needing spiritual guidance on daily happenings with my family

[Ruth]

i feel bombarded by my children. i'm 42, single and support 3
teenagers ages, 20, 21 & 22. My daughter who is 21 has a baby and she
lives with me. The baby's daddy found a new girlfriend right when the
baby turned one years old. Anyway, i'm the only one with a car and i
have to haul them everywhere. I gave my oldest son a car that he did
not take care of so now he can't get a job because his car is not
working. My youngest son is doing very well in school. He has 1 year
to go. What should I do? Last week my hormones were so bad and I
yelled at my 22 yr old all the way home. He's just not making an
effort to find a job. He has tickets he needs to pay and I seem to
worry about them more than he does. The father is not in the picture.
He's too busy chasing girls. Any words of wisdom from anyone?

[JanNitz]

Hi Ruth... I just thought I'd write and say hello to you.... Not sure that I really have any good advice to offer...but I can offer friendship of you want someone to talk to.

My email address is jan...@dragonbbs.com

Write to me anytime you want to.

Jan

[Spiritual Leader]

Hi Ruth,

It must be very hard for you to talk about situations like that, no
doubt.
If you trust in God, He will guide, and show you how to handle this.
Most important here, is to Hope. Don't give up. Never be afraid to ask
God for help. Even if you stopped praying for quiet some time.
This is the Spiritual Guidance i can give you.

I want to share that you don't have to think your children are trying
to upset you. They aren't trying to "Bombard" you.
They are going through a very difficult time at the moment,
as most children at that age do.
However, don't get too hard on them. Time heals all, God heals even
more.
Your children just need "Your" Spiritual Guidance at the moment,
to guide them trough these harder times.

Make God help you, help your children.
Never lose Faith.

[4 Him]

Ruth,
I know that in times like these that it seems that you are all alone
but you are not,
We dont know why God lets us get so many knots in our rope that we just
dont want to go on anymore, other than the maybe He is trying to reach
us and we are not listening and are running from the Him. Please feel
free to contact me if you want to talk, remember there isn't anything
that God can't do in,for and with us..... here is my e-mail address
tswo...@msn.com
P.S. If anyone want's to talk feel free to contact me God Bless Terry