My life

[Lena Hafez]

Dear Mr.Swag 

My parents are too protective. They expect me to come home at 3:30 everyday after school. Back then they would tell me I need to start being outside more and hang out with my friends; and now whenever I ask to hang out with my friends they always say no. They think I'm going to get kidnapped or something.. Like when I get home from school all i ever do is sit down and do nothing. I have no life because of my parents, they think life is just about school. Sometimes I just sit down and start crying because their so protective it bothers me. And they only do this to me. When it comes to my brother, my mom doesn't care how long he takes after school. But when I'm late she yells at me. I don't know what to do. Every time I try to talk about it to my parents, they just ignore me. Please help :( 

[duaa Anjum]

Dear no name,

I can understand how you are feeling, you're not alone, many parents tend to act this way with their kids. But what you have to realize is that they're only over-protective because they really love you and want you to stay safe. Your parents are probably telling you to come home early not your brother because you're a girl. Girls are victims of most assaults and abuses compared to boys. What you also need to do is act mature. Show them by your actions and words that you're responsible and aware of your surroundings.When you find them in a good and relaxed mood, tell them how you feel when they keep treating you like a small child. Assure them you will not go out needlessly and be home before your curfew. Introduce them to your friends so they are aware of who you hang out with and know what kind of kids they are. You can even let them know that if possible, they can get you a cell phone so they can always keep in touch with you and know where you are. All parents love their kids, and once they realize how miserable you are, they will definitely start to play around with their strict rules to make sure you're happy too. 

Signed,

Mr.Swag