This is not so helpful (
https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/cc704588.aspx )
0xC0000409
STATUS_STACK_BUFFER_OVERRUN
The system detected an overrun of a stack-based buffer in this application. This overrun could potentially allow a malicious user to gain control of this application.
* Is this on 64-bit Excel?
* Can you check the Windows event log and post any related Application Error that you see there?
* Do you have a way to reproduce this with a small VTO add-in?
It sounds just like this issue, which seems to be a bug in the internal COM clean up at shutdown:
https://github.com/Excel-DNA/Samples/issues/8