he m Alexandra d of Alan MAYS-SMITH of Waldron, East Sussex
Alan Alfred Michael Mays-Smith (26 IV 1933 - 21 V 2015) was High Sheriff of East Sussex in 1995, and was subsequently appointed as a Deputy Lieutenant for that County. He was Master of the Clothworkers Company in the City of London in 1997-8, and as per his obituary on page 15 in the Autumn 2015 edition (No. 13) of The Clothworker (see https://issuu.com/clothworkers/docs/final_clothworker_13), he was the younger son of Lt Col Robert Shankland Mays-Smith, MBE (9 X 1902 - 1980) and his wife, Brenda Mary Hilda, née Rickett (1905 - 1990), (Robert) Martin Mays-Smith (17 XI 1930 - 25 IV 2014) being his elder brother.
Alan Mays-Smith was married in 1963 (registered Q4 - Chelsea) to Mrs Rosemary Wild, née Ellson (born 1938; birth registered Q3 - Surrey Mid East), and they had one son, Simon Richard Shankland (per company records, born September 1971; birth registered Q4 - Horsham), and three daughters, Charlotte M (born 1965; birth registered Q3 - Islington), Alexandra Hamilton (born 1968; birth registered Q3 - Islington), and Antonia Martha S (born 1970; birth registered Q2 - Horsham).
There are some interesting family connections. Brenda Rickett, the mother of Martin and Alan Mays-Smith, was the daughter of Hubert Cecil Rickett, OBE, JP (1877 - 1947), who was High Sheriff of Surrey in 1930-1, and her brother, Sir Denis Hubert Fletcher Rickett, KCMG, CB (1907 - 1997), was a senior civil servant. Sir Denis's son, William Francis Sebastian ("Willy") Rickett, CB (born 1953), another former senior civil servant, is married to Lucy Caroline Clark, a great granddaughter of Herbert Henry Asquith, 1st Earl of Oxford and Asquith, Prime Minister 1908-16.
Mrs Rosemary Wild was a widow when she married Alan Mays-Smith. She had been briefly married to Michael J T Wild, but he sadly died at the age of 25. His great-great grandmother, Frances Ellen Pemberton, was the sister of Thomas Pemberton-Leigh, the 1st and last Baron Kingsdown (1793 - 1867).
Mrs Rosemary Mays-Smith's parents were Kenneth Richard Ellson (19 X 1904 - 1985) and his first wife, Vera Mary Downes (13 V 1908 - 1972), whose brother was Wing Commander Eric Mytton Downes, OBE (1901 - 1963). Wing Cdr Downes was the father of Gillian Mary Downes (born 1930), who married Sir Archibald Birkmyre, 3rd Bt; their son is Sir James Birkmyre, 4th Bt (born 29 II 1956), and their elder daughter, Alison Mary (born 5 IX 1954) is the second wife of John Ailwyn Fellowes, 4th Baron de Ramsey.