When somebody told me that he has failed in his exams, my question is, "Is it a law that you will pass every time?"
When someone told me that my spouse broke up with me, my question was, "Is it a rule that you will have successful relationships everywhere?"
When somebody asks me why I am depressed, my question is, "Is it compulsory to have confidence all the time?"
When someone cries to me about his huge business loss due to his wrong decision, my question is, "Is it possible that you make all the right decisions?"
The fact is our expectation that life has to be perfect/permanent is the biggest reason for our unhappiness. One has to understand the law of impermanence of nature. After each sunny day, there has to be a dark night, after each birth there have to be certain deaths, for the full moon to come again it has to pass through no moon. In this imperfection of nature, there is perfection.
So stop taking your failures and bad parts of your life soooo personally or intensely.
God does not like to give you pain but its the cycle through which you have to pass. Prepare yourself for one more fight after each fall because even failures cannot be permanent...! Enjoy life....
Your breath comes to go. Your thoughts come to go. Your words come to go. Your actions come to go. Your feelings come to go. Your illnesses come to go. Your phases come to go. Your seasons come to go. You have come to go.
Then why do you hold on to your guilt, anger, unforgiveness, hatred so so so tightly,