You
are reading from the book Today's Gift.
Spring does not ask an audience, but shapes each blossom perfectly,
indifferent to applause. --Joan Walsh Anglund
In the spring each blossom brings its own shape, color, and fragrance.
The lilacs come early to spread their lavender splash. Apple trees
burst into white, cherry blossoms into pink, and each weaves its unique
and pleasant perfume.
They don't bloom because someone told them to, or because they will
receive anything in return. They bloom for the pure joy of blooming.
They bloom because that is what they are here to do.
Each one of us blooms in our own time, with our own color and
fragrance. Every one of us is a special and important blossom, and we
are all part of the tree of life.
How will my day today help me grow?
You are reading from the book Touchstones.
Edith Bunker: I was just thinking. In all the years we been married,
you never once said you was sorry.
Archie Bunker: Edith, I'll gladly say that I'm sorry - if I ever do
anything wrong.
--Norman Lear
We can laugh at Archie because we see a part of ourselves in him. We
have lived in a cloud of denial, blind to our faults. If we weren't
actually blind to them, perhaps we just refused to admit them because
we did not dare. Changing this pattern takes time and determination. We
make progress in recovery when we stop focusing on what is wrong with
others and start being accountable for ourselves. We grow when we are
willing to amend our lives and accept forgiveness for our mistakes.
A feeling of self-respect flows into us when we stand up and say "I did
something wrong." This statement also says, "I have the strength to
face my responsibilities and repair my mistakes." It is surprisingly
helpful to our self-esteem, and it improves our relationships.
Today, I will be accountable for my actions and will admit my mistakes.
You are reading from the book Each Day a New Beginning.
It's ironic, but until you can free those final monsters within the
jungle of yourself, your life, your soul is up for grabs. --Rona
Barrett
We all have monsters. Maybe it's depression over the past or present
circumstances, or resentment about another's behavior, or fear of new
situations. Maybe it's jealousy of other women. The more attention we
give the monsters, the more powerful they get. The harder we try to
resist the jealousy or depression or fear, the greater it becomes.
The program offers us the way to let go. And we find the way through
one another. When we share ourselves fully with one another, share our
monsters with one another, they no longer dominate us. They seek the
dark recesses of our minds, and when we shine the light on them, they
recoil. The program offers us an eternal light.
I will let the program shine its light in my life today. My monsters
will flee for the day.
You are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go.
Letting the Cycles Flow
Life is cyclical, not static. Our relationships benefit when we allow
them to follow their own natural cycles.
Like the tide ebbs and flows, so do the cycles in relationships. We
have periods of closeness and periods of distance. We have times of
coming together and times of separating to work on individual issues.
We have times of love and joy, and times of anger.
Sometimes, the dimensions of relationships change as we go through
changes. Sometimes, life brings us new friends or a new loved one to
teach us the next lesson.
That does not mean the old friend disappears forever. It means we have
entered a new cycle.
We do not have to control the course of our relationships, whether
these be friendships or love relationships. We do not have to satisfy
our need to control by imposing a static form on relationships.
Let it flow. Be open to the cycles. Love will not disappear. The bond
between friends will not sever. Things do not remain the same forever,
especially when we are growing and changing at such a rapid pace.
Trust the flow. Take care of yourself, but be willing to let people go.
Hanging on to them too tightly will make them disappear.
The old adage about love still holds true: If its meant to be, it will
be. And if you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, the
love is yours.
Today, I accept the cyclical nature of life and relationships. I will
strive to go with the flow. I will strive for harmony with my own needs
and the needs of the other person.
Today I dare to believe in the beauty of love. Today I trust I am being
led to love by love and my day will be full of love. --Ruth Fishel