This title is corny, but should be in every advisor's library and
frequently recommended to clients, especially female clients.
Dr. Allen explains the biological differences between the male and
female brain, unless the male is right-handed, the male brain actually
has less synapses between the right and left hemispheres (the thinking
and feeling sides). This will cause a delay in the males' ability to
determine what outside physical events are causing him to feel this
way. That is why 2 months is the magic number for breakups to
reconcile, it is not always dead on, it can stretch just a bit further
dependent on level of contact, but it holds true over and over again in
my readings and my life.
This book also explains the differences between male and female energy
and communication styles and why so many smart, pretty, successful
women have a hard time getting to the commitment level of a
relationship. Following her simple methods of communications really
does work! Clients either get the commitment within a year of
implementation, or weed out the noncommttal bad matches very quickly,
wasting less time on dead end relationships.
A must read!