Dear Vivek,Even in your apologies (if you seriously meant them) gives a clear indication of your giant ego and that you seem to have been hurt at the attempt of people to just tell you to mend your ways and appreciate efforts of others.I wish God gives you enough time and patience to mend your publicly non-defensible writings and be better known as a very sensible social worker for the last society. I know you do not need any certificate for that but whats the harm in appreciating and not looking down upon other's efforts, you will only see there are more friends along your journey to support and appreciate your efforts (I know you do not need them)...and in the process we will be able to make 1+1=11 for the common society. Everybody will benefit from that, even the last man, let the positive energies flow, even in a child or an MNC millionaire. If you have the guts and leadership ability to bring together such efforts on a common platform, that will be your golden contribution to the society...I am not only talking about money but efforts in kind. But till you are able to unite the efforts, you seriously need to learn to be positive and shed your ego or else let others do what they want and do not criticise them. Remember, every bit of criticism can only lower the morale of people because it is coming from YOU who is a veteran in this field. But being a big brother calls for more maturity and understanding.Hope your future glows more positive than today and let the common man benefit. Take this positively, you may like to react as always but if only you would be able to see the positive energy within...Regards.Dr.Kamal
ÂOn 10/19/07, Vivek Umrao Glendenning <umrao...@gmail.com > wrote:Respected Dr Ravi Kant Ji, Dr Reddy Ji, Dr Kamal Ji, Surendran Ji, Ranjan Ji and othersÂI apologize for my all mails. I think, I should not reply in mails. I have understood that BM is a great organization and all are great.Respected Brothers and Sisters,Please this time forgive me, I will try my best to not put my leg in any discussion or matter.I hope I will be forgiven.Please Respected Dr Reddy Ji forgive me, Please Surendran Ji forgive me, Please Dr Ravi Kant Pathak Ji forgive me, Please Dr Kamal Kishore Sharma ji forgive me, Please Ranjan Ji forgive me, Please all BM members forgive me.I promise, I will try to praise BM and its members by accepting their greatness and completeness.Âlovevivekps- please forgive me, please accept my apology. please.ÂÂÂÂSubject: Re: [BM_discussion] Re: Uniting and Rejunvenating BM
ÂDear VivekÂI hate to entre in to any debate. But, now, I request you, stop it. I agree with you regarding asking for money in such large quantities. I donot find any logic. Money should come automatically when the work needs it. First one has to start working.ÂButÂTum bahut muh fat ho.Kya tumhara yaha manana hai ki tapsya sirf jangal me ya himalay jaisi pahdiyon me ki ja sakti hai? Kya nagarme rehene walonme koi tapswi nahi banta?ÂKya manav jatiko sevake liye ghar bar chhodneki aawashyakta hai? Ky koi apni jagaha, apne kartavyanko nibhate huve logonki seva karte hi nahi?ÂMaan liya ki tum is dishame sabse bahut hi aage ho.Mera manana hai ki tumne pichhle janam me chhoda huva adhura kaam aage badhaya hai. Us vaqt jab kaam chalu kiya tha, tumhari umra kya hogi?ÂJo tum kah rahe ho, danke ki chot par tab kahana jab tumhari santan ho. Jab tumhari santan ek kadam chalegi, usko bahut khushi hogi. Tab kya tum kahoge ki isme kaunsi badi bat hai? Mai to marethon daud chuka hun.ÂKoi bhi kisibhi umarme agar ek kadam bhi chale to uski sarahana karna sikho. Tum bade ho hi. Dusron ko chhota dikhake kya tum aaur bade ban jaoge?ÂVidya vinayena shobhate, yah sahi hai ki ya firVidya vinayena na shobhate?ÂEk bat pakki than lo. Ma kabhi kharidi nahi ja sakti. aaur, agar bachheko sahi rasta na dikhaye to vaha maa nahi hoti. So mai to tumhe batati hi rahungi.ÂRememberthey also serve who only stand and wait.Âabhi logon ne aage badhna shuru kiya hai. Jis disha me tum choti par ho. unki sarahana karna sikho. Na ki unko chot panhuchao. Isase tumhare vyaktimatvako char chand lag jayenge.ÂTum kitnebhi naraj ho jao. Mai jitni tumhari sarahana karti hun, utnahi tumhe samzane ka haq rakhti hun.Âek bar fir spashta kardun. tumhara batana galat nahi hai. Bataneka tarika, dhang galat hai.ÂAkalpitaÂÂ
Dear Mr.Vivek
