dildo how use them slowly

[crismontreal]

I d like to play with dildo ...I m scared...
I d like to meet a master or someone to help me slowly
to tell me what kind of toy I need ...how to do th efirst
time...etc...
thx

[Wristrider]

What toy you'd start with would depend on how much use your butthole has
already gotten. If you are the type that has a sizable man using him and
find yourself begging for still more, then start with a toy that's a few
inches bigger all around.

My first toy was about 10" long and 2.5" in dia. The length took me a little
while but the width was never a problem, just a source of pleasure. Very
quickly bought much larger toys and eventually worked up to double fisting.

My best friend wishes his ass would open like mine. If he wants to use a toy
it's got to be a very, very small one. We joke that he's the tightest ass
bottom either of us has ever heard of.

Everybody's butt is differnt. You really are the best judge of what size you
can handle.

I assume you are aware of needing lubricant on them...

Wristrider in NJ, USA