Deception

[Bossy79]

Well while you are writing, perhaps you can enlighten the universe of
Venus as to why men lie more than necessary and after they are caught
in the lie and then attempt to recreate the lie after missing the
original tone of how truth can set you free. It amazes and baffles me
at the nonsense that incurs through the scope of dating while
insisting that this indeed is truth knowing that the enslavement of
even the greatest mind is a lie, so why should I fall for your
bullshit, but then we get wrapped up in the romantic gestures and
undertones, the sweet nothings and beautiful melodic rhymes of the
possibilities and what if and where is and we allow the obvious to go
pretending that it is really love blinding us, but knowing all along
the bullshit we are hearing is exactly that, shit on a
stick.....sometimes we stay for money others for companionship and the
courting of the relationship meanwhile telling ourselves that he is
really in this for us, for me, but knowing that those unanswered late
night phone calls really mean something else and we slip and slide in
and out of a web until the tangles are so messy like a child's hair
that not even the thickest of combs can work its way through the kinks
and weaves....what a world of deception has mounted beyond that last
stitch but then we cover ourselves with make-up and high heels and
strut knowing that my man loves me....doubting all along the pure
disdain of your existence....so was he deceiving me or did I really
deceive myself?? When we learn that the deception against one's most
powerful self thy inner self is more harmful than love gone wrong,
then we have not only ....

Just venting

[Ms. Miller]

There's nothing worse than being lied to by someone...unless, of
course, it's lying to yourself. Why anyone lies is a mystery to me.
Usually, it's to "spare" the other's feelings. But I think it's more
to save their own ego (or backside).

Sometimes we think we've found the "right" person, someone who will
give us what we want, only for them to prove us wrong. It just shows
us that there isn't going to be "One" person out there to complete us,
fulfill us, save us, or any other such nonsense that Hollywood and
fairytales would like us to believe. We have to do it ourselves. We
have to rock our own worlds, complete our own lives and then find a
great guy (preferably a man, though, or gal if it happens for you that
way) who can be the cherry on top of our cupcake instead of the center
of our universe, or light of our life. That way, if they disappoint,
the upset is minimal and short-lived. The cupcake is still yummy,
with or without that cherry on top.

Cheers,
Sandra

[Bossy79]

Great analogy...With the cupcake, so so true

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