 First of all I m pleasantly surprised by your decision to include me in the intellectual class or that is what I understand from your mails. If that is what you meant, I am obliged to tell you something in this regard.  I am not a scholar, nor an academic, I don't have an IIT/IIM degree or for that matter I don't even belong to any of the premier educational institutions. I am a software professional by qualification but I don't work for any corporate (I am not intending too) and I do not have access to really big money and I never had it too. On top of all I am not even half your age. But I do know what our society is, where I stand in it, what it needs and what my accountability to the society is etc, if not to your levels and I strongly believe I would learn it with age and I am of the opinion that yours' is not the only way to do it.Â
 Well if
you feel there is no ideological base in this thread, I would be happy to straighten
it out. I would be very glad to explain my
stand if you can kindly point out where I have erred in logic. Since you have raised this point of ideology
and logic, I would also like to ask you something in this regard, which I feel
you would be more than willing to answer and clear my doubts. In your replies, you have visualized BM as
the elite class and that you are willing to stand with the under privileged
class. Â This, if I am not wrong, is a Marxist
stand. This being the case, are you
working towards social reconstruction or are you marching towards a revolution
to overthrow the elite class and put the subaltern class in a better position. Â If this is not the case and if you are not a Marxist
by ideology why shouldn't I tell that you are pulling up ideologies at will to
justify the points you are willing to convey through that mail. How would you logically justify Gandhian
ideology and Marxism in a single mail? While
you criticize the mails for being philosophically loaded, intellectual, heavy
but hollow words etc, how would you explain this act of pulling Marxism out of
no where, into this issue, though you are not putting it in direct words?
           When a person is dying in the ocean you may jump in it, even if you don't know swimming, to save him. I would like to appreciate this tendency of yours and I bet not many would have this guts. You may even succeed in saving the person, even if you yourself don't know swimming. But how many times can you do the same. If for instance, if you happen to drown (God Forbid) during the second such incident, what is the plight of the persons who would fall in the same ocean after that. We do not want one such scenario to come up and our intentions are to develop such a situation whereby nobody falls into the ocean again. We may be slow but sure to reach there or at least initiate the process which would be continued by the forthcoming generations.
           As you have chosen not to reply in this chain anymore, I would request you to post me a reply to my inbox at least and I am eagerly awaiting it.
B.Surendran
You've sent this to BM_Discussion asking him to reply personaly???
Vande Mataram!
Â
Prahalathan
http://www.prahalathan.blogspot.com/
www.BhumiChennai.co.nr
Â
India at 60, Better than yesterday,
But, not as good as tomorrow!
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From: BM_dis...@googlegroups.com [mailto:BM_dis...@googlegroups.com]
On Behalf Of suren
Sent: Monday, October 22, 2007 12:41 AM
To: BM_discussion
Subject: [BM_discussion] Re: Fw: Brotherhood: Humanity: Social Working:
Priorities in individual life
If in a mail you have something related to social welfare, even it is
personally addressed, you have all rights to post it in groups.
Please do not get sad. Continue to discuss things HOT or COLD but related to
social welfare.
One more thing, society loves, who works in ground not words.
keep going with thinking and discussions related to society. Do not care for
logics.
love
vivek
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From: "Dr. Prahalathan KK" <prahala...@gmail.com>
Sent: Tuesday, October 23, 2007 9:56 PM
To: <BM_dis...@googlegroups.com>
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Dear Abhijit,
You can agree with whatever Vivekji had said about the middle class and upper class and they are true to some extent too. But you must also realize another fact. Most of the social movements in this world be it the French revolution or the Indian struggle for independence, everything has been started and sustained only by this middle class with a true motive of development.
