Dear all,
I would like to share with you a reflection that I prepared regarding Student’s Abilities, intelligence, effort and motivation from my readings in my secondary methods online course.
Please find my reflection attached.
Best,
Lucy Hany
Lucy Hany wrote:
> */Dear all,/*
>
> I would like to share with you a reflection that I prepared regarding
> Student’s Abilities, intelligence, effort and motivation from my
> readings in my secondary methods online course.
>
> Please find my reflection attached.
>
> */ /*
>
> */Best,/*
>
> */ /*
>
> */Lucy Hany/*
>
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Thank you so much for your feedback and advise. I enjoyed reading your
comments and I really liked the "baby steps" idea very much. Yes, these
students definitely need a lot of support, patience, hard work &
persistence.
Thank you:)
Lucy
Pan Yone wrote:
> Dear Tabitha,
>
> Thank you for your views on supporting students with learned
> helplessness. It is very tough, as you say, to convince these students
> that hard work and perseverence is key. One of my students, the son of
> my boss, is one of these students. His mother is so used to the fact
> that he is the naughty one of three children, that she seems to have
> stopped encouraging him to try harder. I am sure she is busy with
> running a school and raising three children and all, but when he
> openly tells the class that "My mom says I can't be a doctor. She said
> I will be nothing" it breaks my heart. It was at that moment, that I
> realized that all his concentration difficulties, frustrations and
> lack of motivation were more deep seated and could not be written off
> as him "just being naughty". I have started to try paying more
> attention to him, being more patient and trying to find class
> acitivities that are exciting to him and that motivate him.&nb sp; It
> is really exhausting, but I am very lucky that most of his classmates
> are understanding and support him through it. He needs the individual
> attention that he can't get at home, so tantrums, cheating, and
> misbehaving is the only way he seems to know how to receive it. It is
> a challenge, but I hope, over time, I will be able to reach him.
>
>
>
> Pan Yone
> 2-257 Kaijin-cho
> Leo Palace #203
> Funabashi-shi
> Chiba 273-0022
> Japan
> mobile: 09096785158
> phonemail: pan...@ezweb.ne.jp <mailto:pan...@ezweb.ne.jp>
>
>
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Pan Yone wrote:
> Dear Tabitha,
>
> I do make a point to telling him when he is exceptionally good. And,
> most times, he runs out of the class to tell her himself. She thanks
> me for being so patient with him. I do tell her that I don't think
> that he is 'slow' as she believes, but has attention problems and
> can't focus. He enjoys creating things, but mostly, he just loves
> running around making noise and a mess ha ha. I have managed to get
> him on side, though, and I hope I can work harder with him. I am using
> a lot of the methods from my Learning to Read course on him, and they
> seem to be working. I think I might sit his mom down with some
> literature and explain his weaknesses, but show her how much stronger
> he is in areas that the school doesn't attend to. I hope that will work.
>
> Thanks for your reply. He is tough and we all dread it when he comes
> to the after school sessions kicking and screaming, but most of his
> teachers are very patient with him. One one hand, we don't have a
> choice, but on the other, like me, we all love his laugh and smile.
> They are contagious and his laugh lights up the room.
>
>
>
> Pan Yone
> 2-257 Kaijin-cho
> Leo Palace #203
> Funabashi-shi
> Chiba 273-0022
> Japan
> mobile: 09096785158
> phonemail: pan...@ezweb.ne.jp <mailto:pan...@ezweb.ne.jp>
>
>
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> > Date: Mon, 20 Nov 2006 17:09:02 -0500
> > From: dell...@tcnj.edu
> > To: I2...@googlegroups.com
> > Subject: Re: Reflection! Students' Abilities
> >
> > Pan
> > My heart is breaking for this kid. Does he show an interest in anything?
> > I think that you should make a point of telling his mom when he does
> > good things. She needs to get a gentle nudge to focus on good things
> > about her son. And, he needs to get some positive encouragement. Is
> > their any chance of a real intervention with his parents? I know that
> > the power dynamic is sticky with his parents being who they are, but I
> > am just wondering.
> > Tabitha
> >
> > Pan Yone wrote:
> >
> > > Dear Tabitha,
> > >
> > > Thank you for your views on supporting students with learned
> > > helplessness. It is very tough, as you say, to convince these students
> > > that hard work and perseverence is key. On e of my students, the
> > > &g t; Hi Lucy,
> > > > I am a big fan of Carol Dweck's work and especially thank you for
> > > > sharing this reflection. While I agree with your statements, I find
> > > > myself wanting to play devil's advocate a bit. Many teachers may
> read
> > > > your views as very idealistic. When you have a student in your
> > > classroom
> > > > who expressed a "learned helplessness" because of years of thinking
> > > that
> > > > they have low ability and no control over the outcomes, it is very
> > > > difficult to motivate that student. I might suggest that your
> > > > committment to motivating students and helping them form a positive
> > > > self-concept is completely right. However, remember that you may
> > > need to
> > > > take many baby steps with students to get them to the place
> where you
> > > > hope they end up. The kind of lack of motivation t hat expresses
> as a
> > > > entity view (often with learned helplessness) doesn't happen
> overnight.
> > > > It is the result of cumulitave reinforcement of that belief over
> time.
> > > > That means that current and future teachers as well as parents and
> > > peers
> > > > need to support that change in that view. Think about the kind of
> > > > student who would rather cheat and brag about getting an "A", than
> > > study
> > > > and get a lesser grade. That type of student is so starved for
> positive
> > > > attention, they don't care how they get it. Convincing him or
> her that
> > > > "performance" isn't as important as "mastery" could be a tough sell.
> > > > To be sure, I don't have the answers. But, I wanted to encourage
> you to
> > > > hang in their with students even when it seems like you aren't
> getting
> > > > through to them. Every supportive ad ult makes a positive
> difference and
> > > > contributes to the "baby steps" that we hope will ultimately
> result in
> > > > students' ability to develop a new and improved self-concept.
> > > > Best,
> > > > Tabitha
> > > >
> > > > Lucy Hany wrote:
> > > >
> > > > > */Dear all,/*
> > > > >
> > > > > I would like to share with you a reflection that I prepared
> regarding
> > > > > Student’s Abilities, intelligence, effort and motivation from my
> > > > > readings in my secondary methods online course.
> > > > >
> > > > > Please find my reflection attached.
> > > > >
> > > > > */ /*
> > > > >
> > > > > */Best,/*
> > > > >
> > > > > */ /*
> > > > >
> > > > > */Lucy Hany/*
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