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LMR relates to Last Minute Resistance
Can be described as a state of mind the woman gets into after entering
the seduction phase and place and right before the physical activity
with a man.For example, a woman might come home with a guy she met at
the club, and may even make out with him, but resist when it comes to
taking off her panties or bra. They can even both be naked in his
bed, but she might still say that she doesn't want to have sex. A
number of reasons exist to explain this behavior. First of all, women
are much more sensitive and vulnerable than men, and sexual activity
can be associated with more responsibility (pregnancy and giving a
birth, taking into consideration absence of the contraceptives during
the evolution process). Second of all, woman is located in a new place
for her at this moment (in most of the cases, this is not her house,
apartment, etc.) And third of all, the arousal is usually escalated
much faster than in common relationship, and may cause feeling of
discomfort. The main method to take woman out of this state is to
define the reason of LMR and try to erase it. Seduction process works
best with pre-establishing the fact that physical contact may not be
achieved and acceptance of that fact by the man.
Whatever the cause of LMR, handling it often starts early in the
interaction, using time-bridging, comfort building, and slowing down
the interaction to assure the woman that the PUA is interested in more
than just sex, and that they will stick around after the physical act.
Other ways of dealing with LMR include using freeze-outs and making a
woman feel comfortable and assuring her that her reputation will not
be affected.
Just as a man feels anxiety before approaching a woman, a woman feels
a similar anxiety before she agrees to sex. Most women want to
describe the sexual encounter as "one thing led to another" or "it
just happened." For this reason, asking a women directly to have sex
will often lead to LMR. It is also important to avoid state breaks
when in the final phases of seduction, and transition smoothly to sex
so as not to give her an opportunity to interrupt.