ascot, the premier Catholic girls’ school, was followed by finishing school in France, and then London in the early Sixties — a house off Old Brompton Road and a turquoise Mini, a 21st-birthday present, to get her about for the season (and to Heathrow). A bit of interior decorating and selling make-up for an American franchise filled any spare time, as well as some “sleuthing” for the intelligence services, which according to one source “was probably quite serious”...
...Catherine (Kate) Agnes Worrall was born in 1941 at the family home, Bitham Hall in Warwickshire, to Claude Worrall and Celia (née Moore), the eldest of six children. Her father, a Coldstreamer from an old Catholic family, stayed on in the army after the war and was posted first to Greece and then Libya. Kate’s first school was Italian, in Tripoli. She inherited her father’s good looks as well as her mother’s, but notably her maternal grandmother’s eyes, “twinkling and quite mischievous”...
...In 1970 her younger sister, Sue, married David Lewis of the Welsh Guards, Guthrie’s closest regimental friend, and Lewis naturally asked him to be his best man. Kate, who had yet to meet him, was in the hall at Bitham with her back to the door arranging flowers when someone came in leaving it open. She shouted over her shoulder to shut the f***ing door, then turned to see in dismay a man in uniform whom she took to be the regimental padre come to discuss some detail of the wedding.
The romance began, but Guthrie was posted to Northern Ireland, so it had to continue by phone. Guthrie, notably quietly spoken, must at times have struggled to keep the flame alive. He was surprised on one occasion to be thanked for the beautiful flowers she’d just received. He had not, in fact, sent any flowers, and concluded that there was competition. While there probably was, there remains speculation that the suggestion of flowers was in fact a skilfully cast fly. Whatever the case, not long afterwards, Guthrie flew from Belfast to propose to her in Kew Gardens. He survives her, with their two sons: David, an entrepreneur; and Andrew, who runs a polo team in Switzerland...
Lady Guthrie OBE was born on September 10, 1941. She died of heart failure on October 8, 2022, aged 81https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/lady-guthrie-obituary-8bmjx5mxk