Not straight and simple Karva Chauth
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Not straight and simple Karva Chauth
Supriya Bhardwaj, TNN 8 October 2009, 07:03am IST
CHANDIGARH:
Karva Chauth, which is the celebration of matrimonial love and devotion, is
also changing as our society’s definition of marriage evolves.
New facets of traditional relationships emerged, as city residents observed the
festival on Wednesday.
Apart from married women, men also fasted on the day. But the most novel
development of this year’s festival was that homosexuals also became part of
the celebrations. Paro, 19, a gay man from Manimajra, fasted for his
“husband†on the day.
Clad in a salwar-kameez, Paro joined the women of his locality in listening to
vrat katha and worshipping. Apart from participating in rituals with women,
Paro was also excited about the gifts that his “husband†bestowed upon him.
“This Karva Chauth, my husband bought me a gold chain and silver anklets. The
attitude of society is gradually changing regarding us,†he said.
A gay couple in Panchkula also fasted for each other’s longevity. They said
the court’s order relaxing rules under Section 377 of Indian Penal Code had
made their lives easier. “After such a long time, we are enjoying a certain
amount of freedom thanks to court’s order. We are like any other couple and
have normal feelings,†said the “husband†on condition of anonymity.
Temples and parks emerged as hub of activity on Wednesday when women worshipped
and listened to vrat katha. The wait for the moon led to roads in city being
deserted in the evening. However, the night saw many visiting the markets.
Married men also continued the recent tradition of fasting for long lives of
their wives.
Sector-44 resident Kavita Sharma, who tied the knot recently, said, “This
time, my husband too decided to fast with me.â€
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