Who is guilty of Fornication or Who is guilty of Adultery

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Vuyiswa Maseko

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Jan 18, 2011, 4:43:30 AM1/18/11
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Today i am going to Post my Last post here in Google Group. You will
notice that the Formatting of the text its a bit of a problem ,
because of the functionality that was removed by Google Group we will
not have the Rich formatting.

"Who is guilty of Fornication or
Who is guilty of Adultery"

This is one of the most controversial topics for people who leave in
denial, I mean for people who think that they are holier than others.
A lot of people are in hell as we speak because of these two things.
Kingdoms and kings had fallen because of these two things. These are
the desires of flesh, these are the products of flesh and these are
the sins that will always be with mankind as long as they are
controlled by the Flesh or as long as sin lives in them.

Let me first define what Fornication is

“Voluntary sexual intercourse between persons not married to each
other”

Today’s topic is about Fornication and Adultery. Who is guilty of
these offenses?

In today’s society every young man and woman and even older people are
guilty of this sin. I teach the word not because I am holier than you
or better than. I teach the word because the lord told me to teach and
he tells me what to teach and with the same teachings I am learning.
The fact still remains that I am still human that lives amongst you
and I am capable doing the same thing I preach about. This is because
of the sin in me, I do things that I hate, things that I despise, and
this is because I allowed the enemy to overpower me at some point.
Before Jesus came we all believed that in order for us to be guilty of
these both sins we need to physically to do them.

“Mat 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to
lust after her hath committed adultery with
her already in his heart.”

Jesus said if you look at a woman in a lustful way, you have committed
adultery. This applies to woman also. If you are not married you will
be guilty of Fornication. You don’t need to physically do it in order
to be guilty of this sin. By thinking of it, you are guilty. There is
no one who can say he never did it before and there is no one who will
tell me these thoughts never came across him or her except Jesus.

Every man and woman have their so called “ideal woman” or “Mr. right”,
this Mr. is first created in the mind and after , the man or woman
will start searching for this person that was created in the mind in
reality. Then later we find out that we were deceiving our selves, and
we start to settle for what we have and we convince ourselves it is
the best. Later in life we see exactly a figure of what we expected in
our minds and we start to develop lustful thoughts because that is
exactly what we wanted in the beginning.

If this happens to you, It does not mean you are a weak Christian, but
you must remember that the spiritual forces of darkness that you fight
against , knows everything about you and you know nothing about it. So
the only way to defeat these kinds of spirits is only through Jesus.

If you are a Christian with a boyfriend or girlfriend, there is 99.8%
chances that before you became together, you were first guilty of
Fornication because one of you, first imagined the whole scenario that
will not explain. The boyfriends and girlfriends do kiss and kissing
take care of the mind and you will be guilty of the sin of Fornication
if you are both unmarried.

This is just too complicated and it is against God’s way. God does
not dwell within ourselves when we do that, but God still forgives us
if we ask him to forgive us and he never remembers our sins.
But how can we avoid fornication?

“1Co 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his
own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”

This verse says, if you get married you will not be guilty of the Sin
of Fornication. Now if you are married there is another sin that is
at disposal to you. If you look at a woman or a man in a lustful way
you will be committing adultery.

The same law applies to both. Your thoughts play an important role ,
if you don’t learn to control your thoughts you will commit adultery
every day. If you are a married man today and you say you never had
such thoughts, you are a liar.

In the ancient times of Jesus, John, Moses and Paul, Man and woman
wore different clothes than the clothes we wear today. In times of
Jesus you could not see a curve of a woman or her thighs, but today it
is a different story. Woman wear different clothes, that at some point
the Devil uses to confuse married man and pastors and other man of
God. God created you, he understands everything, so if you have a
problem with the curves that you see daily. Then you should ask him to
blind you and he will do it, you will walk in a busy street and never
notice any curve, ask me I have seen it.

You can control your thoughts; you can make sure that every woman you
see, is like your sister or your mother. You will never look at your
mother or your sister in a lustful way. If you continue with it this
way. You will be free from this sin. For this temptation not to come
back, you need to eliminate the friends you have. Make sure you choose
friends who do not go to places where people are half naked or wearing
to attract man (You know what I mean).

If you go to those places the devil will tempt you again but in a
different way that you will not know how to defend yourself. First we
knew that the Devil was using the mind to attack us, and now we know,
and if you go to the places I mentioned above, you will be attacked by
Devil and you might not resist. So choose your friends carefully, you
might have had old friends that were your friends before you were
saved, then join them when you do things you commonly enjoy. But when
they go to those places, go home.

Sexual sin is sweeter than anything, but the results of it, is bitter
than anything I have ever tasted. There are Beautiful woman out there
and there are handsome man out there, but until you accept that you
will never have them all, you will continue to be guilty of this sin.

