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Maya
Feb 6, 2007, 12:51:03 PM2/6/07
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Hi girls. My name's Maya and I'm from Argentina and the reason I'm
here is that I've been having too many problems with my husband lately
and I don't know what to do. We went through a lot and over the last
years, I've had to put up with a lot of nonsense and now I think I've
had enough of it. It seems that I've run out of patience and tolerance
and I feel at a loss. I know that I'm not perfect either, but at least
I try to pay attention to what he likes and needs. I try to listen to
him and I respect everything we agree to do, but he doesn't do that
for me. You can't imagine how sad and disappointed I am. I really
don't know what to do. Perhaps we should split up. I don't know. I
don't really know if I love him anymore. I feel so frustrated. and
mad. Hope you can help me. Thanks.
here is that I've been having too many problems with my husband lately
and I don't know what to do. We went through a lot and over the last
years, I've had to put up with a lot of nonsense and now I think I've
had enough of it. It seems that I've run out of patience and tolerance
and I feel at a loss. I know that I'm not perfect either, but at least
I try to pay attention to what he likes and needs. I try to listen to
him and I respect everything we agree to do, but he doesn't do that
for me. You can't imagine how sad and disappointed I am. I really
don't know what to do. Perhaps we should split up. I don't know. I
don't really know if I love him anymore. I feel so frustrated. and
mad. Hope you can help me. Thanks.
Ms. Miller
Mar 25, 2007, 12:37:37 AM3/25/07
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Hi, Maya. I'm sorry I'm so late in responding, and I'm very sorry for
what you are going through. There is no easy answer for this
situation, and only you know what is right for you. I don't know what
has transpired since you made the post, but my advice would be to talk
to him and give it one more try. Sometimes people/couples get into
bad habits, including how they communicate - or not - and how they
behave. Usually, we aren't aware of these habits. One can only hope
that if the habit(s) are brought to our attention, we will work to
change it...but that doesn't always happen. It takes two people to
work on a relationship. And sometimes it acutally takes three people,
including the help of a counsellor. Is therapy something you would be
willing to try? In any event, it sounds like you need to put the
focus back onto you rather than him. Do things that make you happy.
Spend quality time with your friends. Go for a promotion at work or
land a fabulous new job. If you give a little more to yourself, you
won't feel so spent.
what you are going through. There is no easy answer for this
situation, and only you know what is right for you. I don't know what
has transpired since you made the post, but my advice would be to talk
to him and give it one more try. Sometimes people/couples get into
bad habits, including how they communicate - or not - and how they
behave. Usually, we aren't aware of these habits. One can only hope
that if the habit(s) are brought to our attention, we will work to
change it...but that doesn't always happen. It takes two people to
work on a relationship. And sometimes it acutally takes three people,
including the help of a counsellor. Is therapy something you would be
willing to try? In any event, it sounds like you need to put the
focus back onto you rather than him. Do things that make you happy.
Spend quality time with your friends. Go for a promotion at work or
land a fabulous new job. If you give a little more to yourself, you
won't feel so spent.
I hope that things have improved. Please keep me posted on what's
happening. I wish you all the best.
Cheers,
Sandra
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Mar 29, 2007, 5:29:59 AM3/29/07
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