Where Is My John Wayne??? (Where To Meet Men)

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This is a common question on womens' minds, and even more frequently,
as an Advisor on Keen, I pick up the phone and the querent on the
other end of the line asks me "When will someone new come into my
life, and where will I meet him?".

Being a Professional Tarot Reader on Keen for nearly six years, I can
tell you of the 20,000+ readings I have provided, that this is one of
the most difficult questions to answer.

First of all, timing and the tarot is very difficult, I can provide
you with my best estimate, however, I cannot nail it down to a
specific day. Dependent upon how the cards come up in your reading,
whether they are very distinctive giving me a clear answer, or kind of
misty and weak, giving me an indeterminate answer, is how I can
provide an answer for you.

When the cards come up well defined as to when, and the type of man
the querent is going to meet it is because the querent is doing all of
the free will exercises that she needs to to improve her odds of
bringing love into her life. This means she is very social, gets out
and puts herself in social situations, doesn't sit at home and wait
for the new man to somehow "beam down" from metaphysical ectoplasm
into her living room. These readings are usually extremely accurate
and easy for me to interpret.

The difficult reads are the querents who get the weak cards. The
opportunities and possibilities are there, but the cards are weak
because the querent is living a very asocial existence and is not
"getting out there".

I give readings in an honest and forthright manner, and if I DON'T see
someone new coming in in the time frame I am scouring, I will tell the
querent so. If the querent is open to more than just a "psychic
quickie" and is really looking to change her situation, I will tell
her straight out that her cards are telling her she needs to make
certain changes, whether it is taking a class in something she always
wanted to learn, joining a club or organization, checking out an
online dating service, getting involved in volunteer work, or just
doing a little "clubbing" with the girls to get herself out
there........changes need to be made.

If you are in the same set social pattern and are not meeting anyone
to date, you need to MAKE CHANGES! Someone new is not going to pop
onto the scene if the scene never changes, you have to change the
scene!
As far as meeting men at work goes, I highly advise against it, the
reason being that if it does not work out, you still have to go to
work every day, and hence, may be uncomfortable around the individual
in question for the balance of your employ, but I highly recommend
taking advantage of meeting men literally EVERYWHERE ELSE!!!

Some querents ask me where to go to meet men. The answer is OUT! Out
to the library, the bookstore, the convenience store around the
corner, the pottery class, the local Red Cross to give blood........in
traffic, EVERYWHERE!

There is no "Magickal Place" where they keep all the men that you need
to discover, you just need to open your eyes and look around
you.........they are, literally, EVERYWHERE!!

The trick is how to turn a casual passing-by into a conversation.

Please read my blog on "An Experiment In Utilizing Your Feminine
Energy" and put it into practice!
http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Brigid_Bishop/An-Experiment-in-Utilizing-Your-Feminine-Energy-by-Brigid-Bishop/119216.aspx

You will be meeting your John Wayne and your Marlboro Man everywhere
you go, conversing and practicing your receptive energies to
perfection........that is what draws men in and that is what motivates
them to ask you for your number.

If you don't want to click over to read the blog, it's this
simple......you see a gentleman that appeals to you, ANYWHERE, and you
do nothing but smile and maintain eye contact with him for ten full
seconds, count them off.........you will have more spontaneous
conversations than you can count!

A lot of women respond to me with "Oh, I signed up for a class, and it
was filled with women". So what? On your travel to the class, you
have multiple opportunities, in class, the women you so disdainfully
matriculate with have brothers and single friends that you could meet
if you took the time to befriend them a bit.

Volunteer organizations like the American Red Cross (of which I am a
member) are a fantastic way to meet multitudes of people, and people
know people, the more people you meet, the larger your network, and
the wider the net you cast.

My answer on where to meet men is: Everywhere!