[BLISS WARRIOR] ASK MISS BLISS -SHE TIED ME UP, TOOK MY PICTURE & TOOK OFF

[BLISS WARRIOR]

Dear Miss Bliss,

A couple of weeks ago I received some great advice from you regarding my first date with a girl. Well, the date was successful. She is as cute as a button. We have very different body types; she is a very petite and I am taller and curvier. We had dinner and drinks, and she insisted she come back to my place. For some reason, she wanted me to be drunk when she started to caress my breasts and feel me up. Things started getting heavy and I found myself butt-naked while she was still fully clothed. All energy was focused on me which was great. I had a couple of intense orgasms but I really wanted to touch her. That didn't happen. After she was done pleasuring me, she had me take her home.

Since then we had a second date and it was pretty much the entire experience all over again only this time she brought her own vibrator and tied me up, which I thought was great, as well. Once we arrived at my house, she started to remove my top and wanted to take pictures. She said she wanted to remember my large gorgeous breasts later on, but it was a bit absurd to me. Again, she wouldn't allow me to undress her, but I did get a few small feels which was hardly enough to satisfy my needs.

It's been two weeks now and neither of us have attempted to contact one another. This girl is really mysterious and there is a small language barrier between us because she is originally from Beijing and I have a hard time understanding her character. I am totally confused and kind of weirded out knowing there are pictures of my breasts out there. Does this type of behavior normally occur between two girls? I know it sounds naive or presumptuous, but I was kind of blindsided by the whole camera thing and her not being able to get naked.

Thanks,
Camera Shy



Dear Camera Shy,

Now you understand why men think girls are so crazy. There is nothing like dating girls to help a girl feel more like a guy.

Darling girl, this is by no means an ordinary or normal date between girls, and I can understand why are you are feeling used and cheapened. You entered into the date with love, opened yourself up to the possibility of great sensual pleasures, and trusted your lover enough to let her take control. But because of a communication problem, and because the two of you do not know each other very well, you had different expectations for the date.

There are many possible reasons why the girl wanted to please you but did not want you to touch her. I do not think it has anything to do with the difference in your body sizes. She obviously was into your body and you were into hers.


WHY DIDN'T SHE JUST GET NAKED?

1. She could be seeing someone else, most likely a man, and feels it would be cheating if you gave her pleasure. She is allowed to make you orgasm, but would be betraying her relationship if anyone but her primary partner made her come.
2. She could have some kind of STD, and not being able to communicate that to you, just "protects" you by not letting you touch her.
3. She could be on her period and does not want to gross you out.
4. She could be into BDSM and likes to "top" or "dominate" other girls. If this is the case, her pleasure comes from the power she has over you and the pleasure she gets from pleasing you.

BAD COMMUNICATION EQUALS BAD SEX

Whatever her reason, she was not communicating it to you, and this is a problem. Girls, in my experience, very much prefer equality in sexual trysts and enjoy making one another come again and again and again, trading off and taking turns. That is the beauty of two multi-orgasmic girls making love to one another. This girl made you feel insecure and confused because you opened your whole body up to her and she refused to do the same for you. Just because a lover makes you orgasm does not mean she can run off without letting you touch her at all. (Unless, of course, you both find that sexy.)

PICTURES WITH PERMISSION ONLY

As many of you know, the pictures of me on my page are all real, taken during real dates by my husband, and are true candids with no special lighting or makeup. Any picture with another person in it (even faceless) has been posted with permission. I love erotic photography and believe that pictures of women making love can be very empowering. However, we also live in a digital age and have to protect ourselves from pic collectors and other creepy folks.

These are my rules for erotic photography:
1. All pictures taken will be burned onto cd immediately, so all parties involved will have the pictures.
2. Any pictures that are "bad" will be deleted immediately and everyone has veto power.
3. No pictures will be made public, be put on a myspace page, or any web page without the explicit consent of all involved, even if the pictures are faceless.

If she was taking pictures for anyone but herself, she should have told you. In the future, if you do not know a lover well, do not let her take your picture. She has to earn your trust and friendship first.

XOXOXOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR

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Posted By BLISS WARRIOR to BLISS WARRIOR at 11/07/2007 10:34:00 PM