HELP NEEDED in CORRESPONDING GROUP
Just Me
Hi there,
this is a copy of a posting to another group and with permission of
the poster I am going to ask this group to please help by giving
comments that could be helpful. Please also include if you give
permission for your posting to be posted in the Girls corresponding
group , if you give permission your id as hers here will not be used.
Here is the question:
I am going out with this guy and I have been hearing things about him
going out with another girl...but the thing is I'm afraid to confront
him about it because I am scared that he will get really mad or
something. So now I feel like a failure because I feel like I didn't do
something right and I know he didn't want sex because he would have
told me. I guess I'm not right to have a boyfriend right..........I
just don't know what to do and I that
is why I am asking for your help.. Can you help me? What should I do,
dump him or keep him?
I am 17 and he is 18, we have known each other since we were in middle
school and we have been going out since January of 2006. He is leaving
in November for the Marines and I feel like I should do something. It
seems like I always see him hangout with his ex girlfriend but I am not
really that sure if there is something going on or not. I mean I am not
really that afraid to ask him about it but at the same time my last
relationship lasted only a month and a half because he was cheating on
me. I feel like I am doing something wrong.
JGB...@gmail.com
give from my experience is to ask him outright. It is better to hear
the truth and set your mind at ease or feel your heart break all at
once than having done over a very long period of time. Ask your friends
to find out for you. But most important - remember that you are
nobody's doormat and no man has the right to hurt you.
Just Me
1. post this in the girls group for all to read or 2. copy this and
send it to her personally. Naturally without your id or email address
as I posted here for her. By the way I am one of the owners and
moderators of both groups as we saw the possible need for cross posting
help without anyone having to be embarrassed about discussing or
ranting about anything they felt like. And to make sure that there is
no inappropriate material here for younger members. We have another
group for anyone to post in of any sex for those who do not mind who is
participating. And any of you who are of age may feel free to join it
as well. You can find it at AdviceRantsNRaves
http://groups.google.ca/group/AdviceRantsNRaves
AdviceRa...@googlegroups.com