The fact that BM had been started as a novel experiment is very true, but why do you have to see that as one which is bound to fail. The point where this mail thread had started was rightly named as rejuvenating BM and you can see it in that perspective also. You can see this as the demise of a movement called as BM or else you can see this as the resurgence of BM with fresh blood and more energy, overcoming the hitches it had faced in the past. The choice is open to you.
In solidarity with the cause of people,
Abhijit
On 11/1/07, Gopal Krishna <gopalkrish...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Abhijit Bhai: There is a difference between organization and ideology -
> there is a difference between organization's tactical failure and ideology's
> moral failure.
> So, the failure of BM that u talked about in ur mail, is tactical, political
> failure of organization and not ideology's moral failure.
>
> BM's ideology will survive as long as even one person can stake his all for
> it. So, we should wait for few more years before we can say that BM's
> ideology is a mistake/failure: who knows, the seeming darkness is harbinger
> of future light. At least, I am quite hopeful and will stake my all for BM's
> ideology in a "centralized-in-hands-of-fulltimers" type of
> organization, which can serve the ideology without dilution/ridicule for a
> very long period of time.
>
> Being the first person to join BM, i know what BM's real ideology was ( i
> put it down now for my next centralized organization here -
> http://gopalkrishna.mission.googlepages.com/CoreIdeology.doc
> ) and also know, how little BM's members understood or felt true
> commitment towards it and how when reminded about their lack of commitment,
> they reacted as if ideology was a matter of view of one person, who started
> the cause, and hence can be changed/modified, diluted/diverted with time by
> members, who consider themselves "more mature/practical/evolved" - such is
> the nature of human mind and its moral frailties .
>
> I assure all, in future there will be a rise for BM's ideology, possibly in
> a new structure/organization, and this time, enough "political intelligence
> and centralization in hands of fulltimers" will be employed to not allow any
> chance for "drama of maturity/practicality even on ideology" .
>
> Centralize , centralize and centralize the organization in hands of those
> rare few, who understands it fully and r fully devoted - the path of reform
> is not guided by law of majority, who have third-class devotion and
> third-class understanding of the cause, but by the law of few, the few who
> can stake all for the sake of cause. That is the great political and
> psychological lesson that I learnt after working in BM organization for 2.5
> years - and this is a very big and important lesson not only for pioneers of
> this cause but for society also .
>
> ready for brickbats :) but will not respond to such critics who themselves
> never understood BM's real ideology and never were humble enough to elevate
> themselves up to it rather than using their petty power to drag/dilute/mock
> the ideology .
>
> May God save every noble cause from pseudo-mature, worldly people. May all
> pioneers of such cause, be politically intelligent enough to protect the
> spirit of cause from pseudo-mature, worldly people. That's my only
> soul-deep prayer.
>
> Thanks,
>
> Gopal
> --
> Gopal Krishna
>
> B. Tech Computer Science, IIT Kanpur
> 1st year MS, UIUC
> ph: 1-217-819-0966
> Homepage: http://gopalkrishna.mission.googlepages.com
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Sent: Thursday, November 01, 2007 11:11 AM
To: "Gopal Krishna" <gopalkrish...@gmail.com>
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"Dr. Subba Reddy" <dr.s...@gmail.com>; "Santosh Nargund"
<spna...@yahoo.com>; "Saurabh Bharat" <saurabh...@gmail.com>; "Gaurav
Bharat" <gaurav....@gmail.com>; "Dr. Prahalathan KK"
<prahala...@gmail.com>; "Sundeep Jalan" <sundee...@yahoo.co.in>;
"Rishikesh" <rishikes...@gmail.com>; "Balajee Chandrasekaran"
<cbal...@gmail.com>; "Ravi Kant" <r...@andrew.cmu.edu>
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