“Pro 9:17 Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is
pleasant.”

As I said, its feels nice for a sinner to cheat a wife, husband

Pro 5:3-5 The Words of another man’s wife may seem sweet as honey;
they may be as smooth as olive oil. But in the end she will bring you
sorrow, causing you pain like a two-edged sword. She is on the way to
death; her steps are headed straight to the grave”

For every action we make as long as we are in this world, there will
be results. Some will be good and other will be bad. I did not want to
make this teaching long. Please take the verses I have shared and read
the on your own and if you have questions, you know I will be here to
answer you in the name of our lord Jesus.

God Bless

Vuyiswa

Mildred Majadibodu

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Jan 18, 2011, 6:48:49 AM1/18/11
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Shooooo... So now what happens in cases where a woman never marries? Does this mean she is sentenced to life full of Fornication?

I mean the bible says:

"One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord".

So, this means a human being can stay unmarried and still remain pure. Doesn't it?

Okay my question now. If I don't marry(remembering that marriage is an institution created by God, not man), meaning that sometimes those who remain single for the rest of their day is not always by choice, does it mean that I'm not a real Christian and therefore not blessed as other people believe?

According to Genesis 2:18, God saw that a man was lonely and created a woman. So, why is it that most people are still lonely even after they had married? Isn't this because of the mistake people make by thinking that their lives will be better if they get married or they'll be less lonely if they get married?

Again the bible says:

"Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart". There are those who desire to only serve God without having 'their interests divided', which means they desire serving the Lord even in their single status. Do we then say they are wrong because God never meant for man to be alone?

This is a very interesting topic I must say.

God Bless

Vuyiswa

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Vuyiswa Maseko

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Jan 18, 2011, 7:30:19 AM1/18/11
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Good Day Mildred 

Very Good Question you are asking. I thank God that he gave me Wisdom to understand all this complicated things about the word. 

Mildred wrote: So, this means a human being can stay unmarried and still remain pure. Doesn't it?

Yes it is possible, but a difficult thing to do. if you can go on reading the verse you just quoted , you will see at the end Paul is saying , after all this is his own opinion and he did not get any command from the lord about this , but as the spirit of the lord is with him we must do what he teach. Mildred the ancient times of Paul was different from our times. But i tell you that what you are asking  is possible. as long as you can control your thoughts and follow what God teaches you then you will can achieve what you just asked. 


Mildred wrote: Okay my question now. If I don't marry(remembering that marriage is an institution created by God, not man), meaning that sometimes those who remain single for the rest of their day is not always by choice, does it mean that I'm not a real Christian and therefore not blessed as other people believe?
Mildred. Marriage is a good thing and it was created by God only for this world , because in the next life there is no marriage, we will all look like angels and there wont a need to marry, there wont be a feeling to commit adultery ,  because we will not be flesh , but Spirits. if you decide not to get married , you will not be committing a sin or even if you decide to get married you will not be committing a sin. You will always be a true Christian even if you choose any of the two and you are Blessed.


Mildred wrote: According to Genesis 2:18, God saw that a man was lonely and created a woman. So, why is it that most people are still lonely even after they had married? Isn't this because of the mistake people make by thinking that their lives will be better if they get married or they'll be less lonely if they get married?

No one was created to be alone, but because of the Gift of Freewill , you can decide to be alone. I cant tell you why there are people who are Lonely, but some of the people who are lonely are not part of God , meaning  that God has left their body a long time ago. There are some who get married for the fear of being lonely you are correct. I am sorry i might not have answered you  in detail in this question. I do not have an answer for you about this one, i will ask God and when you see a post with the title "Why do we still have Lonely People" you will know the lord gave me an answer.  


Mildred wrote: "Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart". There are those who desire to only serve God without having 'their interests divided', which means they desire serving the Lord even in their single status. Do we then say they are wrong because God never meant for man to be alone?

Those who remain single are not wrong or guilty of sin, same applies to those who decide to get married. God will still be happy with them. For made man to be woman so that man cannot be lonely, but because man in heaven wont be lonely , there is no need for marriage.


Thank you for your questions Mildred.
 
God Bless


Vuyiswa  
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HLAMALANI MATHEBULA

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Jan 18, 2011, 7:31:22 AM1/18/11
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I think the point of the matter here is that we must strive to be holy...whether we are married or not. it is not easy but is is possible. John 1:12 to those that believe in Him He gives power to BECOME the children of God!-*rephrased*

becoming is a process. if none of us will ever be righteous b4 God in this age, why should we bother? cos we r made right by Christ rather than our works. He makes it possible for us as long as we want it. we transform our minds by the word

Vuyiswa Maseko

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Jan 18, 2011, 7:51:51 AM1/18/11
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Good Day HLAMALANI

Thank you for sharing the word. What you wrote is true.

God Bless 

Vuyiswa 
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